You ever ditched an OTC

23 comments

• Corvus

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  7 years ago

  A bird in hand is better than two in the bush. Until the two in the bush are better, less expensive and gauranteed fun. Pussy is great but so is cash, I say make the cash go as far as possible for the most fun.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  Do what you want and what will give you the best time
• twentyfive

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  7 years ago

  It’s your money spend it to you’re benefit not hers.
• joc13

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  7 years ago

  If by "ditch" you mean cancel at last minute, or No Show, then I'd say an emphatic "No". Yes, you could use an excuse of "emergency at work" or "emergency at home", but that would be the type of thing strippers do to us that we hate. You run the risk of the stripper talking bad about you and maybe hurting your chances for other OTCs. (Admittedly, I'm talking from my escort experience here. The escorts I knew kept close tabs on the guys who made appts and cancelled last minute. I'm learning strippers are probably not so well organized.) If you mean just cancelling with enough notice to not be rude, it sounds like you're already OK with that choice. You say you know she's good, so if that means you've already spent the big bucks once to experience the super hotness, no need to go back again.
• rickdugan

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  7 years ago

  Yes I have. If you're not feeling it then cancel. Just keep in mind that you may have more trouble hooking up with her in the future once you do this, but if that's not a huge concern then by all means. It's your money - spend it on what works best for you. It shouldn't be too hard to think up a decent excuse.
• lick-that

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  7 years ago

  Agree with Joc13. Been there done that. Big bucks are reserved for new experiences. Need not worry about being flaky... Really?? Look who you're talking about here.
• Bj99

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  7 years ago

  You might want to consider seeing her this time, but then cutting back so that you can also see the other girls. If they get flakey (or annoying) on you, you’ll still have her.
• Huntsman

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  7 years ago

  I agree with joc13 and Bj99. I'd say see her this time then move on if you want. We hate it when they flake on us.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  She's a stripper, she wants $$$ - with some exceptions, she'll gladly hook up with you in the future to get more $$$ - IME/IMO, there are very very few things a PL can do that will cause a stripper to not wanna take his $$$ anymore - this thing that many PLs write about what a stripper will think or do if we do 'X', is weak - we pay them for them to plrase us, some on here pay and then bend over backwards to also please them and are afraid of "making her unhappy" - sucks to pay her and also have her be the boss - some on here treat their prostitutes as if they were their wife that they don't wanna upset
• shadowcat

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  7 years ago

  I've never "ditched" one but I have withdrawn an offer after she tried to tack on some amendments to the agreement that I didn't go along with.
• Bj99

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  7 years ago

  One thing a pl can do to make someone else’s money look better than his, is treat us like we aren’t worth it, by picking some other girl over us at the last min. It’s no different than being ditched for a new customer who is coming in and spends a little more than you, eventho you have been a good regular.
• Timbuck12

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  7 years ago

  I’ve bailed a couple times when the girl was 45 minutes late. I understand they are ALWAYS going be at least a little late but sometimes you have to draw the line. Both times it resulted in the girl being on time from then on.
• JohnSmith69

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  7 years ago

  In my experience, it is well worth it to pay extra to get the best possible paid girlfriend experience with the hottest girl. But every loser has to decide for themselves based up their unique situation whether they can afford to play like that.
• NaturalSelection

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  7 years ago

  I vote for both on the same day. Get a room and bang the hottie in the afternoon, go to a strip club and relax for a few hours, and return to the room to be the center of attention in a threesome. And I just can't help but throw my armature psychologist hat on... You're experiencing cognitive dissonance. You made a deal with her based on a set of beliefs, "she is good." You're now thinking of canceling based on a set of conflicting beliefs, "she also is expensive as hell." It's healthy to see this and weigh belief sets, its unhealthy to try and force both sets to coexists. You're suffering for cognitive dissonance and you're handling well.
• larryfisherman

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  7 years ago

  Not last minute, but I’ve cancelled a couple hours before the scheduled meetup where I changed my mind and didn’t feel like spending all that money that day.
• lick-that

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  7 years ago

  @Papi 100%
• Uprightcitizen

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  7 years ago

  Never day-of. I guess for the girls I have seen OTC I am expecting repeat visits later on and I dont like burning up that trust equity. My expectations are also high she will make her appointments with me and I have ended OTC with girls if the have been very late or absent. My time is valuable and she better respect that or we are over.
• Digitech

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  7 years ago

  I have canceled after committing to an OTC. Not sure if that's the same as ditching. I was on a long trip across several states. I took a break at a club and met a stripper who agreed to meet at her motel after she finished her shift that night. She was quite hot. After I left the club I realized I needed to get moving to reach my destination on time. Plus, if I stayed up late banging her, I would be even further behind because I would wake up late the next day. So I told her by text that I couldn't make it well before her shift ended. I'll confess that I was partly just practicing my skills and didn't fully intend to do the OTC when I asked her to do it. Kind of a lame thing for a PL to do, especially if she didn't accept offers from other PLs because she thought she had something set.
• Doces300

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  7 years ago

  Well I cancelled. But I make better excuses than most and I have spent enough money on her in the last 3mths to make her fairly forgiving especially since she knows I will spend money on her again.
• flagooner

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  7 years ago

  I've always thought a bird in the bush was better than one in the hand, much less two. That's just my opinion though.
• Daddillac

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  7 years ago

  I think it goes back to the golden rule... Treat others like you want to be treated.... It is hard to do though, especially when we get treated the way we do. I think it is one of the toughest things in the world to not treat people the same way they treat you, but I sleep better at night knowing that I did the right thing even if the other person did not. If you do what they do then you are no better than them which makes you average. If you are average you have to determine if you are the best of the worst or the worst of the best and neither is a good place to be
• ButterMan

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  7 years ago

  never. If I agree to the price i stick to it. Now if I ever feel like spending that money on her again is another thing.
• Tiredtraveler

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  7 years ago

  Yes, When we met up her price went up. I bailed. When she told me the she was not going to abide by her promises is said "I see", told her I had to go to the restroom, gave the waitress money for the bill and left. I did not lie I just went to the rest room back at my hotel.(in case she had brought a 'friend')