Here's a fairly tame one, but a favorite anyway, from which I learned some valuable lessons. This was at a club that with so-so lineups, typically 5s to 7s, though there's always a standard deviation, and they did get some very hot girls, usually girls fleeing the extras club -- this particular club was limited extras, about 50% of the girls were no-extras, 35% HJ-only, 10% would go to BJs, a small handful did FS. All enforced by a bizarre system management enforced, a topic unto itself.
Anyway, one of the standard-deviation girls -- incredibly beautiful, incredibly charming, always the hottest girl on shift with lines of customers waiting -- had taken an almost-suspicious, "why in the world is she spending so much time with me" interest in me. One evening I'm just leaving the club at around 9pm and see her on the street walking to the club. She looks at me, we say hi, she says, "hey, want to go out for drinks?". I say sure... and what follows is an awesome fun flirty club crawl, every club we go to, she's greeted by management and bouncers and bartenders and they set us up. This particular strip club has a hard rule, all stripper must be checked in by 11pm or they're not allowed to work that night. I point out it's 11pm, she laughs and says, "they don't apply that rule to ME", and we keep partying until 12:30. I walk her back to the club, and she says to me, "come in and do a VIP, let me give you a BJ, it's on me". Wonderful ending to an amazing night.
Anyway, lessons learned:
- Yes, 99.999% of the time it's business, but once in a while, the stripper DOES like you. We became FWBs and we're still in touch, many years after she retired
- If she does like you, you won't have to guess -- strippers pursue guys they like. It's been that way with all of the small handful of strippers who I became FWBs with