Advice for how to get what you want out of your strip club experience

Okay so you've ensured that you smell like soap or cologne, put on a responsible or expensive attire, picked a club, and checked in so what's next? Well, most places will have a bar or a "floor" section and my best advice on how to choose is to share the love and pick the one that is less busy. The wait staff may forget to tell you their name or ask yours so if you want personalized attention then I'd advise you to introduce yourself (first name only) and then place your order. When she comes back pay and be sure to tip at least a dollar a drink because you will get better service. If you are approached by a floorman or security then be polite and don't be afraid to tell them if you want something i.e. brunette, blonde, thick, or thin. They will give that girl or girls a heads up to come over but keep in mind that everyone's human and the best way to get what you want is to tip the girl and tell her if you want her to stop by. I've been told by several of my favorite dancers that they love it when guys do that because it's assertive and takes away the guess work. Another way to get this reaction without speaking is by tipping a five or higher on stage or so I've noticed. Now, what happens if a girl you're not interested in comes over? I say give her a chance because initiative is key and you might like her a lot more than you'd originally thought but if you're dead set on getting her to leave you be then the same dancer friends of mine told me the best way is to say that you're visiting someone else. Should you change your mind you can always just say that if asked. As far as "extras" go my advice is to just be honest and if it isn't that type of place don't be upset. It happens. Personally, I don't want to give my hard earned money to some tart who is giving it away for "supplies" to be able to perform said extras. Those girls are there to earn a living and since they're already willing to strip for a high enough income why would you expect more? Besides, if you find the right ones, and they're at every club, then having a healthy dose of respect and appreciation is the best way to forge this type of relationship without even needing to spend money. Yeah, every woman wants to be spoiled but being honest and paying attention to word play will get you far. The ones who say "whatever you want" without even blinking are lying. They'll bend the truth once you spend but the ones that seem nervous have ethics and aren't going to lie so easily. I hope this helps some. Feel free to share any wisdom that I may have not included or your own personal advice for rookies!