PLs and Strippers who hangout with each other all night, what’s going on?
Playademan
New York
Just curious, I’m a regular at a few clubs and even consider myself “friends” with some of the ladies. As in they know my face and will come by and say hi everytime. But I’ve never gone to the club to hang out with one stripper all night long. My usual trip consists of some small talk moving on to dances/vip depending on how I feeling and that’s the end of my interactions with the lady, they might stop by to say hi later on and see how I’m doing but nothing crazy. Just wondering what’s going on there and how much money is being made. Obviously I’m not keeping tabs all the time but I don’t notice many dances and am unaware how much money if any is being exchanged during this hangout time.
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Of course, that last one, we've discussed ad nauseum until it's so frustrating that I feel like grabbing tuscl and shaking it like it's a baby. But, to recap, the answer is: you (and I, and everyone else here) has no idea how much that PL is spending on that stripper. Just because you don't see them doing dances, that does not mean ANYTHING. He might do all his dances at once at the end of the night. He might have just paid her rent. He might just hand her $1000 at the end of the night without even doing any dances. The one thing you can probably rely on is: this is her job, she's not hanging out with him for her health, there's some amount of money being exchanged that makes her feel like she's being fairly remunerated... even if you don't see a single dance or exchange.
I am a "one stripper for the entire 3-5 hours I'm there" kind of PL, and often easily go 90 minutes between dances, so if you watched us for an hour, you might never see us doing a single dance ... but dance, we do, young skywalker.
Now as to why a PL will just sit and drink with a stripper next to him for hours is unknown to me. I'm not into it myself. At most I want an hour and there has to be direct dick teasing as a part of it, otherwise I prefer maybe 15 minutes of small talk and some good spooning with my dick between her ass cheeks and/or feeling on her ass before getting dances that end in LDK. But that's just me and other PLs may not want this, so if sitting and talking for hours with a stripper is your thing, have at it.
I don't know if you read my recent threads. I posted exactly same scenario in one of my threads. This guy spends with the dancer from 9 pm to 1.15 pm .That dancer won't spend time with anybody else or won't ask any other customers for dances . I once asked her directly how much she charges for all night.she smiled and told me I can't ask that. But I saw then going to champagne room and then after taking break going to couch room dances.Also saw him going to ATM and giving her money.
But this is far more common in lower mileage clubs like ours, where they can't just hit guys up for dances because they couldn't do more than they could do on stage.
So in the high mileage clubs, this low or no cost talking time is less common.
For now, what I would say is just have your immediate OTC place worked out, home or otherwise, and a safe date, like lunch, and a regular date place, lined up before you even walk into the club. If you hit it off with a girl you like, get her outside of the club at the earliest opportunity.
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She prefers familiar regulars, some of them homely overweight guys who will tip $20 per ten minutes just to talk with a pretty girl. She would rather do that than sell dances.
In strip clubs it’s - money, money, money. If you ever wonder why’s she hanging with him? He’s fat and old - and ugly! It’s because he’s paying her - and he consistently pays her.
I would like to disagree on this one. It may happen sometimes but not all the time.The club where I go have cameras every where in couch room,in vip,in champagne room etc..It's not an extras club.I asked that girl too how can you dance so many hours with that guy.She told me she just sit and talk with him.He won't take any dances except one or two.
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Most of those guys talking with those girls for hours are getting ITC or OTC, they wouldn't be dishing out the $ to get her to stay for hours otherwise
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She does it for the money the vast majority of the time. Like others said, it may not be so much about the amount as the consistency and certainty. She knows I'm gonna spend; she's not gonna invest hours with me and get zero. And she knows as long as I have a good time I'll be back to do it again soon. Some days she's in a bad mood and doesn't feel like hustling. Some days she's got a needy regular who she wants to make jealous or prove a point to, so she sits with me. From the outside looking in, you really can't know why she's there that day.
On rare occasions, its just that we enjoy talking to each other. Those relationships tend to move OTC when that happens but its not like one visit its a quick "wanna dance" and the next we're grabbing dinner & a movie. It gradually builds from a quick chat & a wanna dance to a more in depth conversation & potentially no dances. Again, depending on where you catch us in that progression you may see what looks like a stripper hanging out with a customer all night for nothing.
Some girls just operate that way, meaning they like to hang with one or two customers per shift. They don't like to jump from customer to customer. Maybe it makes them feel like a whore to do that. Maybe they don't like the rejection. Maybe they do like being the object of affection. Maybe a combo.
Looks like you nailed it. I saw exactly the way you described with a dancer and the guy. Though I became successful in having her for 45 minutes she finally requested me that somebody waiting for her if I am staying late she will come back later.
She is 9.75 though I never saw how a perfect 10 looks like. These kind of dancers make a killing if they work fulltime and have 5 regulars like these.
I went to the club when my "ex"-ATF returned to work after 2+ years of 'domestic bliss' (not with me!) a few months back. She was worried about her game, yet she did dance with an old regular or two, but for the 5 hours I was there she was with me 4 1/2. No one would guess that I wasn't on her payroll outside of just 2 sets of dances.
Some girls know a whale is coming, and will just hang with her fave PL in the room until he shows up. I had a CF that had a big ITC date coming, but she was with me (for free) until he showed up.
Some may actually just like the guy even on a first meeting. That happened to me once - a rookie dancer just sat on my lap until 2 AM. And I wasn't tipping her. Never saw her again though.