Have any men here been sexually "assaulted" by a woman?

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• WillMunny

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  7 years ago

  Can't recall any unwanted physical interaction, but I've had several occasions when a woman I didn't know (or welcome advances from) made her attraction known in a way that made me uncomfortable. On the first day of 7th grade there was a screw-up with my registration, so I ended up with a small group of students being walked through the halls as the administrator handling our paperwork went from classroom to classroom adding a couple of us to each homeroom group. While one group was being "handed off" the rest of us were left in the hall unescorted. A tall brunette that I'd never met before eyed me up and down and told me "You look gooood!" Not knowing how to react - the gal wasn't hideous, but a bit thick and a lot white trash for my tastes at the time - I just said "Thanks." We ended up in different homerooms so I never really saw her again the rest of the school year, and pretty much forgot about the incident. Fast forward to a year or two after college, I was visiting my hometown and went to lunch with a friend at a local restaurant. Who should turn out to be my waitress but the same tall brunette! I recognized her immediately and remembered the previous incident, which I obviously wasn't about to bring up, but she immediately started fawning over me *again* ("Oh my, you are so handsome!" etc). What made it all the more awkward/strange was that my friend, whom the waitress was blatantly ignoring to flirt with me, was female (strictly platonic, but she had no way of knowing that). I did tip her decently despite the "harassment."
• FTS

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  7 years ago

  Not sure if it would be considered assault, but I was once at a buddy’s college party, nothing crazy just a bunch of geeks drinking in an apartment. At one point there was a group hug, and one of the girls groped my dick and balls. Only lasted about a half second, but it was clear she wanted to feel what was going on in my pants. Unfortunately I was too drunk and I don’t know who did it.
• Longball300

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  7 years ago

  Cutting through the cashier line at a department store, narrow aisle..... I get my ass grabbed.... I was only about 22..... turned around surprised and here are two MILFY looking ladies standing there with big grins on their face. I was too shocked and naive to follow up.
• Doces300

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  7 years ago

  In college, while playing pinball in a bar, a girl kept grabbing my ass. She said it was because she wanted me to lose. I was so traumatized that I ended up marrying her.
• theDirkDiggler

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  7 years ago

  Boo hoo to you. Seriously though, it's hard to take sexual assault/harassment from women to men seriously. One, it just doesn't seem to happen much and two, the fantasy is always that the woman doing it is hot. Now if the woman doing it was some big fat hideous psychopathic predator type, hell yeah i would feel scared and violated and traumatized.
• shadowcat

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  7 years ago

  I was raped by my baby sitter. I remember telling my parents about how much fun my sister and I had with the baby sitter. And then I remember my father driving me over to the baby sitter's house and telling her father how we played "hide the weenie". I just don't remember if she was good looking or not.
• larryfisherman

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  7 years ago

  Strippers sexual assault me all the time, they grab my dick without my consent haha.
• Jascoi

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  7 years ago

  ditto ;)
• etsutwigg222

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  7 years ago

  I was just on CA and TX, so I was assaulted repeatedly by young and old nursing students!!! Each was searching for a donation to their fund. 4 actually made good oral presentations resulting in a direct deposit!!!
• ChromesClassy

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  7 years ago

  I commonly wake my fiancee up with blowjobs... technically sexual assult as he can't... Technically when he wakes me up by playing with me it's sexual assult.
• ChromesClassy

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  7 years ago

  As he can't consent...goodness is there an edit button here? Clearly I'm new
• gawker

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  7 years ago

  When I was 17 I was working on the loading dock of a factory and driving a '58 Pontiac Super Chief which had a front seat about the size of a king sized bed. One of the girls who worked in packing and I went on a date and I took her parking in a secluded sand pit. I was planning on swapping spit and if I got lucky, maybe get my hand under her bra. After about 10 minutes of fooling around she sat back and unbuckled my belt and unzipped my fly and slid my pants down, lifted her skirt and didn't have any panties on. I remember her pushing me back and climbing on me and to this day I'm unsure whether my junk got inside her or not but I was flooded with a nice warm feeling and realized I'd probably lost my virginity. I didn't even consider hiring an attorney.
• gammanu95

