Best kissing experience in the strip club
larryfisherman
California
What has been your best kissing experience ITC?
For me most times I've been kissed, it's just been a peck on the lips.
One time though my CF during a lapdance (a couple of weeks ago), leaned in and starting kissing me, and we made out for a couple songs in a row. Gawd that was hot! She's about to be my ATF.
For me most times I've been kissed, it's just been a peck on the lips.
One time though my CF during a lapdance (a couple of weeks ago), leaned in and starting kissing me, and we made out for a couple songs in a row. Gawd that was hot! She's about to be my ATF.
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but every now and then they'll make out with you during a lap dance. it's only happened to me twice, but it was fantastic both times. the best time was with a short, light skinned black girl who just started making out with me and she was so fun I ended up buying another VIP session with her
In my estimation, dancers making out with customers is much more of the exception than the norm in MOST clubs. but if you purchase like a $300+ room or limo....it's probably more likely to happen especially if you talk with her ahead of time. But in general, I don't think making out between dancers and customers happens that much....but I sure do love it when it does happen!
Part of the reason I haven't gotten a lot of kissing might be because I don't initiate anything.
Actually GoVikings the few times I've had some kissing was just in the regular lapdances.
I've never initiated. Both times the dancer did.
I feel like initiating making out during a lap dance would just get you rejected in most cases, but I might try initiating tonight---all she can do is say no, right? :-)
you got lucky.
In most cases the more money you spend the more you can get away with
When I first met her and brought her over to me at the club, we talked for an hour and connected (with a few pecks) before heading down to the VIP. The bouncer wasn't there to take us to a room, so while we waited for him, out of nowhere she starts with some LFK. As soon as we finally got to the room, there was no talking or even sitting down, we just started to straight up make out for the first two songs. We eventually got down to real business, but when we finished, cleaned up and headed upstairs, the DFK continued while we hung out afterwards in the front of the house.
I didn't ask for it and wasn't expecting it, but that's the way it's fortunately been with her ever since.
Do it!
The first time it happened was two years ago during my first VIP there. A girl who had only done lap dances for me once before straddled me as soon as we hit the VIP room and started kissing me before kneeling next to me on the couch, pulling down my shorts, and sucking my dick bareback.
A similar thing happened there a couple of months ago with a girl whom I had spent the previous afternoon with, just hanging out and drinking together Subraman-style for a couple of hours. We agreed to meet the next day when her shift began at 1 and headed straight to the VIP room. She, too, straddled me and started some LFK, then said "I'd like to get a little naughty with you" -- and did! In her case I returned the oral favors simultaneously and *everybody* had a good time!
I've found a high correlation between excellent kissers and skilled cocksuckers.
Best to play with her in the front room, feeding her money, and before you've agreed to anything. Then just kiss her.
I do it like this in AMPs all the time. Zero discussion.
Now sure, I'm talking to her, but that is just to open her up, and to let her see that I treat her as I would any other girl. I want her to be following me and learning to like the sound of my voice. And I want to get her off script.
It doesn't always work, but often enough it does, and then what ensues is always mind blowing.
In our local strip clubs all touching is prohibited, but things do still happen, and also in San Francisco.
SJG
Get Yer Ya Ya's Out!
Then there's the MILF. The first time I went down on her, after she nutted, she pulled me up and DFKed for a good two minutes.
SJG
If you are doing semi-private dances, if she gets into a position that lets you touch/masturbate her pussy covered or uncovered and she doesn't knock off your hands, she might be open to DFK. All strippers who allow DFK will allow FOV since DFK is a more special and rarer service than FOV or FS.
Hold her hand walking to VIP rooms.
When standing together at the POS station infront of the door to VIP room hallway, lightly touch her arm and brush it with the back of your fingers and look in her eyes and turn away. Or keep your hand on her ass.
In VIP, try to kiss her neck, if she leans away or moves back, she doesn't kiss. Neck kissing can be moved "up" to lip kissing sometimes (or she will change positions if she thinks you are getting to her lips soon). Some strippers (see SW) will never let their faces get near a customer, or the custie gets an idea to kiss her. Nose bump twice (it is a last warning to the stripper you are about to kiss her), then quickly tilt your head, open your mouth, put it on her lips, close your eyes (or keep them open, this is a surprise kiss and you need to see whats going on with her face) then drag/close your lips over her lips, when your lips are closed, open your eyes if your eyes are closed, lift your lips off hers, untilt your head, and return to nose bump position. On the first kiss, she will be surprised and won't move her lips or open them. Once back at nose bump position, look in her eyes and smile/grin at her, then tilt your head and close your eyes, when she sees this, she will do the same, now a make out session has started.
If your teeth bang, you need more practice making out. It will go away after the 2nd session.
