What am I doing wrong?

Does your pic look like this?
https://goo.gl/images/wx1b3e

Maybe Valentine’s Day isn’t a big day to scare up pussy on SA?

% of women on SA who contact you first, who aren't scammers, fat chicks, or dudes: 0

Go run a search you lazy fuck, and contact them first

I get "hot girls" trying to friend me on Facebook more than I want but when I check the profile, I find out it's really some guy in Africa trying to friend me using a fake profile. Stupid scammers don't even fix their sex to be female instead of male half the time.

Juice needs to write an article on this shit.

Or as Juice would spell it:

Joose needz 2 right artkel on dis.

Yeah. I’m not on sa, but I’d think you’d need to go look for them. I’ll keep this in mind tho, in case I ever do the sa thing.

If you're a female and find an interesting guy and want to give him a nudge, all you need to do is view his profile. All the guys go through their Who Viewed Me list hoping a hot chick came by

I have one close TUSCL buddy that uses SA and from his experiences I have no desire to try it. He has been at it for a couple of years and does manage to hook up for a lot of one night and short term arrangements but mostly in the 40ish range and 6 rating. The main reason he uses it is because he lives in a strip club waste land.

My profile is not searchable; waiting for girls to approach you is a waste of time.

Wrote about this on another thread, but just finished wonderful date with 21-yr-old pre-law student who's out here on cross-country scholarship. She grew up in San Francisco. We have a lot in common and she's very sexy. We ended up back at my house. Maybe ATF material. I've had mind-blowing fun on SA.

LOL!

The sugaring forum I follow had a discussion about whether Melania Trump is the ultimate SB. The consensus was "yes" and every single woman who responded said that there's no amount of money that would compel them to be with an old stupid clown like Trump. The sugaring scene is an alternate world or parallel universe compared to TUSCL where Trump is considered a great leader.

I agree w the sugar babies.

No SA for me. I will remain faithful to my Detroit strippers.

I like the way those sugar babies think in regards to Trump random member that orange clown is no leader of mine

Just run a search and send a simple message to the ones that interest you keep is short and sweet. As others have mentioned the only ones that will initiate contact are scammers, and frauds. You will get replies don’t endlessly message back and forth if you can’t get a contact phone number it two or three messages move on.
Last time I was on there I had 8 different SA girls over a two week period. I took my profile off at that point, when I get tired of these I’ll reactivate my account.
I find that the best results are when you don’t have your profile up for long enough to become recognized.

I’ve had exactly one legit girl contact me on SA first. The rest who contacted me first were all scammers wanting online only and money for nothing.

The one who did was a hooker, but hot as hell and worth every penny of what I gave her.

I would rather get a hooker - from SA. There’s a major benefit to paying upfront - and not having any recurrent aggangement. I like that.

I joined SA - but I didn’t want to pay to do anything -

Ya, it took me a while to hit my stride on SA... I was sort of balanced positive/negative about it when I wrote my article, but am definitely having more fun now. I absolutely still stand behind all the negatives I said it had: higher flake rate than strip clubs, the problem all photo-based media have (Match, backpage, SA, etc) that often real life doesn't match up to the pics, etc. But I seem to have gotten better and better at zeroing in on the experiences I"m looking for. Not a replacement for OTC for me, but a fun addition.

I think SA is a lot easier for the guys who are just basically using the place like it's backpage: that is, finding a "sugarbaby" who is really an escort, and having a one-nighter with her. Plenty of those girls around.

From an SB point-of-view I have ran into problems of guys wanting to treat me as if I was a hooker. Yes you run into flakes and fakes but there are still alot of great women on there. Preform the search. You are able to filter out age, distance, physical descriptions... You can pay for a premium account and keep your photo private but make another account where you can just browse through girls without have the premium Check next to your name. Alot of men are targeted because their account says premium so it might help if you have a second regular page where you are able to just browse. If a profile piques your interest then you can search her on your premium page and message her.
I also don't give out my telephone number until we've had at least 6 or 7 messages on SA. This ensures that the account is premium. On a regular page, you get a couple free messages if you upload a picture. I have had better luck with premium page than non-premium pages. It also shows that a man that's willing to pay the monthly membership isn't pressed to pay that monthly allowance which he promises me to get in my undies.