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  7 years ago

  I've actually considered legitimately posting #metoo on facebook, Instagram, and twitter; but I don't want to lose every female friend and follower I have. I've had my ass and crotch grabbed, or strange girls stroke my chest at plenty of bars and parties. I specifically remember one random girl grabbing my ass at a bar while I was leaving after last call. I wound up taking her and her friend him with me for an all weekend three-way fuck fest. I also had one female boss that stalked me. It started out with her showing up at parties I had mentioned in my weekend plans. Then she made friends with my friends, so sue could hang out with the same group as me. Finally she started showing up at my house, just parking in my driveway at night. She got fired for something unrelated when all this reached a crescendo. Afterwards, it seemed like everyone at work knew about her massive crush on me before I did. Btw, she was ugly. Reminded me of a cross between a turtle and an ostrich. Lastly, there was a 6'2" amateur model working in the same office as me once. Married, with a kid, we always flirted but I thought it was innocent. Then she showed up early, like I always did, cornered me in my office. She nearly seduced me. Her hand job game was the strongest I've ever known and she never took my pants off. I ended it after a couple of make-out sessions when I realized she was a complete hormonal nut, and she just moved on to the next guy in the office. I think she was getting back at her husband. So, yeah, I could legitimately post #metoo, bit I had fun so why complain?
• rh48hr

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  7 years ago

  I've had my ass grabbed numerous times walking through dance clubs and bars. Since none of these gropings lead to me getting laid they were all unwanted advances :-)
• Rick999

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  7 years ago

  I've been grabbed, sucked, and even bitten but I enjoyed most of it.
• Rick999

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  7 years ago

  I had some girls whistle at me while walking past a girl's dorm building in college. It was a strange feeling. I did not know who did it. I was all alone so they couldn't have whistled at anyone else. One time in college while walking past a soccer field with some girls practicing, I realized my underwear was too loose when one girl shouted out across the soccer field. Her words "Nice Dick" I have no idea if she knew me from somewhere. Girls do all kinds of stuff and guys like me just take it. Meanwhile some guys in the news do something to some ladies and you hear how horrible they are.
• Rick999

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  7 years ago

  Women can do stuff guys can't. I remember in one club, a woman came up to me and said we need more guys like you at my club. I'm a club owner of club xyz whatever. She has her breasts rubbing up against my chest she is so close. Then she hands me 4 passes. Not one guy I remember ever complained about a woman's breasts rubbing up against them. I do remember one guy said he got a black eye from a really hard boob though. He complained.
• Rick999

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  7 years ago

  I think I remember reading a story on here about someone dodging breast milk squirting. A dancer was doing some pump action with her boobs.
• Jascoi

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  7 years ago

  i've been assaulted by females and confirm the assault with repeated visits to the area.
• theDirkDiggler

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  7 years ago

  None of the experiences described here sound anything like assault or traumatizing. Certainly nothing that would require years of therapy. Unless you call going to the strip club for more self-inflicted assault therapy.
• theDirkDiggler

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  7 years ago

  In the civilian world, i'm a more don't touch or be touched type of guy and tend to not like my personal space encroached on, say like in a line in a store or at the movies. Of course the strip club is a different world entirely. I remember early in my SCing years, there was a dancer i wasn't attracted to and flatly refused her a dance. She was kind of upset and as she left the table, she grabbed my junk, gave a little squeeze and shake, and laughed as she walked away before i could do anything. I was pretty pissed and upset for a good while (like several minutes after she was gone), but didn't bother taking it up with management or anything. I can still remember the experience and how it felt to this day. Oh well, i survived... At the same club, but different day, i was at the stage talking to another female customer (or more specifically she was "bothering" me as i don't usually talk to other customers) about the girl on stage and she asked me who was my favorite. I told her and pointed her out in the club. After the dancer finished up on the stage, sure enough, the DJ called up my favorite girl and the custy left (with her boyfriend too who was sitting next to her) telling me enjoy your girl and grabbed my thigh pretty strongly. I was like WTF? Do i know you? Don't touch me. Of course i was just thinking all that, but it was just very weird to me in general. And if she was naked instead of fully and frumpily dressed (she wasn't bad looking), she would have been less threatening strangely (a naked man is very threatening, especially to women, but a naked woman just seems more vulnerable). Nowadays, I'm so used to intimate handshakes and generic stickshifting from mediocre dancers that incidents like the above probably wouldn't bother me much. I still don't like to be touched intimately by girls i'm not going to dance with though and will often block them. But you have to remember that at the club, most PLs often welcome such touching from the dancer and they're usually attractive people, so their "assaulting" doesn't feel as such.