OTC Exclusive, cunilingus, std risk
So, if you have an agreement and text almost daily, get together a couple times a week, have some level of established mutual trust, and there are no obvious signs to the contrary... I love to eat at the y and I don't like to use dams which diminish the full experience, but I do want to protect my health. If we're exclusive and agree to test on some kind of regular basis, theoretically there should be nothing to worry about. ?
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I personally admire your foresight and planning, and while I am quite selective myself for whom I "dine" with, I am way too dumb and impulsive to deal with all that red tape.
I wish I was that thoughtful about it too.
But alcohol and being a man whore often leads to bad choices on more than a few occasions.
B. Even if this were Fantasyland and you were her only OTC customer, how solid do you think her choices are as far as her personal sex life?
There are some immediate risks, like gonorrhea of the throat and the like, and there is absolutely a risk of herpes -- despite what stupid people think, people can shed virus and be infectious even when there is absolutely no visible sign or sores. Frequent testing will catch those, probably. But the more pernicious risk is that of HPV which might result in head-and-neck cancer in 20 or 30 years... and I don't think there are any tests to see if she's infected with one of the bad strains.
So, my general rule is, no DATY with strippers, period. And, since every rule is meant to be broken, I've taken a calculated risk with a very small number of very special ones. But my eyes are open as far as risks.
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Also think about the risk to the dancer. We've got one member here who brags about barebacking multiple dancers and revels in the thrill of getting them to swallow. Gonorrhea of the throat is a real risk in that case to the dancer.
So that I don't appear to be a hypocrite, I did get chlamydia from a dancer in Dec 2015. Luckily she was the only one. But I had to tell my wife, dancer had to tell her fiancee, and all four of us had to take antibiotics. It was a mess.
I don't DATY when I'm paying so I haven't thought about the risks, but I would say if you are paying (no matter how convinced you are that she is the once in a lifetime virgin stripper that has been fighting off the men to wait for you) you gotta be protected 100% of the time.
Sexually transmitted HPV types fall into two categories:
- Low-risk HPVs, which do not cause cancer but can cause skin warts (technically known as condylomata acuminata) on or around the genitals, anus, mouth, or throat. For example, HPV types 6 and 11 cause 90 percent of all genital warts. HPV types 6 and 11 also cause recurrent respiratory papillomatosis, a less common disease in which benign tumors grow in the air passages leading from the nose and mouth into the lungs.
- High-risk HPVs, which can cause cancer. About a dozen high-risk HPV types have been identified. Two of these, HPV types 16 and 18, are responsible for most HPV-caused cancers (2, 3).
IMO - if she's with *you* for $$$, then she can be w/ anyone for $$$ - strippers are not in the business of turning down custies/$$$ - expecting a "monogamous" relationship with a stripper is a stretch - assuming this relationship is P4P.
"There is no way in hell you should trust any stripper to be monogamous. Period."
I think we just found a new tag line for TUSCL.
At least that's what I tell myself. I've eaten a lot of pussy and a lot of those girls were sluts.
Yeah - that's like wanting a unicorn as a pet
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I read all about it on stripperweb.
If you squint real hard and suspend logic for a moment, the fantasy is almost believable.
Sometimes you gotta say "what the fuck" and carry on
If Mad Jack in WW II was afraid of life as much as the OP, we'd all be eating bratwurst for breakfast
What would you do if you tested positive? Send a blanket broadcast on Twitter to your legion of barebacked teenagers?
LOL - well put :)
Amen. Preach it brother Wolf.