Have you ever been caught logging into TUSCL?

If you are looking at TUSCL, with your back to the door/your daughter/your wife, you are playing with fire.

Not your most brilliant decision

Only once and I logged in so shailynn new I was indeed juice box69

Yeah I often wonder how the married guys that are frequent posters get away w/ TUSCLing and their wives not busting them since women are often so inquisitive, "Watcha doing?"

I subscribe to the no wife + no kids = no such problems philosophy

Bingo^

I've had some close calls at work or at home with my children asking what am I playing on my phone. I'm separated so no worries about a wife catching me. It's less of a scare if you have a membership or posted a review and don't have to worry about the ads.

Be a man! You have a right to your privacy and you should not tolerate your wife or child violating it.

Since we're on the topic, the TUSCL logo doesn't scroll off when the mobile site loads on a phone.

For the VIP members, it might be nice for there to be a hide feature since it is pretty prominent. I had a dancer looking over my shoulder when I was at Rick's in San Antonio since I was being lazy and this was the type of girl that needs to sneak up on you. I don't think she knew what it was, but anyone who's seen the site can spot the logo pretty easily.

If I'm looking at TUSCL in a club, I'm either looking up dancers who might be worth checking out before I leave or nearby clubs to jump to (the case at Rick's). I've even kicked around the idea of doing a quick review from a club to get it done, but it's not practical with the logo and people being nosy.

Jackslash, you are so right and that's what I told them! Persistent little devils they were this morning. I'm in the shitter right now finishing my TUSCL duties, or is that doodie?

Never been caught. Don't have a wife or kids to worry about.

Man I wish Founder made a door to this site that was really basic, looked like reddit without photos (including avatars) so I could log on anywhere on my phone, computer etc. I'd even be willing to pay for that.

Luckily the way my home office is set up, when someone walks in they cannot see the screens of my 2 huge ass monitors (I set it up that way on purpose), but once I got busted. Back in the day before iPhones my buddy and I had Blackberries and would email each other instead of txting (which wasn't a big thing back then). I was emailing him from my home computer talking about my recent exploits as I had just returned from Vegas, and the word "stripper" must have been mentioned at least 48 times in the body of the email. I had stupidly left the email open and Mrs S walked in and saw the words "stripper friend." I closed the email when she gasped and had to spend about 20 minutes explained it was a nickname I gave my buddy since he used to date a stripper (which Mrs S knew about).

I do love Mozilla Firefox though, by changing the settings, all you have to do is close the browser and all history, passwords, etc. are erased each time.

Yeah, it'd be good if one could turn-off avatars just like one can turn-off the banner ads

Now why would anyone want to turn off the avatars? Oh, wait...

Hell, mrs sea started us both down this road. Glad I don't have to worry about these kind of issues.

Been there done that. Life is much better after divorce albeit expensive.

tl;dr - what seaboardrr wrote, +1.

My wife is on board with the whole strip clubbing thing. So I can't get "caught" per se. Often she's shoulder surfing over me in the evening and on the weekends. She absolutely adores lopaw and loves her posts. One of her close long time friends is a self-described "male whore" so she "gets" you guys. Therefore there is nothing to hide.

For the rare nights where I go to the club, I've let her now in advance that I will be out. She's okay with it. She just asks that I allocate funds to her so that she can do something (either shop online, go to hotel to get room service, get a quick spa or massage treatment, etc. -- to make it fair).

She just doesn't want her nose (publicly) rubbed in it, and in the case of escorting, how quickly she gets over it is directly related to how much money I make -- which is why I am interested in increasing my net earning potential. A lot of other wives she talks to are in the same boat: either they rationalize it based on the total home life the man provides or they are done providing it all the time, and in both cases, look the other way. Usually the wives aren't that clueless. They just let the man think so. It's just a quick diversion. You take care of business, then get back to business. :)

I've also had Tuscl open on the browser in my smartphone in the club, where a dancer asked to use my phone to show me something online. She and the others didn't care either. (At least as far as your average neighborhood dancers are concerned) They don't care that you look this stuff up online. That's expected these days. They do the same thing from their perspective (clubs to audition, expected mileage & expected extras, and earning potential, etc). So it's a given from both sides these days. It's not like we can kid ourselves that we ignore the power and information available to everyone on the internet. :)

I'm glad I don't have to worry about these kind of issues. ;)

-Dominic

stripperweb.com

Bummer, Jim. I'm single, never married so this issue has never been a problem. Corvus and shailyn bring up good points. I don't and won't preach to our choir, I'm just an oldie-moldie, who has enjoyed being single all my unnatural life.

I thankfully have the same situation as sal69. but it is expensive on both fronts.

One night when I was out with friends from work, one of the girls was talking about a funny site she had found. Her phone battery was dead so she asked to borrow my phone to pull it up to show everyone and I handed it to her without thinking.

When she opened the browser tuscl.net popped up because it was the last site I was on. She kind of chuckled as she pulled up the site she was talking about.

The next time I went up to the bar she followed me and asked me about the site. I thought she was going to give me a hard time about it, but instead she asked if I knew of any female friendly clubs because the last two she went to wouldn't let her in.

It's become a running joke between the two of us ever since. Sadly I have never been able to convince her to join me at a club because I would really enjoy watching her get a nice lapdance.

One time my daughter saw the ad where the animated sihouette is giving head. She asked what they were doing. I said I have no idea. I never log in when others can see now.

My wife saw me schooling some of the libs on here, and asked what I was doing (thank you for the graphic advertisements). I told her, "pissing people off." She found that to be an acceptable explanation.

