This is fucked up, but I had some ITC extra action Wednesday and today. Both times, no happy ending. Yea, she got a rise outa me, especially the second one. Fuckin sucks.
What's going on in your personal life outside the club?
Think about how arousal is emotional for women. We as men are the same way just 99% of the time it's not to the same degree. Occasionally our emotional lives can really impact the ability to orgasm.
Take some time away from the club and relax. Make sure you are caught up on sleep. Things will go back to normal you just can't force it.
I agree - it sucks. But it’s possibly due to external factors. Stress can definitely cause difficulty in cuming. Your might think you are fully into it - but your subconscious can be distracted. Online porn can also contribute to it.
Stress, diet, age, lack of exercise, booze, smoking, nerves, expectations. Who knows?
But at some point in life we need to take better care of ourselves. Age happens. And lifestyle choices eventually matter. Doctor’s advice is never fun but they aren’t trying to be killjoys just to be mean.
Maybe your specific disappointments have a different cause but, in general, age and lifestyle take their toll. We can’t do anything but accept age. On the other hand, shooting improves if we work at it.
Even after she gave head you didn't cum and you are under 39. MAY be she is not hot enough.How many dances you took before she gave you head.You need some foreplay.
On other note, Don do those kind of stuff ITC or with strippers .They are not girl friends.Keep the fantasy wi th in the club.Yoy might have for scared and that prevented you from cumming
ay sometimes you are going to have one of those days. the load feels like not cumming out. chooses to remain "locked in." one day i fucked, assjobed, and bj from 3 different girls didn't get it done. fuck that night sucked!!! left and resigned and tried again another day.
Basically the combination of watching too much porn, recently only orgasming like once per week, and taking large quantities of Tongkat Ali, which i’m convinced gives you a lot of stamina, which is not good in this case.
First girl was a thick Cuban girl that wasn’t really my ideal type, but I hadn’t found any that I really liked in Tootsies so I went with her. Second girl was much more my type, young thin and fit Cuban girl from Dean’s Gold with a pretty face. She got me close but she kept stopping and going.
There's a saying, sex is as much between the ears as it is between the legs. With that said, it might be worth taking a look at that supplement you are taking and its side effects.
The Mrs here thinks that I and some others are too critical of porn and masturbation. Though I don't know if you guys are doing too much of a good thing.
Maybe try that fasting thing that GACA mentioned in another thread. I find fasting helps clear & re-center me for lots of things other than sex. Give it a try.
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Think about how arousal is emotional for women. We as men are the same way just 99% of the time it's not to the same degree. Occasionally our emotional lives can really impact the ability to orgasm.
Take some time away from the club and relax. Make sure you are caught up on sleep. Things will go back to normal you just can't force it.
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But at some point in life we need to take better care of ourselves. Age happens. And lifestyle choices eventually matter. Doctor’s advice is never fun but they aren’t trying to be killjoys just to be mean.
Maybe your specific disappointments have a different cause but, in general, age and lifestyle take their toll. We can’t do anything but accept age. On the other hand, shooting improves if we work at it.
On other note, Don do those kind of stuff ITC or with strippers .They are not girl friends.Keep the fantasy wi th in the club.Yoy might have for scared and that prevented you from cumming
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First girl was a thick Cuban girl that wasn’t really my ideal type, but I hadn’t found any that I really liked in Tootsies so I went with her. Second girl was much more my type, young thin and fit Cuban girl from Dean’s Gold with a pretty face. She got me close but she kept stopping and going.
The Mrs here thinks that I and some others are too critical of porn and masturbation. Though I don't know if you guys are doing too much of a good thing.
Maybe try that fasting thing that GACA mentioned in another thread. I find fasting helps clear & re-center me for lots of things other than sex. Give it a try.