Do you have another Clubbing Persona?
goldmongerATL
The Square Above Charlie Weaver
If you get invited to a guy's night out with friends that (compared to everyone on tuscl) are rank amateurs at strip clubbing, how do you handle that?
I usually suggest a tamer club more on the eye candy air dance end of the spectrum. This would not be a place I frequent so I would not expect to run into dancers that know me and greet me by name.
If I am along for the ride and we end up at a club I DO frequent, I have had very good luck with dancers recognizing that I am with some kids in a candy shop. The dancer will NOT greet me like they have sucked my cock before and will play like they don't know me. On later trips they may even ask who those guys were.
Do you have problems with dancers "outing you" if you come in as part of an obvious one-time friends night out?
I usually suggest a tamer club more on the eye candy air dance end of the spectrum. This would not be a place I frequent so I would not expect to run into dancers that know me and greet me by name.
If I am along for the ride and we end up at a club I DO frequent, I have had very good luck with dancers recognizing that I am with some kids in a candy shop. The dancer will NOT greet me like they have sucked my cock before and will play like they don't know me. On later trips they may even ask who those guys were.
Do you have problems with dancers "outing you" if you come in as part of an obvious one-time friends night out?
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Here I am, in my element, wondering if any of the dancers are going to know me or who I am. And here are all these other noobs I know from outside the club -- no better word for it, really -- totally not getting what the whole club thing is supposed to be about. No singles (some didn't even bring much money, period), all looking like deer in the headlights, all trying to act cool, then looking like they had never seen a naked woman in their lives.
The weird part was seeing them all be so uncomfortable. That's what was strange to me. They're all there in their seats, squirming, not sure what to do. It's like, "Hey, it's just naked women. Enjoy it. Act like you've been around them before."
I did buy a set of lappers for the groom with the hottest girl in there. He said I had excellent taste.
Then, I went back the next weekend and did a room with the same girl. She said she remembered me and was happy I recommended her. Her room, though, wasn't stellar.
I will try to direct the group to a eye candy - low mileage - club. I do this because I don't want there to be too much of an issue with any of the married guys. It's dangerous to put certain married guys in extras clubs. They might not be able to resist the offerings - and then you end up dealing with a guy who has made some bad choices - and who needs to do some painful explaining to his wife.
I have gone to clubs with acquaintances before. In one instance they wanted to go to a place at which I frequently get my dick sucked. I texted one of the dancers I knew worked there and said, "if you see me there with a bunch of other people, please tell everybody that they don't know me."
She did, and it was like walking into the club for the very first time. :)
I've had dancers, bartenders, managers, greet me when coming in with friends. I'm pretty open about my lifestyle and fondness of strippers with my friends, so its not really a problem for me. I would prefer that they had the sense to let me take the lead and not make it obvious they know me, but I've never seen strip club staff smart enough to do that. The funny thing is that when I see them in public, which I seem to often do, they all expect me to extend them that courtesy and will often thank me for doing so the next time I see them at work. So, its odd that they seem to understand the concept but can't seem to be bothered to do it themselves.
And if she’s dressed as a clown, bonus!!!
I am basically a good boy first timer. I also save lots of money by not partaking.
With my buddies I'm the same PL lecher as I am alone.