Best kissing experience in the strip club

yeah, usually all dancers do is give you a peck on the cheek after you tip them on stage or after a VIP session as a way of thanking you for buying dances from them

but every now and then they'll make out with you during a lap dance. it's only happened to me twice, but it was fantastic both times. the best time was with a short, light skinned black girl who just started making out with me and she was so fun I ended up buying another VIP session with her

In my estimation, dancers making out with customers is much more of the exception than the norm in MOST clubs. but if you purchase like a $300+ room or limo....it's probably more likely to happen especially if you talk with her ahead of time. But in general, I don't think making out between dancers and customers happens that much....but I sure do love it when it does happen!

Several make out sessions in vip. Though I initiated them I was surprised they were receptive and into it.

It is quite frequent for me. All of my favorites give me GFE in VIP and when I take a chance on a new one and she doesn't, then she never gets another VIP from me.

Shadowcat, how does that work? Do you tell them beforehand you want GFE? Do you initiate the kissing? Do they initiate it?

Part of the reason I haven't gotten a lot of kissing might be because I don't initiate anything.

Actually GoVikings the few times I've had some kissing was just in the regular lapdances.

sshrsky

I've never initiated. Both times the dancer did.

I feel like initiating making out during a lap dance would just get you rejected in most cases, but I might try initiating tonight---all she can do is say no, right? :-)

"Actually GoVikings the few times I've had some kissing was just in the regular lapdances."

you got lucky.

In most cases the more money you spend the more you can get away with

With the DS the night I met her. After I kissed her all over, and sucked on her breasts til I thought they might fall off, we both knew that my next destination was between her legs with my mouth. Before I gave her two orgasms orally, I came up to kiss. It was as passionately and intensely as I've ever kissed a woman before. With my perfect stripper.

My ATF is GFE so every trip to see her is filled with plenty of front of the house and VIP DFK. But the first time I met her was the best.

When I first met her and brought her over to me at the club, we talked for an hour and connected (with a few pecks) before heading down to the VIP. The bouncer wasn't there to take us to a room, so while we waited for him, out of nowhere she starts with some LFK. As soon as we finally got to the room, there was no talking or even sitting down, we just started to straight up make out for the first two songs. We eventually got down to real business, but when we finished, cleaned up and headed upstairs, the DFK continued while we hung out afterwards in the front of the house.

I didn't ask for it and wasn't expecting it, but that's the way it's fortunately been with her ever since.

"I might try initiating tonight"

Do it!

larry - it goes either way.

One of my regulars DFKs every time we connect, regular or VIP. In VIP, however, while I have tongue in her mouth I also have one or two fingers in her pussy. She was quite the mouth teaser the very first time she danced for me, but finally opened wide and I was pleasantly surprised. She was actually quite dominant when we first were together but now we flip iback and forth who's the aggressor. Kinda fun!

I didn't know this was on the menu

At a favorite club in Indy where extras are possible in the VIP room (which costs $150 for 30 minutes plus whatever you tip the dancer), I have enjoyed at least LFK and sometimes DFK with several of the girls, initiated by them.

The first time it happened was two years ago during my first VIP there. A girl who had only done lap dances for me once before straddled me as soon as we hit the VIP room and started kissing me before kneeling next to me on the couch, pulling down my shorts, and sucking my dick bareback.

A similar thing happened there a couple of months ago with a girl whom I had spent the previous afternoon with, just hanging out and drinking together Subraman-style for a couple of hours. We agreed to meet the next day when her shift began at 1 and headed straight to the VIP room. She, too, straddled me and started some LFK, then said "I'd like to get a little naughty with you" -- and did! In her case I returned the oral favors simultaneously and everybody had a good time!

I've found a high correlation between excellent kissers and skilled cocksuckers.

Not into it myself. When dancers initiate I will usually deflect. I've found that the older dancers are more likely to include this if you are looking for it.

I came in a club where I'd been a regular of a girl who I'd dropped about 1k over three months back in the early 1990s in a sling in a cast after being absent for three weeks. I told her I probably was going to be out of work and wouldn't be at the club for a while, but got my regular lap dances and got some incredible LFKs which became DFKs...... and when I came back visit 4 months later she had moved on, I never saw her again.

Larry, having a discussion about kissing is only a fall back position when it ain't happening. You want to get around her logical thinking.

Best to play with her in the front room, feeding her money, and before you've agreed to anything. Then just kiss her.

