Social Media and ATF
SebastianCobb
California
I can't figure out why she wont add me on her social media. We seem close and do a lot together....yet she wont add me to her social media. Everytime I ask her, she comes up with a lame excuse. Yet she has other customers on her social media. Why is that?...
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Because you're not as close as you think you are?
Ace
That being said, and since you are so adamant about getting a straightforward and honest answer...
She would be embarrassed to let anyone know that she knows you. She doesn't view you as a PL, she sees you a a FL, a complete and total full-fledged FUCKING LOSER.
There's your answer. No need to keep asking.
You come across as way too clingy and needy, all the more reason she mqy want to keep u at arm's length else u probably be blowing up her social media.
These chicks have their lives outside the club and for the most-part they don't wanna be dealing with custies when they are not on the clock.
Oh and FWIW I just trusted you on TUSCL for not giving a fuck.
We're not going to know why. We're not there.
I don’t use fb anymore - and I’m glad I don’t. I followed some dancers - and I knew some simply weren’t worth following. Based on the murky logic of how fb creates suggestions on who to follow - I’m glad that I’m no longer on.
With that said, I also don't see any point in being friends with them on social media. We're only friends in the club. It's not like we are friends in real life.
And social media is real life.
She may be concerned you will post comments like, "last night was great, I can't wait to see you again"
She may have looked at your friends or your feed and decided she doesn't want any of your friends seeing anything about her or she objects to what you have on your feed.
I don't see that you've posted any of her excuses so I can't judge if they really are lame.
Totally Cold and heartless, but funny as hell. That poor guy OP. Sent him packing with his tail btwn his legs LMAO. Coming on here with that lame old, he has some balls. What did he really expect, a sympathetic hearing? You guys shot him down mercilessly, but it was a necessary mercy killing. Tough Love. Better he learns it here than at the SC. LMFAO
I'm not a fan of social media anyway, so maybe that's why. I wouldn't get worked up over not having it with your ATF, you not missing something worthwhile.
The only exception is a CF at one club with whom I've done several hot VIPs and even discussed OTC -- but she refuses to accept my friend request! It's not that she's uninterested in FB -- she has 100s of FB friends, some of whom are customers. She's extremely nice to me ITC -- she kisses me as soon as I arrive, gets very touchy-feely when we're sitting at some remote table, and is quite accommodating in the VIP room -- but for some reason she just doesn't want to be FB friends with me. She's also pretty bad about answering texts. I've finally reached the point where I can just let it go and accept her for what she is: a sweet, beautiful stripper who wants to keep our relationship strictly ITC.
houjack-->"In my very limited experience having social media with strippers isn't as exciting as I thought. Lots of stupid posts about dumb shit. "
While I enjoy social media, I can't argue with any of that, and especially on facebook and instagram, very often a completely manufactured facade overlaying their real life. That's among the many reasons why snapchat is my favorite, no text posts or inane comments or thumbs-up, skip past the pics of her eating and just enjoy the hot pics and vids of her and her hot friends partying, and since snapchat gives a false sense of security that your pics and vids eventually disappear, very easy to talk her into sending pics and vids.