I went out tonight. I honestly felt like I could not give money away. It was a complete train wreck. Maybe after 18-19 week hiatus I have forgotten how to club?
I had fun stage tipping. That was the highlight. mistake #1 was arriving around 12 midnight. It's never good when almost none of the dancers are available. Mistake #2 Golden pussy syndrome (GPS) it was the classic rookie mistake of chasing a new (to me) dancer. It didn't live up to the hype (in my head).
CF has moved on from this club so it's time for something new. (1) I can try to develop / spend more time with the "smart" girl at this club despite her low mileage. But she does and incredible ass grind. She's gotten better and is ACTUAL willing to let her body come in contact with clothed hard cock now. (2) I can try a new club. I hear Christies Cabaret is nice and CF may be dancing here. (3) just persue CF for OTC, cutting out the middleman and the "club bullshit" as she put it.
Honestly I would have paid CF escort rate just to talk and flirt and no sex (it's not like I have to sleep with her). Despite having fun tonight that's how much of a letdown it was. :(
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I was at the showclub last night too. I tried a new(to me) dancer and she definitely exceeded my expectations. You should try a new club or go for otc with cf. I don't waste time and money hoping low mileage dancers(relative to the contact level for that club) change. Friday and Saturday nights are usually when the most dancers with GPS work. The sausage fest atmosphere only encouraged GPS in a lot of cases. Definitely avoid weekends after midnight.