I do it like this in AMPs all the time. Zero discussion.

Now sure, I'm talking to her, but that is just to open her up, and to let her see that I treat her as I would any other girl. I want her to be following me and learning to like the sound of my voice. And I want to get her off script.

It doesn't always work, but often enough it does, and then what ensues is always mind blowing.

In our local strip clubs all touching is prohibited, but things do still happen, and also in San Francisco.

SJG

Get Yer Ya Ya's Out!

Two of my old favorites liked it best when I DATY first, then kissed them.

^ awww @Hugh_G._Rection, that's kinda sweet.

@DandyDan- that's what you call a keeper!

My ATF isn't a big kisser, it's too much like surrender to her, and with her past, that's significant. The hottest one was the first time she finally relented, and let me probe her mouth with my tongue. It was like a brand new thing for me.

Then there's the MILF. The first time I went down on her, after she nutted, she pulled me up and DFKed for a good two minutes.

I initiate all the time. It catches them off guard and they immediately surrender themselves to you. It's like first time sex with a girl. usually you know in your mind you are going to fuck them but they don't see it coming and yield to you as a path of least resistance. It just works that way.

@jestrite50- ???

Went to see CF of the time. She wasn't working at the normal time. Why, a long story, I found out later. Anyway, a dancer that vincemichaels later ended up chasing away stopped by. Little to no English. Anyway her greeting as I sat a t the bar demanded, at the very least, a trip to the LD area. Unfortunatly, I really had to get going, but I said, OK, 1 dance. Ended up a couple with Mr. Happy happy, but HAD to leave. Anyway, she walked me to the exit and started to give an unexpected kiss. Damn, it was the best ever, and still is, in a SC.

Larry, in case you somehow didn't know, jestrite50 is the master of strip clubbing and front room GFE.

SJG

Some tips for GFE/DFK I think I picked up. IDK if they really help or not, you can't scientific method it. The vast majority of strippers wont make out with you. Even ones that would FS you, still wont DFK you.

If you are doing semi-private dances, if she gets into a position that lets you touch/masturbate her pussy covered or uncovered and she doesn't knock off your hands, she might be open to DFK. All strippers who allow DFK will allow FOV since DFK is a more special and rarer service than FOV or FS.

Hold her hand walking to VIP rooms.

When standing together at the POS station infront of the door to VIP room hallway, lightly touch her arm and brush it with the back of your fingers and look in her eyes and turn away. Or keep your hand on her ass.

In VIP, try to kiss her neck, if she leans away or moves back, she doesn't kiss. Neck kissing can be moved "up" to lip kissing sometimes (or she will change positions if she thinks you are getting to her lips soon). Some strippers (see SW) will never let their faces get near a customer, or the custie gets an idea to kiss her. Nose bump twice (it is a last warning to the stripper you are about to kiss her), then quickly tilt your head, open your mouth, put it on her lips, close your eyes (or keep them open, this is a surprise kiss and you need to see whats going on with her face) then drag/close your lips over her lips, when your lips are closed, open your eyes if your eyes are closed, lift your lips off hers, untilt your head, and return to nose bump position. On the first kiss, she will be surprised and won't move her lips or open them. Once back at nose bump position, look in her eyes and smile/grin at her, then tilt your head and close your eyes, when she sees this, she will do the same, now a make out session has started.

If your teeth bang, you need more practice making out. It will go away after the 2nd session.

Once lip kissing has started, after a minute or two, try french kissing, you need to know the answer to what her limits are for the next VIP session since you are establishing the "rules" for all future VIPs on the 1st VIP session.

s88 says: "The vast majority of strippers wont make out with you."

agreed. that's been my experience as well. i wish more of them did it, but i understand why they don't. kissing is obviously a personal thing, and something they probably only reserve for their BFs/husbands/guys they truly like

@jestrite50--- that's very surprising. but if you say so

@GoVikings

I once had a stripper give me an HIV lecture in VIP after I attempted to lip kiss her. I just nodded and "okayed" her until she went back to grinding. I shortly ended the LDs after that since she was a lost cause. She looked like Janie Jones the pornstar but shorter and bigger tits with barely noticeable implants.

@s88

haha, that's funny. that's exactly why i've never initiated the kissing. because i don't expect the vast majority of them to be receptive to it at all.

