What category do you fall in?
larryfisherman
California
You get some really good dances from a 8+ stripper, and you're deciding whether you should get her phone number.
A. She was really good, but you like variety, you don't want to feel like you're attached to one girl aka ATF, CF, or DS. You don't want her always texting you to come see her. She doesn't have a set schedule. If you go that club again, you'll want to see her, but if she's not there, it's not the end of the world, there are other girls there. You decide not to ask for her number.
B. She's a hot girl who gave really good dances. When you go back to that club, you want to see her. There's nothing worse than going to a club hoping to see someone, and then she's not there. For the simple reason of knowing when she'll be there, you decide to ask for her number.
C. You want to take it P4P OTC, so you ask for her number.
D. You're a true PL, and you think you be her boyfriend, so you ask for her number to try to get to know her better OTC.
E. You'll keep coming to the club to see her. She could turn into your ATF, but you're not interested in stripper phone numbers, so you don't ask and you never will.
Which of these would best describe you?
A. She was really good, but you like variety, you don't want to feel like you're attached to one girl aka ATF, CF, or DS. You don't want her always texting you to come see her. She doesn't have a set schedule. If you go that club again, you'll want to see her, but if she's not there, it's not the end of the world, there are other girls there. You decide not to ask for her number.
B. She's a hot girl who gave really good dances. When you go back to that club, you want to see her. There's nothing worse than going to a club hoping to see someone, and then she's not there. For the simple reason of knowing when she'll be there, you decide to ask for her number.
C. You want to take it P4P OTC, so you ask for her number.
D. You're a true PL, and you think you be her boyfriend, so you ask for her number to try to get to know her better OTC.
E. You'll keep coming to the club to see her. She could turn into your ATF, but you're not interested in stripper phone numbers, so you don't ask and you never will.
Which of these would best describe you?
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If she's there, great, it's income for her. If not, there are other dancers. I have no interest in chasing nor conversing with a stripper off the clock.
So while one can't push too hard, or it will backfire, she would know early on that I wanted to see her outside, and if it seemed doable, that very night. So I would be giving her my contact info, and hoping to get hers, while we were still getting friendly in the front room. And though giving her money, always talking to her as a civilian. Never acting like money buys sex, or anything like that.
This is how it always worked in the underground Mexican Bar table dancing circuit, girls that do OTC, and it is still very civilian in style.
So maybe I get her phone number, and maybe she agrees to see me that night, or even to walk out the door with me right then, or maybe not. But as things have gotten extremely friendly in the front room, I invite her to the backroom, and still treating her like a civilian, we do what can be done at that club.
Then again, if it is not already set up, I try for her number and to see her that night. Maybe it happens, maybe not.
But I would not have engaged with her if I did not want to see her outside. I think most of the time, no problem.
If it is a problem, I tell her when I will be back, and proceed, and probably she will accept.
SJG
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But for most of us, if you want the best from the girl, you need to set up some kind of an outside relationship with her, and this means that you have to leave the others at that club alone. Go to other clubs or other cities for variety.
SJG
SJG
SJG
I have never asked for a stripper's phone number, but 7 in the last 2 years have given me their number.
There was 1 stripper that I wish I had asked for her number, but didn't.
She gave some of the hottest dances I had ever had, and was a solid 8 in looks.
I have not seen her in over 3 months.....missed opportunity.
State intentions right up front, and try to exchange contact info, and front room friendliness. Buying dances is secondary. Try to get as much of a connection established as possible first.
SJG
B = get her # so you can see her ITC again
C = get her number so you can bop her OTC
F = get her number and occasionally flirt, get pics from her, exchange jokes, talk shit about some show we both watch, etc.