@AmeliaSmith just out of curiosity might I ask how old you are. I found the girls younger than 27-28 to be flakey as fuck. I mean that you’d be in the middle of a text convo and all of a sudden the stop responding than a day or two later they’ll try to pick up the convo exactly where they left off.

@ 25 - yeah, that can be really anno

@25, I am 19. I agree. Most girls under 25 claim to be SBs on the website but they don't understand how much work and effort actually goes into the lifestyle. Alot of girls are led to believe that the SB lifestyle is easy and that they will have men falling to feet because they consider themselves a strong 7 or 8. In Dallas on SA, I think the ratio of SB to SD is 10 to 1. Alot of girls aren't use to the competition and the ones that do manage to get a man to respond don't realize the work that they have to put in to make a successful arrangement.

Why not just go to a strip club and find a girl you like?

SJG

extreme income inequality and housing problems in Bay Area
https://www.mercurynews.com/2018/02/15/i…

@AmeliaSmith-I usually set my search parameters to ages 27-38 slim or athletic, preference for ethnic woman with long hair, and I try to weed the worst of the goldiggers out, with a few questions, I always ignore wish lists, and requests for first meet payment, plus I really do not hire hookers. I look for a FWB relationship, and am far from cheap, I have no issues with helping a GF with rent, or tuition, but if there is no chemistry, I will not pursue it.
Being that you are so young I prolly would have missed you, that is my loss I guess, because you seem to be well put together and thoughtful.

The search doesn't help sometimes. You never know what you might find. I only found my last SD because he massaged me first. He fit all of my parameters but somehow his profile still slipped through the cracks. If you keep seeing profiles that you have already seen, I suggest clicking the "Unviewed" box. It is easy to miss but highly helpful.

Ask our expert Rick Dugan. I believe that he would say to use The System (tm), and that means going to a strip club. Training course and licensing rates are reasonable.

SJG

-->"From an SB point-of-view I have ran into problems of guys wanting to treat me as if I was a hooker. "

Yep, have heard this plenty. As I'm sure you realize, the problem here is that: there ARE a lot of hookers on SA, and they want to be treated like a hooker... by which I mean, they don't want to "waste time", just want to know price, and day/time. Doesn't interest me at all, but the guys pursuing those women 1. have been conditioned to just give "$300? 8pm tonight?" emails by the more escort-y women, and 2. there's no negative consequences for them for sending that kind of email to a more classic SB. I'm the one who sees the negative consequences, because all the SBs are already irritated and suspicious from getting messages they consider rude. Again, I'm sure you realize all this

-->"I also don't give out my telephone number until we've had at least 6 or 7 messages on SA."

Heh, I don't even unlock my private pics (with my face pic) until we've had 3 or so exchanges. This seems to weed out some of the more escort-model types, since they view messaging as a "waste of time" (which they endlessly remind the men of, on their profile) and won't last that long.

Gawker - just open the puzzle box and you will learn the delights of both pleasure and pain.

I guess I'm scrapping my plans for a 2020 presidential run.

I was banking on strippers being all in for Presidential Penis, but BJ brought my hopes crashing down.

@AmeliaSmith
"From an SB point-of-view I have ran into problems of guys wanting to treat me as if I was a hooker."

Huh? I'm not really up on the sugar arrangements, never looked into it.

But if you are a SB, aren't you a hooker?
Are you looking for role-play where they will treat you like something else?

Gawker there are windows of opportunity that open up..........a month before Christmas for instance............at the beginning and end of each semester if you are near a college town...............if you are looking for a stripper they seem to be a bit more on SA starting in April and through the summer months..........come Fall they tend to pull back a bit.

At the moment I can't say enough good about SA but a lot of my positives have to do with my recent meets. I let my membership go dormant recently.........