Stripper denying ever dancing for me
sflguy123
Florida
A few months ago I got some(3 or 4) table dances from a stripper. She was Spanish maybe Cuban. She had really full breasts and a slight belly. I wasn't sure if pregnant or just a belly so I said nothing about it.
I see her there again today and that belly was bigger so sure enough pregnant.
Anyway she comes up to me and asks if I want a dance, I was sitting about 1-2 seats away from our last dances. Anyway I tell her I got dances from her a few months ago. She vigorously denies ever dancing for me. I insist we did. She continues to deny, almost insulted by it. This turns me off so I tell her maybe later(mostly they don't come back).
She comes back about 10 minutes later. I bring it up again and now mention her belly. Anyway I get dances from her b/c they were good the last time. I even remember the two small moles on her lower back.
Most of the time if I ask a stripper if she remembers me she will either say yes(even if she truly doesn't) or admit to not. But I've never had a stripper outright deny it so strongly. Like she can remember ever guy she danced for. It's a weird strategy. Just go with it if the guy says you danced for him before. He probably got way less dances than you gave over a 2 month period.
After the dances I pointed to her belly and asked if that was a work related incident and if BBFS was now an option! (just kidding)
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Or more likely she wanted to come across as a new-to-you dancer thinking that would make you more interested.
Or she's just unhinged which is not rare in the stripper-pool
I wondered where my left tube sock went!
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I remember a Rush Blue Oyster Cult concert over 20 years ago with a strong scent of something sweet in the air. I still remember someone spilled the contents of a glow stick on my arm and my arm glowed for a few hours. It was like I had glowing veins.
Not all my stories are bs. I think the dancer who told me that was called Hayden if I remember her name correctly. She was hot. I had fun letting her get all my electrical juice when she sounded like she doubted me when I asked if anyone else was having electrical issues in the club. She said "Only You!" I was having an issue of building up strong electrical charges but it went away after giving blood. Hopefully juice did not come up with his name after getting blood. :)
This particular dancer after trying to convince me to get dances from her and another dancer got rude with me. After I said no thanks, she asked for a tip. I don't usually give out tips to dancers for letting them ask for a dance. Anyway I offered a dollar to each of the two dancers. One dancer took it. The rude dancer told me, you know, you need that dollar a whole lot more than I do and gave it back. Then she told the other dancer to give the dollar I gave her back. The other dancer reluctantly complied. 15 minutes later, the rude dancer never even recognized me when I got up, moved, and sat on the other side of the club. Stupid and rude is what she was. Of course not too many customers complain if a dancer is hot and stupid and can't remember anything.
i hear what you're saying, bro. and it's weird how that happened between you and the dancer--her not remembering. though you're curious, i wouldn't worry about it or put any more thought into it. i've learned that people simply forget things (sometimes temporarily forget) that actually happened. at some point they'll remember again but not when you're around. why do they forget in the first place? because, in my opinion, everyone has a certain way they view themselves. so they'll lie & make up shit on the spot when reality doesn't match up with the way they view themselves.
for example, a decade ago, i was a computer cat in an office. everyonce in awhile my computer department and i would get an office worker who got locked out of their computer or phone due to not remembering their password and not remembering their challenge question to change that password. the challenge question would be like: what's the name of your cat. and they'd tell me, i'd never pick that question because i don't own a cat. and, well, i've seen/heard this a million times by then so i'd respond, think hard--you owned a cat once, try to remember. they'd get angry and be like sir i told you i never ever ever owned a cat; i'm allergic and i hate cats, i hate all animals. i'd calmly say again: think again, you owned a cat because you're the only one who can set up these challenge questions--no one else in the world can set it up but you, so you owned a cat and you put an answer in there. think hard. and they'll get so angry they'll blurt out the only time i owned a cat was for one month when i was 7 and i was allergic so i gave it up to a shelter; the cat was named mr. mittens and oh my god do you think that's my security answer? i'll say try it. bingo it works. and they'll say wow how did you pull that out of me--that memory. i'll be like you remembered it at one point to put it in; why you forgot about it i don't know but this happens daily, i deal with this daily.
happened so much i have a very low opinion on folks and their personal memory.
Others have given me dances, chatted with me over a drink, take off to work on another guy, and then would approach me again later that night, entirely oblivious to the fact that we'd met an hour ago.
This would damage my ego if not for the fact that I know many dancers have the attention span and memory of a moth at a light bulb.
In their defense, some strippers move around and change clubs so often that maybe I did once get a dance, but if I don't remember then 'nuff said.
Maybe you fail to make an impression with people
You should've barebacked her - I mean she's already pregnant
Let's be honest here, is this really the first time a female has denied knowing you
Two things surprise me about this thread:
(1) Her vehemence in denying that she had ever danced for you
(2) The fact that we're still talking about it :)