I told her I wanted to pay her for her attention and I wanted to take it slow. She sat with me for a few minutes and took my money but the next time I saw her she said she's probably not the girl for me. She said she prefers making $1,000 in the VIP room for an hour of work rather than $20 at a time for me.
Why does it hurt?
She's kind of chubby but she has nice boobs. :(
I would call that more of a counteroffer than a dumping. The most surprising thing is her level of honesty.
It sounds like she really wasn't the girl for you - it sounds like you chose one you were less physically attracted to hoping that she would be easier. I'm guessing it hurts because either you became attached to her and your hopes have been dashed or your ego is wounded that "even the chubby girl" wasn't up for following the front room money-feeding script.
I avoid that kind of club to begin with, but being in Vegas, it sounds like the options are fairly limited for developing CF relationships without spending thousands per week/month.
Agree with GoVikings. I go in the early afternoon a lot because the girls will take more time with you. And if you have a daytime regular, she'll go the extra mile. At night it's all about volume and PL's are a commodity.
Don't take it negatively. It sounds as though she did you a favor. Rather than sitting with you and acting disinterested - she told you that she wanted something different - and she probably saved you money and frustration.
There are definitely better times to get what you are looking for. I'd suggest the afternoon shift - after lunch and before happy hour - as there is a bit of downtime - and dancers are more willing to sit and chat.
I've dumped customer this way. Some guys just expect a lot of time for their 20. They think it's a good deal bc we are making some money and not having to do much, but time is money, and we want to go make more money.
I hate when guys say, "well, it's not that busy." Bc they don't know how much I can make when it's not that busy. It only takes one customer at a time. Or they will say, "do you have any regulars here?" And I don't, but I need to go sit w someone and get some dances.
I do agree ab early in the day. Also, most girls will sit w someone just for a drink first thing on shift.
I agree with others above. She did you a favor, even if it is disappointing.
That said, you are now free to find a dancer who has both the looks and style that you like.
It's a business. Different services. Different prices. Negotiation. Sometimes you reach agreement but sometimes you start too far apart.
Personally, I doubt that I would ever find the service and price that worked for me in Vegas.
Agree with the hooligans and ne'er-do-wells above.
Can't ask for much more than her being honest, instead of any number of ridiculous games she could have played
Vegas sucks
Daytime rules for sit-and-hang-out-for-hours
Actually, I think the day of the week might matter almost as much as the time of day. I haven't been to a club on a Friday or Saturday in a while now. The girls are just so busy on those days, and I would always feel like I'm potentially keeping them from landing a whale.
Also, before I came to this site, I always assumed Vegas was some kind of P4P paradise. I haven't been there since I was a kid on vacation with my family, so I kinda built it up in my mind. Now I know better. I'm sure the girls are hot, but you guys have a hard hustle to deal with.
What the fuck does this chubby girl do in the VIP that would lead a guy to pay her $1,000. Surely that can't be the standard charge.
@JohnSmith69 "What the fuck does this chubby girl do in the VIP that would lead a guy to pay her $1,000"
She's pretty cute and has nice fake boobs.
Sounds like stripper shit to me. Even in Vegas, the girls don't make $1,000 (their take after the house's cut) an hour in VIP. I hate strippers like that, that only try to push VIP rooms. How does that Disney song go? Let her go, let her go... If she can make $1,000 from an hour's work, let the bitch do it until she can't. She probably can't most of the time. If she's trying to make you feel too cheap and broke for her, screw her, not literally of course. If you still really have it bad for her, she'll come around when she falls in a rut, and then it's your turn to kick her to the curb or you can give her another chance. Why i don't know, but that's me.
Well, pay her $1000 to sit with you. Sounds like she would consider it.
It was probably the most she every made in VIP, so it's her possible opportunity cost of sitting w you, in her mind.
" nice fake boobs."
That's pretty damn close to being an oxymoron.
I enjoy sitting as well
One of the advantages of going to a club when it's slow is that there's a lot less customers and therefore the dancers are a lot more likely to sit with you for long periods of time because they have nothing better else to do. So I would suggest trying that