LOL @Gamma, your wife sounds like a perfect partner for you :) There's only about three of us here to piss off.

My wife caught me on TUSCL one day and I felt really bad about it. We didn't really discuss it. She either forgot about it or is suppressing the anger.

My wife escaped from Cuba in '95. She is even more hardcore conservative than I am. Her father is right of Sarah Palin and Dick Cheney.

I'm only going to be logging on when I'm in the shitter, from here on out! Thankfully I've been eating a ton of Mexican food, therefore I shall have plenty of time to conjure up my thoughts, privately.

Right now still deeply embedded in local political issues. But soon, I'll be appearing with strippers in public, besides waking up with them in the morning. I'll be talking my walk and walking my talk.

I cheated on my wife, but I would never have done this if I believed that the marital problems could have been solved. When I believed that they could be solved, I was 100% faithful. But beyond point I knew that I was just trying to stay sane, and so I did engage in infidelities.

I still say that we need to start collecting some money, to send some of these girls to school to become marriage counselors and divorce attorneys. That way they can actually do something to help some of you guys.

SJG

"That way they can actually do something to help some of you guys."

^^^^ SJG, I hope those words weren't meant for me? I forever don't know how to take such vitriol vented that way towards me, as I have a hit wife and 5 kids at home who rely on me to feed, clothe, and shelter them. It us my job to provide for them, so if your ill will is directed at me I would like to know how I have earned that respect? Please oblige!

^^^ "Hot wife" not hit wife. She doesn't take anyone out without me knowing about it!

JimG, my comments are not specifically directed at you, even though you started this thread. Rather I've been saying things like that since I first registered two years ago. I think the ideas are fairly obvious. Guys have got to decide, they are either going to make their marriages work, and be what they purport to be. Or they are going to have to stand up for what they seem to believe in, and end their marriages.

There are some married people who opt for Swinging. And there are some married men who really are faithful. When I was trying to make a marriage work, I was one of these faithful.

I mean if people want life to work, they as I see it, they need to walk their talk. With that in mind, and after trying in everyway possible to make a marriage work, I did end it.

And I am still trying to mend fences with my ex, and to work with her so that we both see what went wrong. I don't think either she or I are bad, but I know that there is much in our society which was making the situation impossible. For one thing, she was being influenced by people who needed to be told off. She would not do this.

So no, my comments were not directed at you, they were a reiteration of a position I have been advancing for over two years. Just ask lapdanceking82 if you don't believe me.

Guys go to strip clubs. But if they also were to find marriage counselors and divorce attorneys, then they could actually get some help accomplishing something.

One Crystal, huge tits big hair tall Latina bombshell, at a local club, was going to school to become a marriage counselor. Never yet found any attorneys though. But lots of girls who dance in strip clubs definitely have what it would take to be an attorney.

SJG

SJG, good luck in getting through your struggles of your past marriage. As someone who is happily married, the best part about it is growing together and managing a unit as a whole; family.

With your intellect you too can become a father some day and raise him/her to assist in the great organization you are building. I see a family with children in your near future, so choose wisely my friend. She should be willing to suck you dry daily and take care of the children while you are off leading your organization. Remember to allow TUSCL members like me to join!

JimG, I listen to you, and you sound like an oversized 10yo.

SJG

SJG, my friend you are correct! I think that I may never want to grow up. It's that inner child in me that can't keep me from overeating. Ice cream is my latest temptation I can't control. I was probably the happiest ever when I was 10 years old. Just starting to learn about the femal body, oh the memories that we all can share of a youth gone fast! Thank God we have TUSCL to share the commonality of beautiful women, right?

I think Tuscl and the strip club scene is best summed up as: Boys will be boys. We have our everyday responsibilities and we also have our play things. :)

Looks like SJG has a friend!

Jim, I started this thread, hoping that people would give the matter some serious thought. So far I still don't think it has gotten the serious consideration it deserves. I'm thinking that you might have a unique perspective:

tuscl.net

And then this too:

tuscl.net

SJG

Deep Purple - Demon's Eye youtube.com

SJG I responded to your "Marriage" article. Thanks for providing the link. I also think I perpetually want to live the life of a 10 year old because of all of the responsibility bestowed upon me, however I did ask for it for knocking g up my wife 5 times! It's subconsciously an escape from my day to day grind of juggling career, family, and life in order to survive my insanity. If I pretend I'm still in my youth I can get through the day mentally without getting upset at my wife and kids. Comedians as a group of people are probably the most psychologically damaged people you can find, abuse is rampant with sex, drugs, and other obsessions. Thankfully my wife has accepted my worst vice consumption of food. My fear is that she will find a younger, more fit man to satisfy her needs. Thankfully I make a lot of money to keep her from a wandering eye, as she couldn't find a by were life elsewhere with 5 children at tow. My son is my best friend, and I hope he grows up to be more politically conscious, maybe even a little more like you SJG.

Jim you under estimate the facets of female sexuality. Surely your money does help. Like matter in men to women but they have a not of other facets that they also consider. It is a complicated calculus.

Thread-jack: I do have to take a step back and subdue my giggles at the thought of grown men hiding Tuscl from women. Sorry. No, I'm not sorry lol. Sorry for the cheap shot at y'all. :)

I have to think most people, married or not, keep their TUSCL activities private. Maybe Juice doesn't, or is it Jackie? Lol

"Caught" implies something illicit. My wife sometimes reads over my shoulder. She also has her own login here, but I don't think she's used it in a while.

As for anyone else, I don't log in on my PC when they're around. If I'm logged in on my phone, I keep it discreet.