Phone number--OTC
So I have recently returned to patronizing strip clubs. I am certainly able to spend more than in my mis-spent youth. There is something new however. I have had three dancers at clubs in two different states offer me their cell phone numbers. Since in my past sc experience cell phones didn't exist I'm not sure what this means. Are they basically telling me to text to arrange for OTC fun or is there some other angle that I don't get. Please run through the pros and cons of this behavior for an old guy.
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If there's any thought, even buried down deep, that this might be anything more than a business move, you should definitely be careful, it's not. This is standard stripper M.O., there's nothing to be inferred by it, it's not something those same girls don't do to a zillion other guys who they're also not interested in.
Why give you their number?
1. Just the fact that they're giving you their number, combined with the heady atmosphere at a strip club, gives the ILLUSION of something more intimate, and will get you spending more -- and only on her -- for the remainder of your visit to the strip club.
2. For the same reason as the above, even if you're from out of town, it might get you coming back again to see her tomorrow night, even though you hadn't planned to do so
3. It lets you text her to see if she's working, next time you're in town, and again increases the chance that you'll schedule your strip club trip to see her and you'll spend all your money on her
4. It lets her spend all of 20 seconds writing you a "when are you coming back, I miiiissss yooouuu!" text, which might get you back there sooner.
To the extent that this "means" anything at all beyond the business purposes above, it means that as a customer, she doesn't consider you creepy or cheap, so she's willing to take your money again
I would add that if you exchange numbers, she can also add you to her list of guys to text when some terrible circumstance has come up and she needs some money to be sent by Western Union.
Got it. Some people wonder if it means she's open to OTC ... and it doesn't mean that either. I mean, she might be, but giving you her number is not a tip-off, it's just giving you her number. Life would be easier if it was some kind of awesome tip-off ("here's my number. As we both know, it means I take it in the butt!" *wink*) but no such luck :)
I mean, a naked pic isn't gonna make me drive 10.5 hours to go see her, but at least I won't feel quite as bad about being 10.5 hours away. ;-)
My two cents that I have learned thru experience....
Set ground rules when exchanging numbers if you need to. For instance, I tell them not to initiate text conversations and to not respond at all if they can't within an hour because I can't afford to have incoming texts at any time.
I have only had one tell me she would like some pics from me without me even asking. She was spotty about replying and even though she wanted to hang out OTC. Then I heard she left Follies. After a few months, I deleted the number.
Make sure you tag her name with something. Don't want to be texting the wrong person with request asking if she is "Working".
All my girls from Gold Club have the last name in my phone of "Oro", e.g., Jasmine Oro, Porsche Oro, etc. All the girls from SA are "Essay", E.g., Tina Essay, Lilly Essay. Etc -- every girl gets a fake last name that matches the place where I know her from