I've never done anal before. But I remember reading here that some kind of lubrication is critical. I've never used a lube for sex but I want to be prepared.
I've never done anal before. But I remember reading here that some kind of lubrication is critical. I've never used a lube for sex but I want to be prepared.
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last commentThis is right up SJGay's alley
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Try WD40 - that shit works on almost anything
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Pam cooking spray can be used in a pinch
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I'm serious. And id rather get the answer from a heterosexual.
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Astro glide.
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Astroglide. YOu dont want to use KY Warming or it will feel like diherea after chugging tabasco.
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Are you giving or receiving this anal pleasure?
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Giving!
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This may be a questio. For a proctologist
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youtu.be
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Isn't feces enough?
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Tears John tears.
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^^^ IME beat me to it. Tears @Smith -- since you're clearly into that. Go with no lube at all!!!!
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No shit.
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Don't try it on the DC. She is approaching her golden years and the last thing she wants is a loose asshole. DS's asshole is more resilient because it's only 20 years old.
You should have tried it on the DS before you cut her off
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Unlike the other pervs on here I'll give a serious answer. Astroglide will work. If you go by an adult store you will find many anal lubes. KY kind of gets absorbed, but it is usable.
I would use a condom. Unless she has really cleaned herself out like a porn star you will have some feces and lube. Unless you're cool with feces and lube (aka santorum) on your penis it is easier to just use the condom.
Numbing lubes are available. I've never used a numbing lube. I don't think that numbing lubes are a good idea because she might not feel it if you do something that hurts her. Obviously, you wouldn't be numbed if you wear a condom (numbing would kind of defeat the purpose).
In a pinch (perhaps ill conceived) I once used hand lotion. There was no damage done and my partner did not complain. However, we were both a little stoned at the time. Indeed, she actually suggested it when I realized we had no lube. Stoned slutty girls are great!
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Many lubes will work fine. Some of the lubes specifically for anal sex are thicker and really do work better. I like this one: sliquid.com I won't claim it's the best in the world, but I like it better than the standard lubes like Astroglide etc.
There are other more expensive lubes that I'm sure san jose gay has lots of experience with, like Liquid Silk, Gun Oil, etc., and they may or may not work better, I dunno. But Sliquid Sassy works great IMO.
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^^^ I should note that Sassy is water-based. Having tried some silicone-based, like Sliquid Silver or various options from Pjur, do arguably work for better and longer.. I just bias towards less obnoxious chemicals, and am guessing you won't be going for so long that you need it to last forever
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Just remember to ask your buddy to give you a reach around.. hahaha
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Astroglide. I'm cheap and simple. I'm sure better exists.
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Usually after a greasy bucket of KFC my sawsage fangers are lubed enough to cram up her ass before I gide my pecker in
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Don't do it JS.
I don't have any personal experience in this arena, butt...
Assuming your partner is not a guy, I would suggest that you make sure she uses a small dildo.
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The tear jokes cracker me up boys lol
John I take a lot of bitches back door... just use sex lube from your local drug store...the key is use the lube
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Worse case senero use a Shit load of spit
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"assuming your partner is not a guy"
You know what they say about people that assume
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No mo head I don't know what they say....tell us ?
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Funny that JS69 started a threads about anal lube and Trump within a few hours of each other. Were you high when you posted, JS ?
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Fortunate to have a SB who gets really wet vaginally. So we use her natural vaginal wetness and add spit as necessary. For others, lube is essential. Lots of good lube options.
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JS, we've tried a lot and after all our "research" Wet Ecstasy Silicone Lube is our favorite. Any adult store will have it and it's cheap. Under $20. Amazon has it too. Any water based or mixed lube will ALWAYS get tacky. A couple drops of Wet Ecstasy lasts for hours and is great anywhere you want to apply it.
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Get the black bottle. It's the one that's 100% silicone.
My best suggestion is hit the local adult store and just grab a bunch of different "pillow packs" of various lubes and try them all to see what you both like. One type may irritate her and one type may taste bad, etc.... That's how we settled on Wet.
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Special lube for anal. Special lube for underwater too.
SJG
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it is good to see the feces obsessed @zipperhead identity of @mikey posted here. you should listen to him given his expertise with everything to do with the ass. of course, hes a loser that has never actually had sex so you should take that into consideration
i see that @san_jose_guy has chimed in too. dont listen to him unless he can prove that hes taken his meds
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Thanks seaboardrr. The Mrs and I will give that one a try, err, or rather she'll give it a try (since it's her ass). :)
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It's not only about the lube, which you'll have to experiment with though astroglide seems to work, but also making sure the sphincter muscle is relaxed. That means taking it slowly or starting with a finger or two.
Also avoid vaginal sex after anal.
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You should talk to a couple of trannys; I'm sure they know the best products (maybe there's some kind of tranny discussion board?).
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We may all need butt lube if either party's candidate is elected.....
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Pjur Backdoor Relaxing Anal Glide
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ATACdawg's on a roll today, LMAO!
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The online suppliers, Adam & Eve or Lovers Lane have recommendations.
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This could be a question for SW.
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i've tried anal a few times with women that wanted it... bb each time... it's ok... but i prefer pussy. have used spit or lube. my dick is tiny.
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