What's the most you've ever spent on a single dancer ITC?

theDirkDiggler
Illinois
So seeing the recent discussions regarding ATFs has made me wonder how much do you have to spend on a dancer before you decide you've spent enough on her. So my main question is twofold. What is the most you have ever spent on a single dancer during one visit (not necessarily AFT)? And what is the most you have ever spent on a single dancer cumulative (most likely ATF)? I'm leaving this to ITC only, but if you want to say how much you spent OTC as well, that's fine too. I've spent an hour VIP ($500) and then a half hour VIP ($300) on one girl on one visit so $800 plus another $100 in tips. She probably kept around 500 of it (including the tip), but not much more as that club takes almost or around half of the VIP cost. She wasn't an ATF (although close), but by far my favorite at that club. Cumulatively, i've been seeing another dancer ITC over a 4+ year period and have probably spent over $3000 on her; i don't keep perfect track of exactly how much i spend on a dancer especially over numerous visits. She's also not currently an ATF, but was my favorite at that club as well and still is. ] Have never had a SB and OTC is usually one and done and still usually nowhere near $900 per outing (ITC record).

As a bonus question (reminiscent of SirLapdancealot's "the dogs got me" discussion): what's the most you've ever spent on a dancer that was no where near your favorite, but somehow she keeps on getting you for whatever reason? There are a couple girls that have moved around several of my favorite clubs and i've probably spent close to a thousand on both of them over a 3+ year period, more on one of them. I tend to avoid them now, despite having had very enjoyable times with them including a hot VIP.

And the final question since i don't want to make a separate discussion. What the most you've lost to a ROB in a VIP? There was a club that charged $400 for half an hour CR; it required a $100 bottle of champagne or similar even though i don't drink champagne or much alcohol at all and you paid this as a prepaid tab regardless if you spent it all. It would be nearly impossible to spend it on non alcoholic drinks as the girl was only 18 or 19 and they wouldn't serve her alcohol anyway nor would you want to waste time and bladder space in the room drinking that much. The girl was more of a newbie than a ROB as the room was more my idea but once inside she was not down for anything and was painfully shy, although years later, she never even became a "good" let alone great dancer eventually. Basically she did a 30 minute version of a medium contact dance per the club's rules. Since then, i have never done a room with a girl without doing a regular dance or several first and they better be damned good. Even then i rarely do rooms anymore, especially if they have that bogus prepaid bar tab.

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Htxx
7 years ago
$600/>$250,000/>$35,000/$300. I'm still pissed about the $300 to the ROB
theDirkDiggler
7 years ago
^ How did you spend > $35,000 on a girl that wasn't anywhere near a favorite? I just have a hard time wrapping my head around that unless that's an answer to a different question of mine (such as OTC or something).
Htxx
7 years ago
$35K is cumulative over a 21 year period. You asked I answered.
theDirkDiggler
7 years ago
^ So i guess that this girl started out as a favorite, but eventually became more of a dog? Because 21 years is a long time to see one dancer without getting tired of her, let alone spend good money on her. Heck it's a long time to dance period. But a 40+ year dancer can still be very hot. She just sounds closer to an ATF to me than the girl that serves a purpose. Well maybe not all time, but still very special. Thanks for answering though.
Htxx
7 years ago
Yes. She's 55 now I'm 51. She still has a banging body, but that face... Years of tanning and smoking haven't been kind to her. Lots of history though. I still enjoy her company. She gets great weed too. $200 hang out for a few hours at her place get stoned then get laid. It works for me. See her about once a month now usually on my way home from work when the traffic is bad. So instead of sit in stop and go trafic For over an hour and a half I go see her. She's always available short notice too.
SirLapdancealot
7 years ago
In my younger PL LIFE! I probably spent up to $400 on a splurge on two LDKs with the same dancer.