I had a dinner date with a stripper and she suggested that we dress up for a change. She said "I want to watch the tongues wag when I kiss you and call you daddy". Unfortunately our plans got fucked up.

@GoVikings

I've had better luck the last 4 months than the last 2 years. Nose bumping or forehead resting is a signal to try to lip kiss. Neck kiss beforehand. Ear kissing works too but start with neck. Never kiss the tits until after DFK was done. Kissing or licking the tits is a PL move, not a civie move. You want a civie experience, then do one to her, no tit sucking or kissing.

Some things that may or may not help, dont be disgusting (shower/shave/brush teeth/deoderant/mouthwash in your suit jacket/keep your dandruff under control). Pick the right club and the right attitude girls. A 25 year old in a SC where no other customer is under 40 means you will get treated like a civie, not a PL. Pick strippers that are the same age as you OR OLDER. If you have to go for the 30 something or 40 something stripper because you are 30 or 40 something, then that is what you have to do. There are 40 year old spinner ex-cheerleader/ex-gymist strippers. Some strippers are GFE escorts on the side and you dont know that, they will kiss with NO problems. Some strippers have SDs that they kiss for $. The no kissing rule is for "I am stripper because I refuse to do anything more", not escorts, sluts, and hookers who strip. You want to get the GFE escorts and sluts, and older hookers, not the stripperweb strippers. A stripper having kids is a plus for kissing likelyhood. Young hookers IME do not kiss. With strippers, you pay for time, not for each service, what happens in that time, who knows ;)

Do not pick ghetto/ratchet/urban strippers. They are incapable of attachment to men except their dopeman. They probably dont even kiss their dopeman because of this stupid "black men dont kiss" rule so why would they kiss you?

The ideal AA stripper for kissing grew up in a rural area and did atleast 1 year of dorm college, and is new to stripping. You dont want a hardened "bitch better have my $" hoodrat who wont even look you in the eyes (but her buthole will look you in the eyes).

I have an negative opinion on alcohol. I've never been able to kiss a drunk or high stripper. One stripper who was sober the first time she kissed and DFKed me, the 2nd time she was wasted, but the experience was identical to the first, but she already "knew me" by then. The last drunk stripper I LDed yesterday, was verging on saying or did say StarLight69 crap at me and I had to laugh off her nasty words. I dont call her fat/saggy tits/acne/etc, dont say that shit about me to me.

Dont talk about fucking them, or their tits, talk to them like a friend or a GF. If you wouldnt say it to your momma, dont say it to a stripper. Don't do threesomes. Its you and her. I dont have the $ or looks to score in a regular night club, but I have been able to get night club experiences for X minutes in VIP at SCs that are indistinguishable in the moment from a GF.

Go 3 to 6 times for the lips before you give up, I kindda make it seem like an accident at first that our lips touched to give her a chance to change positions/move her head to show she doesn't kiss. The "accident" kisses also make it seem to her like the line was crossed "accidentally" or "in the moment" rather than I was planning to DFK her from before I introduced myself to her in the SC (I was).

I go to an no extra club. And I have had really good percentages of making out with tongue during a lap dance. Their's a camera in the lap dance area, and they usually say I don't normally do this and we make out some. They always point to the camera saying they could get in trouble..

@s88 not true at all. I had a few girls (many) force me to finger bang them, but definitely did not want to kiss. After the third failed attempt, I realized to myself why would I want to kiss a random stranger anyway. They may have herpes or something.

"It's like first time sex with a girl. usually you know in your mind you are going to fuck them but they don't see it coming and yield to you as a path of least resistance."

They don't see it coming when you wait until they're asleep. Isn't that right SJG?

I've had DFKs initiated by four dancers in my clubbing life. #1, my ATF, who kissed me passionately on a number of occasions, some of the hottest I have ever had. #2, a dancer in Brantford, Ontario as we were saying goodbye at the club door. #3, one of my current favorites, and probably my second oldest ever, started going after my tonsils last time I was in. #4 was a quick exchange of tongue as i was leaving.

Front room friendliness, not "buying dances".

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There can be some primaries, but if you like the girl, just kiss her.

Some, when trying to get an OTC date lined up, their kissing is intense.

SJG

If I like a girl I will start kissing her in the front room. I will start just kissing her randomly then after that goes well I plant a big DFK on them. I have never had one refuse me yet. I don't ask them, I don't tell them what I'm going to do, I just do it and they like it. Several have complimented me on my kisses. My 2 favorites right now plant a big DFK on me as soon as we see each other.

