Tapped Out: Need real intimacy

GACA is leaving us. :-(

Go volunteer in some capacity for a charity, cause, or non-profit that is involved in an area that you deeply care about. You'll find yourself surrounded by people who have many of your core values, priorities, and mindsets.

I know a lot of people who met their long-term partner that way (involving marriage or not). And, it seems that those relationships have a higher chance of survival.

The side benefit is a new cadre of like-minded friends, which is also nice.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

I'm not leaving....no way. But I do have to find more sustainable highs. Going to strip clubs at this point isn't working for me

Some strippers have acted like my gf so much, others thought they were in the past. I didn't even see one dancer for over 3 months and shortly after seeing me, she plops down in my lap asking me where I've been. I guess if you want to wake up with someone, that's a different story. One dancer one time thought I wanted to date her. She told me she had 5 kids. We never went out. I didn't want to get that involved. I just find it amazing how quickly some girls seem to bond to you sometimes even without any sex taking place. Maybe it does have something to do with oxytocin getting released.

oooooo what a relief it is!

:)

Take two aspirin and post in the morning you'ii feel much better.

Dress up and go to church in the morning. Pick out a hottie and ask for her number.
Before you know it, we'll all wonder, what happened to GACA?

yeah, be careful with that advice, you have no idea how freaky some of those church girls are. you just might find one on a web cam or in a strip club lol

Here is the answer that you have been looking for.

http://thesnugglebuddies.com/

Man - I knew a guy that went thru the exact same-thing as you - turned out he was gay - not that there's anything wrong we that - we still support you GACA

JITP (just in time pussy) is hard to for-go - give it a break for a little-while and then once you go-back and it's fresher you gonna think "man what was I thinking giving up fine JITP"

Believe it or not, GACA, I found that in a strip club. Several time. It's not *good* sex unless there's cuddling afterwards, and I've been fortunate enough to find that sort of thing on the regular. And, with one notable exception, without the encumbrance of romantic emotional attachment.

One escort too, if you can believe it. She actually *likes* the fact that I like to just lay there and cuddle afterwards. We've both dozed off a number of times.

Marriage sucks, a death trap. But strip clubs are not a solution to anything. They just show you that maybe things don't need to be the way they are.

The group I am building will solve all of these problems and many more. Marriage is not the answer. But its other pole, prostitution, is not really either.

Remember also, given the chance, a woman will use your need for intimacy to destroy you.

Demonstration of the Lesser Banishing Ritual of the Pentagram
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63UJFKEP…

Shadow brings up a good point , is the a cuddling section in BP?

Dogs and cats are for cuddling. Strippers are for sex. (Don't get these things reversed!)

^ LOL = great tip!

GACA, if you want intimacy, you certainly picked the wrong node on the Internet to talk about it.

SJG

Demonstration of the Lesser Banishing Ritual of the Pentagram
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63UJFKEP…

Hermetic Order of the Golden Dawn®: 5a. Banishing Pentagram Ritual. Emerald Tablet & the Golden Dawn
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qRGf9oK…

The Lesser Banishing Ritual Of The Pentagram. Hermetic Qabalah )O(
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d48Ldk-T…

What does the Lesser Banishing Do?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OnldkkIG…

Typhonian Order
http://www.parareligion.ch/staley.htm

Some thoughts about daily performance of the LBRP
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBlKArZg…

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eugen_Gros…

http://fraternitas.de/home.htm

http://www.parareligion.ch/fs1.htm

Lesser Banishing Ritual of the Pentagram (LBRP), Blazing Star O.T.O., Oakland
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mquKZg-O…

http://www.inthestudio.net/wp-content/up…

David Shoemaker
https://www.amazon.com/Living-Thelema-Pr…

Living Thelema : a practical guide to attainment in Aleister Crowley's system of Magick / David Shoemaker
Looks like a good introduction to Crowley practices. In libraries.

Sammy Hagar, Standing Hampton
http://www.inthestudio.net/wp-content/up…

Jackslash FTW

I feel you dude. I've been growing weary lately of OTC, and I never even dabbled in anything ITC... I wouldn't be able to perform.

My buddy asked me the other day: "With $1,000 would you rather go OTC with your favorite stripper, or spend it all in the club doing your normal club routine, of course with no release." - I told him that these days, I'd prefer the club. It's more exciting, I enjoy the ambiance, the attention and the variety.

Attend a sex addicts anonymous meeting. Play hard to get.

GACA, men who need female intimacy and affirmation, get steam rollered flat to the pavement. Believe me, I know.

SJG

Just imagine you got married, she gained 150 pounds, she does nothing but yell at you, tells you what to do all the time and blows through all your money and is running up thousands on credit cards, of course she is Not interested in sex but even if she was, you would want her to take a shower first because she stinks only bothering to wash herself once a week.
Then you wake up and think how lucky you are.