I was at this Strip Club, usually I go and I just have fun maybe get a dance or two but this time was different. I went into the club and no one really interested me, they were all hot but it wasn't doing it, the next girl to come on stage was dressed like the Suicide Squad style Harley Quinn, make up and all. She worked the pole like ive never seen, it was a room full of dudes and a bunch were tryin to get a dance with her as she got off stage, but she went past them all, came straight up to me, sat on my lap and whispered in my ear "you're mine" from that moment I knew I was doing this because HQ was my vice *fantasy*, so I ran to get the $40 for a dance, came back she took me to the private room only took half of what she was supposed to get, turned the camera off, said "I was the only one who dressed up for Halloween Night" to which I said "Im so fucking glad you did". Then she tells me I can do whatever I want *minus sex cause the club banned it*, she gave me the private room for only $20 when every other dude would have to spend $350 for what I did, she took all her clothes off full nude, grinded on me and humped me every single angle, we made out, I groped her tits and ass, I kissed her tits ass and neck, and she was jerkin my dick for like 5 songs, also I was only supposed to get one song on top of everything else I got to do. I was kind of drunk so I forgot to ask for a number and I was totally smitten with this babe. I feel like she obviously liked me but the problem is she is in another city and I flew back this morning and she wasn't at the club when I went back and now it's eating away at me, I don't know what to do, has anyone else been in a situation like this before? Please help...
Get over it. Find another super hot chick and see if she'll indulge in your fantasies because otherwise you'll never find HQ again. Just meet new women in the club and you'll soon enough forget about HQ
it's kinda simple if you think w/ your head instead of w/ your dick.
a) if you got such game; then you can find another chick like that inside or outside the club
b) if you don't have the type of game to get hot chicks all hot and bothered like this one; then that is what we call around here SS (stripper shit) - guys thinking a dancer is into them b/c the dancer did x,y, or z, is very common inside strip-clubs and 99% of the time is just a dancer being a ho b/c that is what many do - i.e. 1% chance she was into you, and even if she was; a "normal guy" does not wanna get involved w/ a stripper - there are many strip-clubs where you can get what you got and MUCH MORE as long as you pay for it - the fact she didn't charge *is* strange but again 99% of dudes that think "man she was into me" learn that not everything that glitters is gold - your experience of thinking a dancer is really into you is not at all uncommon
cherish her memory ... you can hope it happens again or you'll see her again... you gotta remember... strip clubs are based on fantasy. i'm sure quite a number of us had something similar... an OMG moment. we think the girls really into us. there is a slim possibility of that. butt more than likely it's just part of the act.
As I was reading the original post I could have sworn it was larryfisherman, but there was no mention of throwing hundreds of dollars in the air for no reason.
First, keep your head on straight. She's the paid entertainment for the night. The girls come and go all of the time in this industry. There is no point to get emotionally tied up with (the memory of) this girl. Second, you did all you can do -- going back a the same day of the week and the same time (night shift, day shift, or swing shift) -- I give you props for that. But this girl is replaceable, trust me. Third, there are other dancers out here trained in the art of seduction. It is possible to get a similar experience -- albeit not the exact same -- if you give it a chance with a new girl and let the hustle / seduction game play out. Fourth, there are plenty of room for more Papis but there wil only be one Papi_Chulo! Fifth, remember these are paid entertainers (or whores for some guys) so never get emotionally invested in one of them. If you do that, they can hustle you for all your money (and more) and leave you hurt emotionally once it all plays out and you have nothing less. I'm just warning you in case you don't know it -- but if you do, then feel free to disregard. I don't know your life experiences and situational awareness so I am not trying to insult you.
Halloween? You flew back to the town where you saw her almost a year later? Did you ask around the club for the dancer who dressed like Harley Quinn for Halloween last year? It might be a stretch, but maybe a DJ or a bartender is still around who'd remember if you don't recognize any dancers.
At least you got a good story out of the experience. Hope there was another reason for the trip.
@ChampagnePapi that ridiculous her stipper name is Malibu and she let's everyone fuck her. She was just playing hard to get with you so you'd respect her
You night be able to keep seeing this girl. But remember, its different if you had actually picker her, instead of she picking you as a part of doing her job. Girls often use that direct attention when they get off stage and go to someone who had not sat at the stage, to make sure they get a dance.
So like I say, maybe you could keep seeing her. But to get under her skin, it would have helped if you had picked her.
I pretty much did pick her by eye contact haha, she probably noticed how I was looking at her with my full attention, I wasn't at the stage but I was close watching the whole thing, like I said though other dudes asked for a dance from her but she came to me right after she got off stage she knew I was down for her
I pretty much did pick her by eye contact haha, she probably noticed how I was looking at her with my full attention, I wasn't at the stage but I was close watching the whole thing, like I said though other dudes asked for a dance from her but she came to me right after she got off stage she knew I was down for her
You just get one chance for the first meeting with a girl. If you want to be able to keep seeing her, they do it so you get under her skin. Girls are impressed when a guy is not afraid of rejection, and when he is not dependent on girls showing approval. If she can get you to respond to her, then any other girl could probably do the same thing. So what she wants is a guy who has selected her.
In P4P environments they don't meet many guys who treat them in a civilian manner.
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a) if you got such game; then you can find another chick like that inside or outside the club
b) if you don't have the type of game to get hot chicks all hot and bothered like this one; then that is what we call around here SS (stripper shit) - guys thinking a dancer is into them b/c the dancer did x,y, or z, is very common inside strip-clubs and 99% of the time is just a dancer being a ho b/c that is what many do - i.e. 1% chance she was into you, and even if she was; a "normal guy" does not wanna get involved w/ a stripper - there are many strip-clubs where you can get what you got and MUCH MORE as long as you pay for it - the fact she didn't charge *is* strange but again 99% of dudes that think "man she was into me" learn that not everything that glitters is gold - your experience of thinking a dancer is really into you is not at all uncommon
1) Don't fall in-love with a stripper
2) don't forget rule #1
Don't spread Papi Seeds
At least you got a good story out of the experience. Hope there was another reason for the trip.
You night be able to keep seeing this girl. But remember, its different if you had actually picker her, instead of she picking you as a part of doing her job. Girls often use that direct attention when they get off stage and go to someone who had not sat at the stage, to make sure they get a dance.
So like I say, maybe you could keep seeing her. But to get under her skin, it would have helped if you had picked her.
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In P4P environments they don't meet many guys who treat them in a civilian manner.
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