What's the most you've ever spent on a single dancer ITC?
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
So seeing the recent discussions regarding ATFs has made me wonder how much do you have to spend on a dancer before you decide you've spent enough on her. So my main question is twofold. What is the most you have ever spent on a single dancer during one visit (not necessarily AFT)? And what is the most you have ever spent on a single dancer cumulative (most likely ATF)? I'm leaving this to ITC only, but if you want to say how much you spent OTC as well, that's fine too. I've spent an hour VIP ($500) and then a half hour VIP ($300) on one girl on one visit so $800 plus another $100 in tips. She probably kept around 500 of it (including the tip), but not much more as that club takes almost or around half of the VIP cost. She wasn't an ATF (although close), but by far my favorite at that club. Cumulatively, i've been seeing another dancer ITC over a 4+ year period and have probably spent over $3000 on her; i don't keep perfect track of exactly how much i spend on a dancer especially over numerous visits. She's also not currently an ATF, but was my favorite at that club as well and still is. ] Have never had a SB and OTC is usually one and done and still usually nowhere near $900 per outing (ITC record).
As a bonus question (reminiscent of SirLapdancealot's "the dogs got me" discussion): what's the most you've ever spent on a dancer that was no where near your favorite, but somehow she keeps on getting you for whatever reason? There are a couple girls that have moved around several of my favorite clubs and i've probably spent close to a thousand on both of them over a 3+ year period, more on one of them. I tend to avoid them now, despite having had very enjoyable times with them including a hot VIP.
And the final question since i don't want to make a separate discussion. What the most you've lost to a ROB in a VIP? There was a club that charged $400 for half an hour CR; it required a $100 bottle of champagne or similar even though i don't drink champagne or much alcohol at all and you paid this as a prepaid tab regardless if you spent it all. It would be nearly impossible to spend it on non alcoholic drinks as the girl was only 18 or 19 and they wouldn't serve her alcohol anyway nor would you want to waste time and bladder space in the room drinking that much. The girl was more of a newbie than a ROB as the room was more my idea but once inside she was not down for anything and was painfully shy, although years later, she never even became a "good" let alone great dancer eventually. Basically she did a 30 minute version of a medium contact dance per the club's rules. Since then, i have never done a room with a girl without doing a regular dance or several first and they better be damned good. Even then i rarely do rooms anymore, especially if they have that bogus prepaid bar tab.
As a bonus question (reminiscent of SirLapdancealot's "the dogs got me" discussion): what's the most you've ever spent on a dancer that was no where near your favorite, but somehow she keeps on getting you for whatever reason? There are a couple girls that have moved around several of my favorite clubs and i've probably spent close to a thousand on both of them over a 3+ year period, more on one of them. I tend to avoid them now, despite having had very enjoyable times with them including a hot VIP.
And the final question since i don't want to make a separate discussion. What the most you've lost to a ROB in a VIP? There was a club that charged $400 for half an hour CR; it required a $100 bottle of champagne or similar even though i don't drink champagne or much alcohol at all and you paid this as a prepaid tab regardless if you spent it all. It would be nearly impossible to spend it on non alcoholic drinks as the girl was only 18 or 19 and they wouldn't serve her alcohol anyway nor would you want to waste time and bladder space in the room drinking that much. The girl was more of a newbie than a ROB as the room was more my idea but once inside she was not down for anything and was painfully shy, although years later, she never even became a "good" let alone great dancer eventually. Basically she did a 30 minute version of a medium contact dance per the club's rules. Since then, i have never done a room with a girl without doing a regular dance or several first and they better be damned good. Even then i rarely do rooms anymore, especially if they have that bogus prepaid bar tab.
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Nowadays with my ATF DS I have never spent more than $180 on her in one night.
One Saturday night I went in and they were both there, both came and sat with me, and both turned out to be attracted to the other.
So, I decided to splurge and spent $500 each for 1.5hrs in VIP (standard rate in that club on night shift was $200/half hour) with both of them, and $180 ($60/half hour) for the "big room" with the mirrored walls. Probably spent another $200 on table dances and drinks before the VIP.
The Pro: It was truly a Bucket List type experience.
The Con: I was working toward OTC with one of the girls, and the fact I was willing to splurge for this night triggered some serious GPS on her part.
I couldn't tell you the exact number, but the most I've spent on one girl would have been a girl I originally met back in early 2000s as a FBSM girl and then turned into more of a SB arrangement (although extremely low volume escort is probably more accurate). I probably saw her 1 to 4 times per month for $200 per time (plus dates, occasional gifts) for 4+ years. (This is one of those times I really wish I kept some type of diary.)
She was a true unicorn sex worker story. During the time I was seeing her, she also had a day job, finished her degree, dated regular guys (that didn't treat her like crap), and ended up engaged to one. That's when we stopped seeing each other, but at first she said we might cause she couldn't imagine not having some variety in her sex life (a monger's soul!). She ended up moving away shortly after getting married, so I never got to find out.
@theDirkDiggler age hasn't changed getting a couple of LDKs in a night. I have done it more often recently with my ATF DS but still I'm only in the mood a few times a year. It's just that now I don't pay as much (more like $125-$150) for two because I got better control of it and my ATF DS makes it really easy for me.
LOL I always got my logistics covered...
Most spent on 1 dancer w/ extras: $300 or so
Most spent on 1 dancer no extras: $200 plus tip
Most spent on a rob(sort of. Not a rob as she never promised anything, but i got a 15 minute airdance and upsell, sapphire in vegas): $ 250
Most spent culmalative on 1 dancer: couldnt say as i rarely have seen the same dancer more than twice even on return trips to the club.
Over a few months - one of my atf girls probably got about $6,000 out of me.
I’ve gotten very lucky, as I’ve not gotten hit by a ROB. I’ve actually had two experiences where dancers returned money to me.
Same Dancer/One year - $5,000
Same Dancer Cumulatively (5 years) - $15,000
ROB - $100 (Always remember the ROB's)
14 years of mongering - $100,000 (Have not spent a dime OTC)
All the figure above are estimates. My responses don't necessarily suit the OP's original framework entirely, but the answers are in the ballpark.
I've spent around $900 on a dancer in one visit.
I don't know accumulatively.
There have been some girls that didn't give good dances, but had banging bodies that I've gotten dances with multiple times.
kind of a spin off question but with the strippers that are CFs or ATFs do they assume that you will spend a certain amount on them? I ask because this one stripper that was a CF had the ordacity to say "you usually give me 2 $100 bills" I looked at her like she was crazy because I CLEARLY didn't get $200 worth of services this time. We talked a little, I got about 10 dances (5 dollars a dance mind you) and I was just there to watch the game. She kept sitting by me after her stage rotation but that's her problem. I gave her an extra $50 for the hell of it but she quickly apologized... after she took my money lol. I don't fuck with her like that anymore after that situation. Just want to see if any of you ever feel like the stripper(s) expect a certain amount from you. Regardless of service rendered.
But at $5(!) dances, it would take hours of dancing to earn $200. sigh...
Faves for the most part are overrated. I tried it because of the talk of faves on TUSCL. It's not for me because I find the dancers more or less interchangeable with each other or I prefer having many faves over just one.
I go so infrequently that most of the time it's a whole different group of dancers dancing. Its rare for me to ever see the same dancer twice, ever.
Lifetime cumulative, its too depressing to consider.
The most I've spent cumulative on one dancer is ~ $1500, also on my CF.