Yes - too big - I spend a lot of time in them and a lot of $$$ - it's the discretionary thing I spend the most time and $$$ on - I often feel I should cut back but nothing else really gives me the rush and instant gratification SCs do - when I started SCing I would describe SCs as Disney Land for adults and what kid does not like Disney Land and want to visit as much as possible - going to SCs is often on my mind and I daydream about hitting SCs in different areas and experiencing new SCs.
Having no S.O. nor kids (by choice) I thus have a good amount of free-time on my hands and even when I was younger I was never really too much at all into the bar nor nightclub scene - SCs seem like simple "entertainment for dummies" - just add water (in this case water = $$$).
At 46 y/o many of my friends from the past have complicated busy lives with wives and kids or divorced and kids or in a relationship; so they often have different priorities and obligations and none of them like SCing like I do so outside of SCing and not really wanting to date there isn't much for me to do socially that I would really enjoy (everything else seems boring by comparison).
And yeah - if you are having stress and/or issues in your life and SCs help w/ that then I'd say that's a good thing although some would argue that's a crutch-remedy but hey if you have a headache don't you take an aspirin to feel better - IMO if one is able to do it and it brings joy/fun in their lives then be glad one can do it and has access to SCs - no one knows what tomorrow will bring so enjoy ourselves while we can.
I would say it would be better if one did not have to rely on strip-clubs for fun/gratification; but life is not perfect and if SCs fill a need that nothing else will at this point in one's life then better to fill it w/ SCs than not fill-it at all; although I think one should be careful in thinking SCs are the great cure-all.