Prepaying for lap dance
johndough20020
Maryland
If a dancer ask you to pay in advance, it means:
She thinks you are broke
Doesn't want to dance with you
Doesn't trust you
You should walk away
She thinks you are broke
Doesn't want to dance with you
Doesn't trust you
You should walk away
29 comments
Understandable that some dancers have gotten burned w/ non-payment - the best I'll do is pay-as-we-go (after each dance/song) - I usually get multiple dances thus when I do the pay-as-we-go by the end of the first or 2nd-song they trust me and don't ask for the rest of the $$$ till we are done.
But I don't get the upfront girls too-often and if they insist 99% of the time I pass (on a rare occasion I may find her to fine to pass-up and in that rare-case the most I'll prepay is for one song/dance).
In most cases asking for a single dance pre-payment means:
She doesn't know me,
She is new and management told her to always require payment first,
A guy walked out without paying and the manager said "you're supposed to ask them to pay first" and she lost the income
If she pushes multiple dances pre-paid as a block at the start when I have never gotten a dance with her before, that's a different story.
Side note - sometimes a dancer will say "how many dances do you want" up front - I'm often told this is so they know how to do their "routine."
I had one ask for pre-pay and tip before we started, lol no.
But buying dances if for chumps. Better to just feed her money and get friendly and intimate with her in the front room.
Then when it is time for your own pants to come down, you inviter her to the back room. Then afterwards, take her home with you to continue.
SJG
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Think about it, if you don't pay first, you are still going to have to pay, and likely be in an ugly situation.
And besides, you want to build good rapport with the girls so that you can be seeing her outside.
SJG
And no matter what happens in the booth you are still going to have to pay her. So pay her first as you are making a show of trust. A very worthwhile investment.
SJG
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SJG
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But best is not to buy dances. Just start feeding her 'appreciation money' and make it happen with her in the front room. Get an intense makeout session going with her. Then when it is undeniable that she wants you to fuck her, you invite her to the back room. And assume you'll be taking her home with you to continue.
SJG
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I can understand taking her to dinner, mostly to make a good impression on her, and even make her feel like you are flaunting her. But truth is, I don't care what outside people think of me. So the less exceptional the girl's looks are, the further I'm gong to go to try and make her feel good.
You can't force her to do you good. You have to have rapport with her.
Front room makeout sessions, then you invite her to the back room.
Buying dances is for chumps.
SJG
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Even at Follies here in Atlanta I never see any heavy make out sessions going on. Plenty of groping, no kissing.