This is why we get along

One would like to think that its that you give her money, hold at least some modicum of conversation with her, don't call her "a stupid whore," and don't smack her around. They will take anybody's money, but are happier when the person paying them isn't a total dick. Or its just stripper shit. . . .

I have to admit, I don't understand why guys pay strippers to pretend to like them, and then get irritated when the stripper pretends to like them. We PLs are so complex :) No, I'm not insulted when the stripper says something like that, and am not tempted to respond with snark. Jokes, maybe, but not snark

I wouldn't say I pay them to pretend to like me. Usually they give me dances, cuddle up with me and remark how I'm not talkative

Go find some girl you can stand then, and give her your money. I hate when guys get an attitude ab this crap. I actually really like men, and I enjoy a lot of my customers. We have decent interactions that make for a way better work day than most people get. Why is it sooo hard to believe that we feel like we get along with, or at least genuinely appreciate, customers? Some guys are so insecure that they imagine we are all back in the locker room talking shit on them. This is not the case. oh, and how about the fact that many customer say that stuff to us! Jeez, just sit back and enjoy.

I don't care of you like me. I care if I like getting dances from you. Everything else is just lagniappe.

Bj99 I'm just fucking cynical lol

Then be glad she likes that shit :P

Bj99- my fave has a similar attitude as you. She enjoys coming to work. Has fun interactions with her customers and genuinely has a good time. There are idiots she deals with, but she doesn't hold it against another customer.

Thanks for giving us your insight.

Bj99, thanks for your post.

I've known my fav for almost 2 years and I have no clue how she genuinely feels about customers. I don't even know her true feelings about me lol

I'm sure true feelings about customers vary from stripper to stripper, but except for the customers who are rude/do things that aren't allowed/creepy.....we customers can't be too bad to tolerate :-)

From what I've seen, the girls who've done it for awhile, don't have any issue walking away from money if they really don't like the guy. It's actually smarter in the long run bc dealing w jerks gives girls a bad attitude, which makes her less appealing to everyone else. I hate dealing w grumpy insecure customers.

Can you imagine a girl getting all ass hurt bc guys don't really like her personality, and they just want her to grind on them, and imagine fucking her!? Lol! If a girl really said this backstage, we'd all think she had serious issues.

For the record I've heard this from strippers I've thought were genuinely pretty cool, and really like, but at the same time, part of me (the cynical part) is aware that it's all SS.

The strip club is no place to begin thinking about rational terms when it comes to relationships. Each person has their own ideas to what it there's and how to accomplish it, therefore there is very little standardization to it. Much of it is trial and error for the individual to figure out and find what they like to get from the other, be it customer or provider. Usually those who are more direct getctobit quicker and can move on faster when they don't find what they want.

-->"I wouldn't say I pay them to pretend to like me. Usually they give me dances, cuddle up with me and remark how I'm not talkative"

Well, if you're not talkative, it's no wonder you get along!! :) lol ...

Okay, stripper says: "this is why we get along". My response: "You shouldn't try to talk with your mouth full"

Never.

That would be horrible.

A stripper is just doing her job - PLs should not expect anything more than her doing her job well - as some have posted b/f, "a strip-club is not a girlfriend supermarket"

"I hate when guys get an attitude ab this crap."

I agree with BJ69.

If the girl says this is why we get along, she is trying to make things work with you. You should follow that lead. If you like her, proceed.

SJG