Who goes to the strip club?
Corvus
Arizona
There has been some good discussion topics lately and in the past but I'm not sure I've ever seen this one posted before? How many strip club patrons are scared of women?
I'm curious how many of those you see in a club you think are actually scared shitless to interact with a civilian woman. Well, except their own mother.
I'm curious how many of those you see in a club you think are actually scared shitless to interact with a civilian woman. Well, except their own mother.
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But I know I started going because I was nervous and easily flustered around civies, and ya it definitely improved my game...so
One time a table of old guys next to me (I'd guess 70s) were staring intently at the DS as she did some table dances for me. They never took their eyes off of her for multiple songs. So I went over to them when she finished a song and told them they had good taste in women, and explained that they needed to give the young lady some money if they were going to enjoy the view as much as they obviously did. I suggested that a $20 tip to the DS was the least they could do given how much they enjoyed her dancing. They refused. And as best I could tell they never spent a penny on a single dancer all night. They just stared at the dancers that other guys were paying. I think this is true of lots of the customers that appear timid or scared. They're just cheap.
In civilian life, I'm not nervous around women in general, but I get nervous around hot women I don't know, unless I have some reason to talk to them. I guess I have a fear of rejection, so I'm afraid to just walk up to a hot stranger and start a conversation. If I meet a pretty woman online, I am very comfortable on the first date.
It's just the cold approach that I have trouble with. As I've gained confidence interacting with hot strippers, it's helping my confidence with civilians too. My dilemma now is whether I want a civilian girlfriend or whether I want to hang out at the strip club. I'll have a pretty "match" on Tinder who I'm communicating with and I'm not sure if I want to go spend $100 plus on a date or $100 plus at a SC. Lately, I've been avoiding asking out the civies and going to the SC instead.
Same here for more me more or less. There is one thing that I can't get over yet. When I walk into my SC on fri/sat, I generally feel rage and anger for an hour in the SC, that I am going piss $100-$250 away on "junk love" from a "fast love restaurant". I chase away the first 30-45 minutes of dancers who approach me, since they are the same old 20 dancers I wouldn't fuck for free. Eventually a fav becomes free, maybe my mood will improve depending on how much talking and eye gazing we do, sometimes the mood won't improve. The 1st VIP room trip is hit or miss whether I enjoy it even though I've done it with that dancer before. Usually due to sheer numbers there will be 1 new dancer that fri/sat night that is fuckable, and 1-2 test LDs later the rush of the new dancer for sure makes me happy. I have a policy to never VIP room a new dancer the same night I first see her work, that will be on the 2nd visit. Eventually towards closing some unfuckable dancers will sit with me even though I wont be buying LDs for them (they will get a couple dollars for their time). These final dancers, even though I see them not as women but as loose friends, finally make the night worth it if the new girl didn't nor the VIP with the fav did. If I get a dancers number that night, the opportunity of the unknown makes me glow. On the motorcoach going home along the highway, with its engine purring and HVAC blowing on my face, I remember how angry I was walking in the door of the SC, but now I have no regrets what I did, and it was all worth it. I get home, get a liquor bottle, turn on some SC style music on the TV, and drink till I pass out on the couch thinking of the stripper's tits faces and voices I saw and heard that night. When I wake up, I wonder if was a dream. I check my pants pocket, and it has my SC wallet, I open it, and know last night was real.
Next week, same anger walking in the door, and no regrets after.
@S88: I like the descriptive writing. Your experience was an interesting read.
If they are packing heat, that's one thing. We can trade rounds with our Glocks. :)
Maybe this came to mind because that idiot from San Jose started posting again? You just never know what will pop into my mind these days.
"On the motorcoach going home along the highway, with its engine purring and HVAC blowing on my face"
is https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/c… style of bus. Not a urban bus such as http://www.rapidtransit-press.com/ggt151… . I dont drive so I always take public transit to the SC. The Greyhound style bus is quiet inside, the drivers often keep the lights off, and watching out the window as buildings along the highway pass by is hypnotic just like being buzzed in a SC with flashing lights is hypnotic. The bus ride is really a serene place to zone out after being in the SC for some hours.
"There is one thing that I can't get over yet. When I walk into my SC on fri/sat, I generally feel rage and anger for an hour in the SC, that I am going piss $100-$250 away on "junk love" from a "fast love restaurant"."
I said fri/sat night specifically. I am very picky over dancers and the ones I pick are high demand ones. If I arrange a "date" on a monday or tuesday at the SC with a fav, I never feel rage or anger going into the SC, since my favs are actually accessible on those days and its not "wanna dance". On a weekday there will be atleast 20 minutes of chit chat if not an hour or 2 with my fav. My favs usually excuse themselves to go greet new random customers for 5-20 minutes and come back to me once the other customer runs out of money or decides to spend none. They say something like "babe, I goto go make some money, I'll be back to you when Im done". Aslong as they come back when the other customer is done spending $, I'm happy. It gets awkward when you make a date with fav #1 at the SC on a monday, and you discover #2 is there randomly and she starts wanting your money and attention but you came just for #1. With my fav either sitting on my leg, or lying on me in the seat with my arms around her waist, talking about random crap, I am in heaven then. Getting "release" at a SC is expensive and I think pointless. I always can jerk off for free in the SC bathroom or at home and fantasize over the dancer I just saw. I see the VIP room as more to get the dancer nude and make some good "HD quality" memories for later rather than getting an orgasm.
I've tried regular escorts and hookers before, they are a waste of money. I barely get hard and they have no kissing rules. Only a pornstar escort works for me, but that is a once in a lifetime opportunity $ and location wise. I'd need multiple hours to possibly get a connection with an escort, and there goes the new car fund. With strippers, multiple visits are affordable and a connection and a smile is possible. Without chemistry, I might as well fuck my dog in the ass with astroglide for free, laws aside. I can't bring myself to fuck a corpse, and the typical escort or hooker is a corpse lying on your mattress for 1 hour. Im not a necrophile. A very bad experience I had was an escort saying I have to wait while she drinks or does drugs before I am allowed to touch her because she "isn't in the mood". Now Im the roofie rapist fucking a corpse on my bed. Never again.
Again, thanks for sharing. (nodding in agreement)
**No Strings Attached
1. social class
2. approved Good Girls versus Bad Girls
3. clean living and prudent versus reckless and squandering
4. Potential Girl Friends and Wives versus "strippers".
5. Racial
6. Social type and size shape and body type.
I think learning to do this, and in a venue which is actually safer than the outside world, is the benefit of strip clubs.
Having said this though, lots of guys there are always going to be holding back some and being cautious about engaging. They will be holding reservations about the women.
SJG