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Improving your sex stamina

larryfisherman
California
It's a often asked question in society, but how do you last longer during sex?

Recently during sex I've been cumming quicker during sex than I have in the past, and I wonder if it's due to my frequent masturbation? I masturbate almost every day.

I know some people are just one minute men no matter what, but any tips on how to make your round last longer?

24 comments

  • Papi_Chulo
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    7 years ago
    It's pretty-hard not to cum when the pipi says it's time. IMO it's often biological rather than mental, i.e. as one gets older the trigger mechanism is not as responsive.

    I think the only thing one can do is just go again a few minutes later if they are able to re-up fairly quickly (often times if one cums fairly quickly they usually can re-up fairly quickly) - on the 2nd go-around one is not as sensitive and can usually go fairly longer, or even a 3rd go-around.
  • larryfisherman
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    7 years ago
    Yes Papi thankfully I can recharge quickly and be ready to go for a second round after 5 min of recovery.

    But yeah I wonder if like having more sex can lead to better stamina, you figure out ways during sex how to last longer?

    The worst thing during sex is when you don't want to cum right then, but it's getting ready to explode. You have to think of fat ugly girls or something to be able hold it in. The sex is not enjoyable then, it's just about trying not to cum. IMO it's better to just let it come out when it's ready to explode, whether that being 2 min or 20 min.
  • shailynn
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    7 years ago
    You have no idea how hard it is not to make fun of Fishsticks. I'll let Flagooner and Twentyfive take over on this thread.
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
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    7 years ago
    Some positions are more stimulating than others. If things are moving to climax too quickly, I'll switch to less stimulating positions and/or decrease the tempo, so to speak. Even if it's less stimulating, it's still fun (because stripper sex).
  • twentyfive
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    7 years ago
    @shailynn this one is too easy I feel guilty about this but here goes.
    I guess when you are in middle school you can probably bust a nut when the cafeteria lady smiles in your direction ; )
  • shadowcat
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    7 years ago
    I think about my ex wife. :)
  • larryfisherman
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    7 years ago
    "Some positions are more stimulating than others"

    Yes this is true, if a girl is riding me good during reverse cowgirl I can only take a couple of minutes of that before I suggest we switch positions, god damn that makes me cum so fast. Also doggy is a very stimulating position for me.
  • skibum609
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    7 years ago
    Viagra will delay orgasm and their is a training method you can do yourself or with the assistance of a partner, that will teach you to delay orgasm and it works. It is described in a very old book titled "the sensuous man" by J. The only negative is once trained, if you add in a six pack of beers, you're not coming at all.
  • larryfisherman
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    7 years ago
    Thanks Skibum I'll check out that book. I'm in my 20's, no Viagra for me yet :)
  • RandomMember
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    7 years ago
    It's just part of that temporary, but awkward, stage just after puberty. I'm sure you'll grow out of it, @FIshStix.
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
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    7 years ago
    Or, there's also "The Sensuous Dirty Old Man" by Isaac Asimov. Yes, that's a real book by Asimov (1972). He was spoofing the book cited by Skibum609.
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
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    7 years ago
    The TUSCL Book Club feels like a bad yet hilarious idea.
  • rockstar666
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    7 years ago
    Use sildenifil. You'll last forever and have to work to cum.
  • jackslash
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    7 years ago
  • Papi_Chulo
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    7 years ago
    I don't think you have to read a whole book to get some tips, if you Google "premature ejaculation" you'll probably find plenty of suggestions from credible sources.

    As Ishmael mentioned, switching positions is a way to go, I do that mainly to momentarily break the stimulation, if you are getting there and keep going w/o a momentary break then you're in no-man's-land.
  • Papi_Chulo
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    7 years ago
    Having sex a few times a week can probably help but that is something that's usually able to be done w/ a S.O. (and the right S.O. at that) - and by a couple times a wk I mean about every other day or every 3 days at most.
  • san_jose_guy
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    7 years ago
    I feel that masturbation actually helps you last longer, because you know yourself and your responses. Much of it just comes down to rhythms and feeling.

    Also, in both men and women, climax is reached when the sympathetic nervous system takes over from the parasympathetic.

    Remember, the sympathetic is usually in charge. It runs by aggression, fight or flight.

    For sexual arousal to ensue, the parasympathetic has to be allowed to take over, feed and breed.

    But after things have gone on to a point, the sympathetic will reassert control and this is what causes sexual climax.

    So if you try to prevent yourself from cumming, that makes you cum.

    Rather, to make it last longer, you need to learn to let yourself be more drawn into the sensations and experiences of the moment, getting to trip out on the girls face and form.

    https://www.amazon.com/Guide-Getting-4th…

    https://www.amazon.com/Art-Sexual-Ecstas…

    https://www.amazon.com/Male-Continence-L…

    https://www.amazon.com/Urban-Tantra-Sacr…

    SJG
  • flagooner
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    7 years ago
    Stamina is at its low point when the curly hairs just start to sprout. Pretty soon you'll be past this stage. Just have a little patience.
  • larryfisherman
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    7 years ago
    Good insight SJG.

    Right now I'm averaging around 5-10 min for the first round, if we go again I last much longer the second time.
  • san_jose_guy
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    7 years ago
  • JohnSmith69
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    7 years ago
    Marijuana makes me last a lot longer. It's a miracle drug. And there is another drug that does this too. A while back the dr gave me tramadol for pain. A side effect was that it took me forever to cum. I looked it up and this is a common side effect of the drug. It is sometimes prescribed for guys with premature ejaculation. I didn't like it because the combined effect of weed and tramadol made me last too long. But since most of you refuse to try weed this is another option.

    Or you could just think about Willie Mays.
  • san_jose_guy
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    7 years ago
    Other TUSCL members have refuted the idea that marijuana is in any way helpful.

    SJG
  • RandomMember
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    7 years ago
    For those of you who get your medical info from anonymous PLs on this board, Tramadol is a synthetic opioid and something you definitely don't want to take for PE. Not as bad as Oxycontin or Vicodin -- but something you don't want to mess with unless you have to. Weed is far more benign, and you can re-live your junior-high-school days of rebellion at the same time.
  • san_jose_guy
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    7 years ago
    "re-live your junior-high-school days of rebellion "

    I don't need to do that.

    SJG
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