Fav's quality is dipping

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• Dominic77

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  8 years ago

  I realize you answered your own question. You do know you can get dances from more than 1 girl, right? Even during the same visit. Maybe I'm just pointing out the obvious here. The way I see it now, there are any number of girls working any given night. Whether they get 2 dances from me or 20 is all up to them and what they are willing to do. When it stops working out, I politely stop spending with that girl. And unless she changes her attitude, she is dead to me when I stop spending. There are too many other dancers out there to waste time chasing low talent.
• jackslash

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  8 years ago

  If you've been with her for 12-14 years, she probably takes you (and your money) for granted. Find another girl to spend your money on. Your fav may get mad, but she also might respond to the competition by stepping up her game.
• waynegame

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  8 years ago

  12-14 years, Why don't you put a ring on her finger.
• DaOnion

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  8 years ago

  Wow, 12 to 14 years. That's longer than a lot of marriages. Wonder how much you've spent on her total in that time. There's a lot of candy in that candy store. Enjoy trying some new flavors.
• Bavarian

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  8 years ago

  12-14 years? Holy shit, she's at least 30 years old. That's kind of old for a stripper. I agree with you, she's checking out. It's also human nature to get comfortable in a "relationship" and not put in 100% Familiarity breeds contempt. That phrase applies perfectly to PLs that have favorites for long periods of time. It comes with the territory but that's the way I like to club.
• Subraman

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  8 years ago

  Yep, you answered your own question, good on you. Nothing to see here, move along! I think the explanations for her performance are most likely either re-defining her limits (and herself) as she prepares to move to another job, or some amount of "familiarity breeds contempt" as Bavarian says, or maybe a bit of both. Whatever the case, you're no longer getting the experience you'd like, and it's unlikely you'll ever re-capture the old magic with her.
• Corvus

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  8 years ago

  Dude, 12-14 years with her as a favorite! I would think you could have a conversation with her about anything, including her performance. At least there are multiple additional options.
• JohnSmith69

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  8 years ago

  14 years! Damn. My dancers are only four years older than that. I know it's hard to leave the familiar, but it's clearly time to move on. Maybe she'll step up her game to keep you, but don't make that your goal.
• chessmaster

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  8 years ago

  ^you definitely sound like a pedo when you say it like that.
• chessmaster

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  8 years ago

  And how are you not bored after 12-14 years?
• Subraman

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  8 years ago

  I've had dancers I've known that long... off and on for the first 8 years, then she was my ATF (except for a 1 year retirement) for the next 5. I definitely don't think I'll be repeating that! Hell, since 2012, I don't think a single fave of mine has lasted more than a year in the business (from the time I met them)
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  Yeah – if she’s moving-on from stripping then she’s probably mailing it in at this point.
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  I get bored after 12 to 14 minutes w/ a dancer; can’t imagine 12 to 14 years – omg.
• rl27

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  8 years ago

  Twelve or fourteen years with a single favorite dancer is a long time. The longest any single dancer lasted as my favorite so far is five years. It's rare for any dancer to keep her game that long. There are dancers who have danced for decades but so far none have been good all throughout the time they had been dancing. Most who do so are like one of my current semi-favorites who I have seen off and on for over twenty years in at least 7 different clubs. There were many different periods during that time when she quit dancing, including a two year period where she tried escorting. I have gotten many dances off and on from her over the years, but the longest time she lasted so far as a favorite before disappearing is less than a year. The total time where our paths crossed in clubs amounts to less than four years. She has been great each time she popped up at a club, but I could tell right about the time that she would leave by how the quality of her dances changed. In her case, and every other cases, when it's apparent her quality, and attitude changes I go on to the next young pretty thing.
• just_the_nuts

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  8 years ago

  That was longer than my marriage lol I dated my ATF for 5 years..had knowledge of her 3 years before that so 8 years in all before it all ended...i tried to stay as friends, then later fb friends but it was to painful...maybe 2 more years and i will ad her back to Facebook But yea I say just enjoy what is left...be loving and kind But for sure start recruiting other girls
• flagooner

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  8 years ago

  12 to 14 years dancing. Damn what a trooper.