On the subject of STI/STD/VD
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Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
So I'm gonna start having uncovered sex with this stopper I've been OTCing . She's demanding proof I Don't got anything. So I just set an appointment at a confidential clinic in town.
Anyway. We all talk about fucking them strippers. This is an anonymous site so I'm asking if anyone has ever caught anything ...
I'm set for testing tomorrow and then gotta wait three day. So I have three days to dream up the worse case scenario. Go ahead and scare me
Anyway. We all talk about fucking them strippers. This is an anonymous site so I'm asking if anyone has ever caught anything ...
I'm set for testing tomorrow and then gotta wait three day. So I have three days to dream up the worse case scenario. Go ahead and scare me
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But now I find myself wondering if its worth freaking out about every time... or if using a cover is better (which of course really diminishes the enjoyment of a BJ). I'm referring to with the same girl, not new ones.
You said you are gonna start going uncovered; so why are worried if you haven't gone uncovered yet - getting tested and fearing the worst it's pretty-normal IMO.
I would assume she's getting tested also for your protection and ease of mind.
w.r.t. Zika - it's not gonna kill you - most people that get-it never know-it and the virus only stays in the body a few days - some people get flu-like symptoms that go away - the major issue is for pregnant women or those planning to conceive.
I got a stern lecture from my young female doctor and a prescription.
For the past 7 0or 8 years I've been having unprotected sex weekly with a dancer who is VERY active. She makes most of her money giving blow jobs at the club and occasionally full sex ( covered with strangers) She has Hep C, HPV, but claims to never had an STI and I've never caught anything from her. It's really just a crap shoot.
To the others, thanks for the comments. I'm going to see this girl again, very soon. This will be our second rendezvous and I'm seriously considering wrapping up for BJ's (FS isn't on the table, both her rules and mine). She'll probably think it odd, and that we are regressing, seeing as I didn't the first time around, but the weeks after seeing her, before getting myself tested, were absolute torture. Not sure if I'm just ultra safe, or have a very overactive imagination. Any thoughts are welcome, as always.
I did have one scare though. The DS called me earlier this year and told me she had chlamydia. I know who the guy is who gave it to her. It's very contagious, and given how thoroughly intimate we are with each other, .I figured there was about a 100 percent chance that I caught it. I wasn't worried though because it's easily treatable and frankly no big deal for an older guy. But miraculously my test was negative.
Condoms are not 100% effective (only 30 to 50 percent effective for HSV and 80% for HIV). So fucking 50 strippers per year with a condom is probably more dangerous than having one partner you can trust if your're both tested. These discussions are always irrational and full of angst.