I have quite a few dancers who regularly offered a bit of LFK during our dances, but can only recall five dancers over twenty plus years who ever offered DFK, and only one regularly. Four of the five, including the one who regularly offered it were in non-extras clubs. The fifth was in an extras club. Two times were during a half hour champagne room dance.

The one who did so regularly, first did so after getting dances off and on for a little under two years. It was during a half hour champagne room dance. The first time she did so was the best. She did so quite regularly for about three years then abruptly stopped.

The best overall happened on the next to last dance I ever got from a dancer. She was bombed out of her skull and I could taste the booze in her mouth as we kissed very deeply. The next time she was even more bombed, and did a bit of LFK. The next week she got fired.

nice.

kissing... love it when the stars align. ;)

So obviously, if you want to kiss her, you don't wait until you are doing a "dance" with her, you just kiss her.

SJG

Since this thread in June, I've had a few more makeout sessions that blow the one I was talking about out of the water.

^^^^^ Awesome. Hope you have learned the wisdom of just making it happen in the front room.

Likely you will be ending up in bed with lots of these girls.

Enjoy, SJG

The key here is the element of surprise. You catch them off guard. Women like men who take control in the "front room" and the "bedroom" you sweep them off their feet as the old expression goes. Women like men who are romantic. "She's not going to give you what's in her pants without a little romance"

If a guy has to talk a girl into kissing him, or try to negotiate her into it with money, then he is chicken. Girls want guys who will sweep them off their feet. That's why I've explained that with AMP girls, once I can get her DFKing, often she is just completely off script and she turns the whole thing into a Girl Friend Audition.

And of course it is essential that this be done before any discussions about sex or money.

So in a strip club, same way, some words, eye contact, maybe nuzzling, and then kiss her. Mostly it just depends upon how you do it. And you want to do it before any discussion about dances, booths, back rooms, or sex acts.

SJG

I have had the pay for play dates before, early on in my sexcapades. They always leave you feeling empty, cheated, ripped off. Either the girl doesn't give you your full time agreed to or she is mechanical fucking you like "Let's get this over with !" "You better get off pretty soon, I ain't got all day." I will never again be suckered by these prostitutes again. In my GFE relationships we never talk about money, we never talk about time unless they have to be somewhere important like work, parent teacher comferences or something of that nature. When we get together we make an evening of it, dinner, a movie, maybe shopping, and then 2 or 3 hours of off the chart sex, playtime, and cuddling. All of the GFE relationships I have going now started in the front room with DFK , smalltalk, some light caress, and the exchange of phone numbers. These girls now call me or text me to see when I will be back in their area. Don't settle for the slam bam thank you Hook Ups they will leave you cold and unsatisfied.

If I am understanding Jestrite50 correctly, you want to be completely civilian in how you engage with the girl., Get her to where she wants to have sex with you before there is any discussion of money or trying to make any agreement.

Then after she clearly wants to, she might talk about money. Even if she doesn't, I would still pay her. This is how it has always worked for me in AMPs.

And then in our no touching strip clubs, girls that don't do OTC or anything like that can be warmed up and often they are perfectly available and ready.

Guys get creepy when they want to be buying the girl with money, instead of treating her like a civilian.

SJG

^^^^ shut the fuck up you dumbass. you don’t know shit. you had to buy your wife through the mail

These girls don't want to be prostitutes. They don't want to be treated like prostitutes. My GFE girl in Michigan texts me 2 or 3 times a day. We text about things like what can we do the next time I'm in town. She wants to go to the movies this time and sit in the back where we can play. She wants to buy me a Christmas gift and wanted to know what I wanted. She said she wants to buy me something real nice "because I'm so generous with her". This is the kind of relationship we have with all my GFE girls. I will be Christmas shopping for each of them this next month. They want to be treated like a girlfriend because they are not prostitutes and don't want to be treated like one. Treat them as you would your girlfriend and you will have more fun than you can handle.

"These girls don't want to be prostitutes"

but they know they are. you know what else they don't want? they don't want weirdos like san_jose_guy to come anywhere near them

I'd definitely be concerned if a girl I'm DFKing has also offered to suck me off. You'd need a big ego to think she's not sucking other customers, perhaps minutes before your VIP session. Just keep that in mind.

Funnily enough, by an East European. And I was never fond of them either