Once lip kissing has started, after a minute or two, try french kissing, you need to know the answer to what her limits are for the next VIP session since you are establishing the "rules" for all future VIPs on the 1st VIP session.
agreed. that's been my experience as well. i wish more of them did it, but i understand why they don't. kissing is obviously a personal thing, and something they probably only reserve for their BFs/husbands/guys they truly like
@jestrite50--- that's very surprising. but if you say so
I once had a stripper give me an HIV lecture in VIP after I attempted to lip kiss her. I just nodded and "okayed" her until she went back to grinding. I shortly ended the LDs after that since she was a lost cause. She looked like Janie Jones the pornstar but shorter and bigger tits with barely noticeable implants.
haha, that's funny. that's exactly why i've never initiated the kissing. because i don't expect the vast majority of them to be receptive to it at all.
I've had better luck the last 4 months than the last 2 years. Nose bumping or forehead resting is a signal to try to lip kiss. Neck kiss beforehand. Ear kissing works too but start with neck. Never kiss the tits until after DFK was done. Kissing or licking the tits is a PL move, not a civie move. You want a civie experience, then do one to her, no tit sucking or kissing.
Some things that may or may not help, dont be disgusting (shower/shave/brush teeth/deoderant/mouthwash in your suit jacket/keep your dandruff under control). Pick the right club and the right attitude girls. A 25 year old in a SC where no other customer is under 40 means you will get treated like a civie, not a PL. Pick strippers that are the same age as you OR OLDER. If you have to go for the 30 something or 40 something stripper because you are 30 or 40 something, then that is what you have to do. There are 40 year old spinner ex-cheerleader/ex-gymist strippers. Some strippers are GFE escorts on the side and you dont know that, they will kiss with NO problems. Some strippers have SDs that they kiss for $. The no kissing rule is for "I am stripper because I refuse to do anything more", not escorts, sluts, and hookers who strip. You want to get the GFE escorts and sluts, and older hookers, not the stripperweb strippers. A stripper having kids is a plus for kissing likelyhood. Young hookers IME do not kiss. With strippers, you pay for time, not for each service, what happens in that time, who knows ;)
Do not pick ghetto/ratchet/urban strippers. They are incapable of attachment to men except their dopeman. They probably dont even kiss their dopeman because of this stupid "black men dont kiss" rule so why would they kiss you?
The ideal AA stripper for kissing grew up in a rural area and did atleast 1 year of dorm college, and is new to stripping. You dont want a hardened "bitch better have my $" hoodrat who wont even look you in the eyes (but her buthole will look you in the eyes).
I have an negative opinion on alcohol. I've never been able to kiss a drunk or high stripper. One stripper who was sober the first time she kissed and DFKed me, the 2nd time she was wasted, but the experience was identical to the first, but she already "knew me" by then. The last drunk stripper I LDed yesterday, was verging on saying or did say StarLight69 crap at me and I had to laugh off her nasty words. I dont call her fat/saggy tits/acne/etc, dont say that shit about me to me.
Dont talk about fucking them, or their tits, talk to them like a friend or a GF. If you wouldnt say it to your momma, dont say it to a stripper. Don't do threesomes. Its you and her. I dont have the $ or looks to score in a regular night club, but I have been able to get night club experiences for X minutes in VIP at SCs that are indistinguishable in the moment from a GF.
Go 3 to 6 times for the lips before you give up, I kindda make it seem like an accident at first that our lips touched to give her a chance to change positions/move her head to show she doesn't kiss. The "accident" kisses also make it seem to her like the line was crossed "accidentally" or "in the moment" rather than I was planning to DFK her from before I introduced myself to her in the SC (I was).
Their's a camera in the lap dance area, and they usually say I don't normally do this and we make out some.
They always point to the camera saying they could get in trouble..
They don't see it coming when you wait until they're asleep. Isn't that right SJG?
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There can be some primaries, but if you like the girl, just kiss her.
Some, when trying to get an OTC date lined up, their kissing is intense.
SJG
The one who did so regularly, first did so after getting dances off and on for a little under two years. It was during a half hour champagne room dance. The first time she did so was the best. She did so quite regularly for about three years then abruptly stopped.
The best overall happened on the next to last dance I ever got from a dancer. She was bombed out of her skull and I could taste the booze in her mouth as we kissed very deeply. The next time she was even more bombed, and did a bit of LFK. The next week she got fired.
kissing... love it when the stars align. ;)
SJG
Likely you will be ending up in bed with lots of these girls.
Enjoy,
SJG
And of course it is essential that this be done before any discussions about sex or money.
So in a strip club, same way, some words, eye contact, maybe nuzzling, and then kiss her. Mostly it just depends upon how you do it. And you want to do it before any discussion about dances, booths, back rooms, or sex acts.
SJG
Then after she clearly wants to, she might talk about money. Even if she doesn't, I would still pay her. This is how it has always worked for me in AMPs.
And then in our no touching strip clubs, girls that don't do OTC or anything like that can be warmed up and often they are perfectly available and ready.
Guys get creepy when they want to be buying the girl with money, instead of treating her like a civilian.
SJG
but they know they are. you know what else they don't want? they don't want weirdos like san_jose_guy to come anywhere near them