Lying
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
I hate lying to a woman that I'm in a relationship with. Let's face it, with the shit that many of us do with strippers we can never be completely truthful with woman that we date. I certainly can't, and I bet that's true for lots of,you guys as well. I find myself lying frequently, and I don't like it. Also, the one I'm with now is very smart, unlike the wife. It's harder to get away with lying to her. It takes more work, and there's more chance that she'll find out.
I know that a few of you are with women who you can tell about your stripper adventures, or who go with you to strip clubs. I think your unicorns are awesome, and I'm envious. But the vast majority of women anywhere close to my age won't tolerate sex with anyone else, and a lap dance counts as sex to them. I already have a unicorn stripper, I don't have time to search for a unicorn civie. So I honestly don't see any option but to lie.
I don't like lying. I really like this one. But I know of no viable alternative. Does anybody else face this conflict? You must. How do you guys handle it? This didn't bother me too much with the wife but it sure does with the MILF.
I know that a few of you are with women who you can tell about your stripper adventures, or who go with you to strip clubs. I think your unicorns are awesome, and I'm envious. But the vast majority of women anywhere close to my age won't tolerate sex with anyone else, and a lap dance counts as sex to them. I already have a unicorn stripper, I don't have time to search for a unicorn civie. So I honestly don't see any option but to lie.
I don't like lying. I really like this one. But I know of no viable alternative. Does anybody else face this conflict? You must. How do you guys handle it? This didn't bother me too much with the wife but it sure does with the MILF.
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If you do one of those two things then you don't have to lie. I think you know what to do ...
This is why you will never make a living as a stripper.
"I find myself lying frequently and I don't like it."
How the hell did you ever make a living as a lawyer if you don't like lying??????????????
Warhawks makes an excellent point! Seems like a part of your day job!
Do you like my chicken frufru?
Do I look fat is this?
Were you looking at her tits?
Do you think she is prettier than I am?
Do you want to go shopping with me?
Wouldn't it be great to hang out with my mom today?
Would you like to just cuddle?
To be in ANY relationship with any woman, EVERY guy must lie!
Your real issue is about quantity and topic. How much do you lie. What subjects do you lie about -. AND - How to keep the lies straight and consistent.
If I don't want to reveal something, I just don't answer the question, or tell them "nunya bidness," depending on who it is and how I feel about them.
My wife gets a truthful answer to every question she asks, to the best of my ability to actually *know* the truth, anyway.
So I tell her about my CF and that she's a swallower which is sooo nice. She tells me about the 24 year old dealer who wears his pants 10 inches below his waist, looks like a fool, but is a sex God, who made her cum 8 times in 4 hours.
It was a little weird at first, but the story time is like Penthouse Forum now.
Lies of omission are honestly different than full lies. In business the former is far more forgivable than outright lying.
Seriously though, you do not need to be in a sexually exclusive relationship right now.
GMD, so if you go to a strip club one night and the next day your wife asks you what did you do last night, do you tell her that you went to a strip club? If so how do you stay married?
Dallas, yes lying is unavoidable with a woman. Good point. But it doesn't change the fact that I feel guilty about it.
"Which way do you go; keep the MILF, or dump ALL the DSs and strippers." That's an impossible choice. It's like saying do you want to cut off your right leg or your left leg. I need them both.
As for how we stay married, we didn't get married for sex, and we're sure not going to split up over it.
We both know you're not going to do any of the 1st 3. As much as I try to live my life with honesty and integrity, in this one area of my life, I have to admit I've chosen the last two options -- just lie and deal with it, and/or rationalize it away when i can (I especially hate rationalizing,even worse than just lying, but I also believe denial is a river in egypt :) ). I rationalize how lies of omission are not as bad as full-blown lies, I rationalize how I'm able to compartmentalize sex (with strippers) from love and emotional attachment (with my SO), rationalize that my SO won't indulge some of my sexual kinks and that I need an outlet, etc.
No easy way out, man...
GMD, you have a unique relationship. Most women wouldn't have that perspective I don't think.
THATS WHAT LAWYERS DO FOR A LIVING
LIE
Everyone in America has a right to legal representation, even if they are a "bad guy." And it is a lawyer's job to represent these clients. Without that being possible, the justice system would not be possible and people would be assumed guilty until proven otherwise, and without someone to prove otherwise, their guilt would be uncontested.
just so you know I'm just busting JSs balls, he always comes on here with his moral dilemmas while he's banging 7 girls at the same time.
More lawyer jokes in 3... 2... 1...
It's more than lawyers lying. It's that they lie to purposefully inflict pain on an innocent person. A family law attorney will sometimes paint an innocent man as a lying, thieving, child molester just to get his female client more money. By all means get money for your client but don't try to purposefully ruin a mans life just because you are a lying lawyer and the judges allow it because they use to be lawyers too!
Fuck all attorneys! Many have no real skill. They just know how to work the legal system. They are leaches who don't improve anything. They are living off the blood of others.
JS sounds like a guy I would like to have a beer with but him and Skibum work in the slime and muck. They just make more money than us because they are a necessary evil.
Maybe by telling you stories of her escapades with other women she is asking for stories about you and other guys
If it's just the MILF pushing to be exclusive and you debating if you should go for it and lie about it or say no, please say no. Dating her is fine, but you don't need another monogamous relationship. Right now you should keep fucking strippers for money while playing the civvy field.
Don't get tied down until you find a woman worth giving up the DS for, if ever.
Most lawyers suck and I'm sorry about your experience but check out my earlier comment about most of them not having any real skill.