Nowadays with my ATF DS I have never spent more than $180 on her in one night.
theDirkDiggler
7 years ago
^ Yeah, you'd have to be younger to LDK twice from the same dancer on the same night. Although the logistics are a different story...
GoVikings
7 years ago
I don’t keep track, so I couldn’t say for cumlative. But $350 is the most I’ve ever spent on one dancer ITC. It was a 30 min VIP with my CF and I still can’t believe I did it. But I happened to have some extra cash that day and I had never done the nude room with her and boy was it worth it ;-)
DandyDan
7 years ago
Most I ever spent on one dancer for one visit was $400. As far as cumulative, I can't say, but I suspect it may be in the thousands. As for a non-favorite, I suspect it's probably about $1000. There was this one girl I would see at my old favorite club and she was mostly a tease, especially compared to the other girls there. But one time, she just wanted to fuck, and it was great. But it was just the one time. As for most lost to a ROB, that was probably the $200 I lost early on, before I had any real sense of what strip clubs were like.
joc13
7 years ago
Last winter I had two CFs in the same club, but they never worked the same nights.

One Saturday night I went in and they were both there, both came and sat with me, and both turned out to be attracted to the other.

So, I decided to splurge and spent $500 each for 1.5hrs in VIP (standard rate in that club on night shift was $200/half hour) with both of them, and $180 ($60/half hour) for the "big room" with the mirrored walls. Probably spent another $200 on table dances and drinks before the VIP.

The Pro: It was truly a Bucket List type experience.

The Con: I was working toward OTC with one of the girls, and the fact I was willing to splurge for this night triggered some serious GPS on her part.

I couldn't tell you the exact number, but the most I've spent on one girl would have been a girl I originally met back in early 2000s as a FBSM girl and then turned into more of a SB arrangement (although extremely low volume escort is probably more accurate). I probably saw her 1 to 4 times per month for $200 per time (plus dates, occasional gifts) for 4+ years. (This is one of those times I really wish I kept some type of diary.)

She was a true unicorn sex worker story. During the time I was seeing her, she also had a day job, finished her degree, dated regular guys (that didn't treat her like crap), and ended up engaged to one. That's when we stopped seeing each other, but at first she said we might cause she couldn't imagine not having some variety in her sex life (a monger's soul!). She ended up moving away shortly after getting married, so I never got to find out.
skibum609
7 years ago
ITC max $240.00; cumulative with my atf over 12 years? No idea.
Lurker_X
7 years ago
I have only been seriously clubbing for a few months... Most on one dancer in a night would be $200. Most total I'd say $800-$900. No true ROB experiences yet - just minor hustles and disagreements over song length or package pricing or whether touching tits is an "extra" I should tip more for.
SirLapdancealot
7 years ago
"^ Yeah, you'd have to be younger to LDK twice from the same dancer on the same night. Although the logistics are a different story..."

@theDirkDiggler age hasn't changed getting a couple of LDKs in a night. I have done it more often recently with my ATF DS but still I'm only in the mood a few times a year. It's just that now I don't pay as much (more like $125-$150) for two because I got better control of it and my ATF DS makes it really easy for me.

LOL I always got my logistics covered...
chessmaster
7 years ago
Im a variety guy and like to spread the wealth especially if theres multiple dancers i find hot. Only time i spend huge on one dancer is if she stands out among the rest. Im also convinced nowadays vip/cr are for suckers(unless theres at least some sucking going on).

Most spent on 1 dancer w/ extras: $300 or so
Most spent on 1 dancer no extras: $200 plus tip
Most spent on a rob(sort of. Not a rob as she never promised anything, but i got a 15 minute airdance and upsell, sapphire in vegas): $ 250
Most spent culmalative on 1 dancer: couldnt say as i rarely have seen the same dancer more than twice even on return trips to the club.
Mate27
7 years ago
$120-$140 in the club on one trip. No idea on cumulative.
Cashman1234
7 years ago
I’ve spent about $600 in one night on a dancer. I usually don’t put too much cash into a single dancer on a single night.

Over a few months - one of my atf girls probably got about $6,000 out of me.

