date night for wife, chicago burbs

Wife is willing to step out of her comfort zone somewhat. I want to take her to a semi sleazy, yet couple friendly bar. Any place with a dance floor? I am 59 she is 54, she is good to go with a little black dress, push up bra, thigh highs and heels (nothing else). Seated one can easily see above the lace tops of her thigh highs. Me, jeans and a collared shirt. Someplace where the guys will look but be respectful, possibly ask her to dance but be polite about it if she declines. Melrose Park area please