Stripper denying ever dancing for me

It "could" be she truly does not remember; some of these chicks have a lot of shit going-on in their lives.

Or more likely she wanted to come across as a new-to-you dancer thinking that would make you more interested.

Or she's just unhinged which is not rare in the stripper-pool

Or there is a possibility that she has robbed a guy that looked like you, or maybe she robbed you, and you didn't notice or forgot.

You should've taken out your dick and asked her "well do you remember THIS?

Latinas rule the world!

She is probably just bat shit crazy.

"or maybe she robbed you, and you didn't notice or forgot."

I wondered where my left tube sock went!

OMG now my right one is missing also!

; )

She might have recently arrived from one of those parallel universes and is dazed and confused from the experience. I would refrain from arguing with her. I met a dancer one weekend who stopped and talked to me saying she hadn't seen me in 2 years. The following weekend she said the same thing in the same club. I told her she said that last weekend and she denied it. Obviously one of us must gave changed universes.

Maybe she was on drugs the last time she danced for you.......

Maybe you fail to make an impression with people

:)

I remember a dancer that first told me she remembered me from 13 years earlier. I didn't remember her at all. One morning when she woke up she told me she remembered the very first time she ever saw me and it was before she was old enough to be a stripper. I think that was about 18 years ago at the time. Watch out. Some of them have their memory etched in stone. However I don't do a whole lot of questioning because I think I may have switched universes. I still have no memory of her from that long ago but she knew enough to be like a creepy stalker if the roles had been reversed and I was working in the club and she had been a customer. I never realized one club in NC had a pic of me from their opening days.

Maybe she was embarrassed to have others know she'd agree to dances with you.

Sounds like she needs some work on her social skills, and her memory too.

She didn't remember you. Weed is known to make you forget stuff.

I didn't expect her to remember me. I just didn't expect her to deny it so strongly.

You should've barebacked her - I mean she's already pregnant

Let's be honest here, is this really the first time a female has denied knowing you

:)

Since beer makes me feel colder and a bit hyper in small amounts, weed might cause my memory to improve. Good to know. Thanks. I remember a Rush Blue Oyster Cult concert over 20 years ago with a strong scent of something sweet in the air. I still remember someone spilled the contents of a glow stick on my arm and my arm glowed for a few hours. It was like I had glowing veins.

I'm amazed how a dancer who I was with once years ago will remember me. Having a dancer deny your obvious lucid memory is unusual. Who knows what the deal is...just take her at face value.

You could attempt to be more like me. I had one dancer say I was unforgettable. Not all my stories are bs. I think the dancer who told me that was called Hayden if I remember her name correctly. She was hot. I had fun letting her get all my electrical juice when she sounded like she doubted me when I asked if anyone else was having electrical issues in the club. She said "Only You!" I was having an issue of building up strong electrical charges but it went away after giving blood. Hopefully juice did not come up with his name after getting blood. :)

Kind of weird that she would argue it, but I've had strippers forget they gave me dances or their number. One stripper who forgot, held the same conversation starter with me again. It was about her gem collection.

Some dancers don't remember your face. I remember in some large clubs, the same dancer who got rude with me after I rejected her dance offer didn't even remember talking to me about 15 minutes earlier. I got up and changed seats and sat in a different part of the club. This particular dancer after trying to convince me to get dances from her and another dancer got rude with me. After I said no thanks, she asked for a tip. I don't usually give out tips to dancers for letting them ask for a dance. Anyway I offered a dollar to each of the two dancers. One dancer took it. The rude dancer told me, you know, you need that dollar a whole lot more than I do and gave it back. Then she told the other dancer to give the dollar I gave her back. The other dancer reluctantly complied. 15 minutes later, the rude dancer never even recognized me when I got up, moved, and sat on the other side of the club. Stupid and rude is what she was. Of course not too many customers complain if a dancer is hot and stupid and can't remember anything.

Shark: Good story! It speaks to the state of mind of some dancers. She was obviously having substance abuse issues. Most dancers remember anyone who gave them money if they're not too bambed.

Give the girl a break; she meets a lot of people in her line of work.

Who cares? Are you buying a dance from her or not that day? She sounds amazing.

I had this happen with a bat shit crazy whore

my take:

i hear what you're saying, bro. and it's weird how that happened between you and the dancer--her not remembering. though you're curious, i wouldn't worry about it or put any more thought into it. i've learned that people simply forget things (sometimes temporarily forget) that actually happened. at some point they'll remember again but not when you're around. why do they forget in the first place? because, in my opinion, everyone has a certain way they view themselves. so they'll lie & make up shit on the spot when reality doesn't match up with the way they view themselves.

for example, a decade ago, i was a computer cat in an office. everyonce in awhile my computer department and i would get an office worker who got locked out of their computer or phone due to not remembering their password and not remembering their challenge question to change that password. the challenge question would be like: what's the name of your cat. and they'd tell me, i'd never pick that question because i don't own a cat. and, well, i've seen/heard this a million times by then so i'd respond, think hard--you owned a cat once, try to remember. they'd get angry and be like sir i told you i never ever ever owned a cat; i'm allergic and i hate cats, i hate all animals. i'd calmly say again: think again, you owned a cat because you're the only one who can set up these challenge questions--no one else in the world can set it up but you, so you owned a cat and you put an answer in there. think hard. and they'll get so angry they'll blurt out the only time i owned a cat was for one month when i was 7 and i was allergic so i gave it up to a shelter; the cat was named mr. mittens and oh my god do you think that's my security answer? i'll say try it. bingo it works. and they'll say wow how did you pull that out of me--that memory. i'll be like you remembered it at one point to put it in; why you forgot about it i don't know but this happens daily, i deal with this daily.

happened so much i have a very low opinion on folks and their personal memory.

I've had some dancers remember me months/years after I met them.

Others have given me dances, chatted with me over a drink, take off to work on another guy, and then would approach me again later that night, entirely oblivious to the fact that we'd met an hour ago.

This would damage my ego if not for the fact that I know many dancers have the attention span and memory of a moth at a light bulb.

It happens the other way around, mostly because I have one of those familiar faces, where a dancer I've never seen in a club I've never been to will remember me from a couple of weeks ago. I already know that people mistake me for someone else frequently (literally happens all the time), so I never know if a stripper is using a SS line or if it's another case of mistaken identity. In their defense, some strippers move around and change clubs so often that maybe I did once get a dance, but if I don't remember then 'nuff said.

+3 to Papi_Chulo for the trifecta:

Maybe you fail to make an impression with people You should've barebacked her - I mean she's already pregnant Let's be honest here, is this really the first time a female has denied knowing you

Strippers that I've never met say that they know me all the time. I tell them they're mistaken but that's ok cause all ATM cards and wallets look pretty much the same.

In my experience, the best strippers tend to have remarkable memories for details about customers. I'm often impressed by how well they remember my [stripper] name, my job, my other hobbies (e.g. almost always going to a movie either just before or just after a strip club visit), my other club favorites, etc. It's a competitive advantage for a stripper to remember things about customers.

Two things surprise me about this thread: (1) Her vehemence in denying that she had ever danced for you (2) The fact that we're still talking about it :)

Your stripper probably thought "Ive gotten dances from you before" == "your dances suck, no thanks". Ive had strippers walk upto me, hit on me, and dont remember 3 weeks ago they said no to my requests in VIP and said Im depraved degenerate. I've also walked upto strippers before, pretended IDK them, when I do, and repeated with them in VIP, and it was an amazing experience compared to the 1st time.