Is this how non-exras girls make bank? Rich guys that go for the tease for OTC? I'm sure you guys have heard these...
Maybe
We'll see
Friends first
Let's take baby steps
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Most of the girls in the local clubs that do OTC are very straight up about it. No tease.
As far as the others, most of them are quite approachable, just do long as you don't treat them like prostitutes. That is the main thing they are on guard against.
It's a fantasy. Practically every guy wants to take a dancer home (or to bed) and her fantasy is to make you think that she MIGHT fuck you. I usually see that act on what most of us would call a 9 or 10.
You'd literally have to fall in love or me blindly chasing a single stripper (or only see one girl to whole time). I sit with between 4-7 girls on a 2 hour visit and it least 1 will straight up offer OTC p4p on her own without me prompting. And I'm not even looking for it nor am I a rich stud like Dougster.
I've encountered the long tease. It usually leads nowhere. One time, however, a dancer who had strung me along for a year finally went out with me and to bed. Persistence pays off!
mikeya02, any time and attention in a strip club costs money. The money is just a show of respect. But are you the only one on TUSCL who has not studied The System?
Guys are just hold f on long enough to see if they can be there in the girl's moment of weakness, so they can catch them as they fall. These guys will blow countless hours in hopes to score, some with success, and some others in a predatory sense. I'd rather move along and find one who was motivated to begin with.
I don't look at this as a string along or a tease. As several have said many times it does lead to OTC sex. You must remember that these are human beings and treat them with respect. I normally can get a dancer to go out for OTC sex in one or two visits to a club. But you have to be loving and caring and reach out to their needs. They are not Cha-Ching sex vending machines. If they go with you the first time they are prostitutes. But if they are real working individuals they have schedules that need to be planned and worked around. On one of my first OTC escapades I took the dancer to her house. We had 2 hours to suck and fuck and shower before her husband came home from work. But we did it and I didn't feel rushed the time was adequate. But I had to talk her into it by showing her I cared about her and her needs and she needed the extra money so we did it. I like the challenge of talking them into it. If you ask and they immediately say let's go they are a prostitute and anybody can get them in bed. I want a challenge to get the real hot dancers into bed with me and I normally can pull it off by talking to them like you would your girlfriend.
jestrite50 is the one guy who knows how to engage with women. What he is saying should be obvious if one just thinks about it a bit. But most guys just don't think.
First of all, I think there are almost no non extras girls these days although plenty will lie about it. Second, for those ones who actually are they probably aren't making bank although, again, they will lie about it.
You guys didn't catch that my topic was a thinly veiled reference to Nina. She does no extras or OTC, but claims she makes bank from millionaire regulars. How, oh how does she do it?
In general most guys that go to strip clubs aren't looking for extras or OTC. For the ones that want the OTC, yeah I think the long tease is what these hot strippers use a lot.
BTW I don't remember Nina saying she doesn't do OTC. In fact I think she said she'd be interested in being a sugar baby, it will probably help pay for her law school.
Like most StripperWeb girls I would put my money on Nina vastly understating how much she does in the way of extras and grossly overstating how much money she makes. That about how much you can believe anything a dumb whore says.
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As far as the others, most of them are quite approachable, just do long as you don't treat them like prostitutes. That is the main thing they are on guard against.
SJG
I have heard them. And in many instances, they did lead to OTC. But the vast majority of the times it was a brush off.
SJG
SJG
Beyond that, all I would say is, front room friendliness, save the booths and backrooms until something is really going to happen.
And, all time and attention cost money in a strip club.
Dougster, it sounds like Mikeya02 is in a no extras town.
Front room friendliness.
SJG
BTW I don't remember Nina saying she doesn't do OTC. In fact I think she said she'd be interested in being a sugar baby, it will probably help pay for her law school.
Where I am the clubs are strictly no touching. But the girls still do make decent money.
SJG