Articulating opportunity to buddy
Lone_Wolf
Arizona
Have a good buddy that is slowly emerging from a two decade long torturous marriage (now divorce). It was shit from wedding day on. Homey is slowly dipping his toes back into the civvy dating world and finding the usual craziness.
Previously I never went into too much detail about my sc hobby but since he is looking, I tried to articulate the endless sea of opportunity for fine young pussy without all the BS that comes with civvie dating.
Not wanting my friend to waste the time and money I did when starting out, I told him about the hustle and the need to separate civvie world dating sc relationships. On and on I went feeling like I was telling him about an untapped gold mine.
After awhile I realized he was looking at me like I was speaking swahili or something. He just wasn’t getting it. I think, perhaps, getting the full fun from this whole sc bizzaro world is mostly something that has to learned from experience and cannot be taught.
Besides, I think introducing someone to this fun is kind of like giving someone their first line of cocaine. Never know where the fuck it will lead. I’ve decided it is probably best to let him find his own way and quit giving him unsolicited (and probably bad) advice on finding pussy.
Have any of you sc hounds ever tried to articulate to the sc opportunity to friends unaware of the available fun?
Previously I never went into too much detail about my sc hobby but since he is looking, I tried to articulate the endless sea of opportunity for fine young pussy without all the BS that comes with civvie dating.
Not wanting my friend to waste the time and money I did when starting out, I told him about the hustle and the need to separate civvie world dating sc relationships. On and on I went feeling like I was telling him about an untapped gold mine.
After awhile I realized he was looking at me like I was speaking swahili or something. He just wasn’t getting it. I think, perhaps, getting the full fun from this whole sc bizzaro world is mostly something that has to learned from experience and cannot be taught.
Besides, I think introducing someone to this fun is kind of like giving someone their first line of cocaine. Never know where the fuck it will lead. I’ve decided it is probably best to let him find his own way and quit giving him unsolicited (and probably bad) advice on finding pussy.
Have any of you sc hounds ever tried to articulate to the sc opportunity to friends unaware of the available fun?
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Still it could just be ignorance on his part so perhaps if you took him he could understand what your trying to tell him (a picture says a 1000 words kinda thing) - but I think it would be dangerous to send him on his own but if he does not show interest or curiosity perhaps better to not push him into it (he could also be a bit shell-shocked from his marriage).
He might need time to digest what you described. Maybe it will sink in - and he will want to give it a try. It might take months - or it may never sink in.
He might not desire the same thing - but he now knows what's out there.
Just teasing man. I had a friend like your situation. He liked hearing my stories and tried to take my help, but just didn't get how deep and accommodating the water was. Dive right in! You will be swimming with sharks without fear very soon!
I have 4 close friends who I have talked about clubs with before.
One married and one never married - they understand stripclubs like us PLs do and could be members on this chat board. When a rare night happens and it's just us three in a strip club, watch out.
Another is divorced and kinda mad at the world, who thinks he is above paying for pussy since he can use Tinder and get it for free, although I think he blows a lot about how much success he he finding free pussy.
Last is a married guy kinda scared at the rouge play for fun world. I've taken him to a few extras clubs and he's participated but he wouldn't be the first to jump into trading numbers and setting up OTC.
Lastly, even other single friend I've had I would never mention anything because like said before, they can't keep their mouths shut or they just aren't into this lifestyle.
I have a buddy who (like me) prefers to pursue young, hot women. He's roughly my age (mid/late 40s). He looks down on the dynamic of entering a strip club and negotiating a deal. He actively looks down on it as being both unmanly and "cheating".
Yet, as far as I can tell, he gets less sex with less-attractive woman, but with far more drama and financial expense.
So, I don't fight that battle anymore. I'm perfectly happy to be in a strip club surrounded by clueless PLs.
Sounds like you are talking about me. If I were to live again, I'd be a divorce lawyer!
SJG
My brother and I have had some candid conversations (he was almost as big a monger as me in his day, but he's "settled down" now), however, we never got really detailed comparing notes or anything.
Some guys would tell anyone and everyone including girlfriends and wives. Others got pissy If they did not get the hotter chick and ruined for both of us. My success rate went down not up and there was lots of pain. So now I discuss here only. Even here I leave out or change a few details.
Some of you might but not an ordinary person.
I get dumped on here because I've long enjoyed GFE-FS in AMPs. So for most guys who are not already doing, they won't go for that in strip clubs.
We here on TUSCL go for it, but for most guys it is still beyond the pale.
It is expensive too.
The one time I took two friends to a local no touching club, they didn't like it. They noted how much I liked engaging with the women, but they tended to sit back.
SJG