Dancers initiating the OTC conversation
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
How common is it that dancers initiate the OTC conversation with you?
For me, this is pretty rare, especially from an attractive dancer that I’m potentially interested in. But I had a kinda cute blond girl an a non-extras club take the initiative the other day. It was weird because it was like she was running my system on me. I passed for several reasons, but it was at least a little bit of a turn on to have the girl being the one pursuing sex.
For me, this is pretty rare, especially from an attractive dancer that I’m potentially interested in. But I had a kinda cute blond girl an a non-extras club take the initiative the other day. It was weird because it was like she was running my system on me. I passed for several reasons, but it was at least a little bit of a turn on to have the girl being the one pursuing sex.
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Has happened to me a few times with girls in non extras clubs, and each time it happened after I'd gotten dances from them on successive club visits (and perceived to be a regular or becoming one). With one of them (young and super hot), I suspect her pot smoking video game playing BF was pimping her out - that, or she just wanted to make more money, I couldn't tell which.
And with girls who it's not offered to everyone, yes as to the criteria being not creeping her out and having the corn to pay for it. Has nothing to do with how incredibly sexy I am (not).
But, I usually only spend time with my CF, and she won't do OTC, except for meals.
It is nice to be OTC propositioned by a lower-volume girl.
I will note that when I discuss SA with strippers, the rate at which strippers directly or indirectly suggest OTC is very high. As I've said repeatedly, nearly every stripper is on SA (even if she just created the account on autopilot and hasn't been pursuing it), and if she thinks you're seriously looking for a sugarbaby, she'll engage on that... it's like an OTC proposition without ever mentioning OTC. "Oh, I'm on SA too! Do you have a sugarbaby right now? You should hit me up!".
Sorry to get sidetracked. If I went to more non extras I would expect to get it offered more but to answer your question “no.” It’s very rare to get offered that in my experience.
I've had some proposals in the past but non recently in part b/c I don't get too chummy with the girls
For me, dancers have often advertised to me about OTC. Some have even said, "We should make an appointment". Others talk about how they do Bachelor Parties. While that may be true, the reason they are saying it to everyone is to let them know that they do OTC. And then at our underground Mexican Bar circuit, most all the girls do OTC. So they are nuzzling, and quite kissable. And some just push their sternum into a guys face and announce, "I'm looking for gigs", and then they might lower down a bit and press forehead to forehead. And some, after some talk, will say, "Well, we're full service here too." They say all sorts of stuff, thinly veiled. At San Jose T's, now gone, some were passing out business cards with their 1-800 number. Nominally the card is for party services. While they probably do like that kind of business, more often than not what they will be getting is 1:1 OTC's.
I think it has come down to a couple of things:
1. Sometimes being a known regular, and someone lots of dancers have talked with, so seen as safe and not LE.
2. Times I have been wearing a suit, which is not my norm, and coming in there close to closing. You see girls working very hard to line up OTC. More night shift girls do it than day shift. Dayshift girls are more likely to have kids or an SO. Nightshift girls are crazy.
3. Being someone who prefers dives and shitholes, as he likes the sorts of women he meets there. Even though our clubs are low mileage, that is all we have, so the girls work there.
And some do not believe it, on night shifts, some girls initiate DFKing with anyone who gives them $1, seemingly because they want OTC. And they are very good.
SJG
SJG
The other was a girl that was dancing for another guy when she heard me get turned down when I asked my dancer to meet up otc.
I never had a female in a regular club walk up to me and ask to have sex from the start.
From an attractive dancer.
And I fumbled.
I was new to strip club scene.
Months later - that fumble lead to spectacular recovery and touchdown!
So much so I wrote and article to re-live it.
https://www.tuscl.net/article.php?id=346…
Title: I got laid by a Perfect 10