I’ve gotten very lucky, as I’ve not gotten hit by a ROB. I’ve actually had two experiences where dancers returned money to me.
JimGassagain
7 years ago
Bacon!
rockie
7 years ago
One Dancer/One Visit - $480
Same Dancer/One year - $5,000
Same Dancer Cumulatively (5 years) - $15,000

ROB - $100 (Always remember the ROB's)

14 years of mongering - $100,000 (Have not spent a dime OTC)

All the figure above are estimates. My responses don't necessarily suit the OP's original framework entirely, but the answers are in the ballpark.
ATACdawg
7 years ago
About $360 at the Sundowner in Niagara Falls. One of the most sensuous women I have ever had the good fortune to meet. Fifteen LDs in two sessions. Some of the most enjoyable money I have ever spent.
JimGassagain
7 years ago
^^^ $100k on entertainment over 14 years is pretty good if somebody makes a decent living. I don't think you overspend.
larryfisherman
7 years ago
I spent $440 on a ROB
I've spent around $900 on a dancer in one visit.
I don't know accumulatively.
There have been some girls that didn't give good dances, but had banging bodies that I've gotten dances with multiple times.
vincemichaels
7 years ago
$400 on one ROB, it would have been more, but she got upset when I wouldn't just give her money to pay an allegedly overdue electric bill.
theDirkDiggler
7 years ago
@ larryfisherman
theDirkDiggler
7 years ago
^ oops accidentally posted when i pushed enter... I've definitely done the repeat business for the hot dancer with the average to mediocre dances in the hope that she has improved, but that tends to be less of a thing. I've also danced with the less attractive dancers that gave great dances on multiple occasions as well. That's also becoming less of a thing for me.
Rickberge
7 years ago
The most would be $260 one night...

kind of a spin off question but with the strippers that are CFs or ATFs do they assume that you will spend a certain amount on them? I ask because this one stripper that was a CF had the ordacity to say "you usually give me 2 $100 bills" I looked at her like she was crazy because I CLEARLY didn't get $200 worth of services this time. We talked a little, I got about 10 dances (5 dollars a dance mind you) and I was just there to watch the game. She kept sitting by me after her stage rotation but that's her problem. I gave her an extra $50 for the hell of it but she quickly apologized... after she took my money lol. I don't fuck with her like that anymore after that situation. Just want to see if any of you ever feel like the stripper(s) expect a certain amount from you. Regardless of service rendered.
theDirkDiggler
7 years ago
^ That would turn me off to a dancer. But if she is your favorite or ATF, then you are probably spending the majority (or vast majority) of your allocated SC funds just on her. I don't know how much that is for most people, but for some it can be as much as 100% of several hundred dollars or more almost every time they see her. So yes, that does build expectations, but it should never be taken for granted. Which is why she probably apologized. She probably know she turned you off and didn't want further repeats of less money spent on her. Too late i guess...

But at $5(!) dances, it would take hours of dancing to earn $200. sigh...
Lurker_X
7 years ago
Even with my limited experience, I get the sense with repeat girls, that they establish a mental baseline of expectations for what you usually spend. I anticipate this... If I plan to spend less that night, I'll telegraph that early on so that she is not frustrated a few hours later. It is fair, she should have the option to float around the guys more and fish for bigger tips, if that is how she would rather spend her time.
Dominic77
7 years ago
$400 to a fave in a single visit, $1400 over several visits. I've spent a little over $4000 total on clubs over 22 year span.

Faves for the most part are overrated. I tried it because of the talk of faves on TUSCL. It's not for me because I find the dancers more or less interchangeable with each other or I prefer having many faves over just one.

I go so infrequently that most of the time it's a whole different group of dancers dancing. Its rare for me to ever see the same dancer twice, ever.
lick-that
7 years ago
@Dirk. Wow $800 on a single girl in 1 night. That's close to the most Ive ever spent in the club for a night, at half of that is probably drinks. She must LOVE you. VIP is questionable in value but I always say, to each his own.
Lifetime cumulative, its too depressing to consider.
s275ironman
7 years ago
The most I've spent in one visit is ~ $350 on my CF.

The most I've spent cumulative on one dancer is ~ $1500, also on my CF.
Clubber
7 years ago
Never over $1000 total on a single dancer ITC other than my ATF. ATF inside and outside, I have no real idea, but a lot!
NinaBambina
7 years ago
Larryfisherman didn't you once say you made it rain on a girl like several grand? So how did you only send $900 on a girl? Maybe I'm confusing you with someone else.
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