Maybe all PL's are feminist: Yes Means Yes Consent

Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.

1/19/2018 7:23:12 AM

Was talking to my sister the other day about the Aziz Ansari incident. The conclusion of the article was that men should only assume sex is in play when the female gives an overwhelming enthusiastic "yes".

I told her the reason why I like to go to strip clubs it is because there is no guessing games involved where men are left to be mind readers (or vague ambivalent body language readers) where far to often we make the wrong assumptions about intent. And that has worked both ways where sex was in Play but the girl was shy or nervous ; and of course opposite when girls a aggressive teasers.

I noticed a lot of guys on this forum appreciate the fact that clear intent is a strip club norm. She wants money and i want to cop a feel. Hell if I want more i can ask and we can proceed forward or not.

Point is most PLs I know have been following the "Yes means Yes" model of consent for years... So maybe we're all more feminist than we give ourselves credit

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jackslash

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7 years ago

Women always want men to guess. I once asked a girl where she wanted to go for dinner. She said, "You decide." So I told her my decision. She told me I was wrong.

FTS

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7 years ago

You're not feminists, and you're not a masculinist. You're not a Christian, or a Buddhist, or a Marxist, or a capitalist, or a Democrat. You're not a scientist, nor a professor, nor a slave, nor a master. You're not a rapist, and you're not a PL.

You are who you are, you do what you do, and your causes will have effects.

P.S. what EXACTLY is a feminist, anyway? There is/was only one feminist. His name is Jesus Christ and women around the world think he's God. He can be the perfect gentleman and lick pussy better than anybody.

Salty.Nutz

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7 years ago

before language, i wonder how men would get consent...would flashing ass hole and pussy mean yes?

Cashman1234

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7 years ago

This shit is getting more confusing each day! Now we need an enthusiastic yes? I’m glad I’m not a young guy trolling for pussy these days!

When I was young - we didn’t have camera phones - or the internet. It wasn’t necessarily better - but it wasn’t as confusing either!

FTS

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7 years ago

^^^ ironically enough, my only real lay with a civvie chick was with a girl I met on OkCupid. I was a total chauvinistic, asshole... but I did get an explicit "yes." Although, technically it was an explicit "No, [don't use a condom]."

skibum609

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7 years ago

The whole incident makes me wonder why we are required to pretend that women aren't the weaker sex and are equal. If fucking someone drunk you would never fuck sober is rap I was raped about 100 times in college. Maybe we should prepare an agreement and have the woman initial each step: 1) kissing; 2) feel tit; 3) suck tit; 4) rub pussy; 5) finger insertion; 6) dining; 7) she wants to touch dick ...... I don't blame women for this, I blame the women with a limp penis called male progressives.

Salty.Nutz

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7 years ago

his "victim" was free to leave, but dude couldnt read girls non-verbals. so he did v shape with fingers and stuck them down her throat. she also gave him a blowie

Tiredtraveler

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7 years ago

The women who work in strip clubs are in charge(Unless it is a white slave place) where no means no and there are guys there to enforce her will!

MackTruck

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7 years ago

Teach them how to douggy and give Shadowcat a Ron Jeremy blow up doll

Papi_Chulo

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7 years ago

This is actually what is being taught in the ultra liberal college campuses these days - apparently women are too weak to be able to say no - e.g. if 2 college kids meet at a bar, they've been drinking, they go back to his apartment and have sex, she wakes up the next day feeling like a ho and regretting it, she can then cry rape b/c he never stopped to ask her "ok do you really really really wanna do this?", even though she could have chosen not to leave the bar with him and couldn've chosen to leave his apartment - a lot it people lile to clqim victim status and not accept responsibility for their actions.

Salty.Nutz

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7 years ago

its like everyday while walking to work you see a homeless guy and you give him money. no words or pleasantries are exchanged but you know he is begging for money. one day you decide to call the cops because you feel robbed and want your money back.

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