Female PLs
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
They say they love me by the third message. They give me their phone number by the second message. They send me a dozen messages in ten minutes. They compliment everything about me. Some are clearly lies, others obvious exaggerations.b they send "sexy" pics that would only be sexy if the woman was 35 years younger and 75?lbs lighter. They sound ten times more pathetic than me going after that dream civie.
It's almost embarrassing to me how they throw themselves at me. I'd be willing to bet I could set up a sex date with all them on 12 hours notice. None have come right out and said that they want to fuck me. But it couldn't be more obvious.
Most are pretty fat but usually not hideous. Mostly my age up to 60. A couple would be marginally fuckable if not for the fact that they are so incredibly damaged. I don't want to come within a million miles of these women.
And they aren't trannies. At least not from their pics, and them seem legit. Legit but insanely desperate and no more picky about who they fuck than LDK is.
As with much of what I've seen in on line dating, this was a surprise to me. Have you guys ever dealt with female PLs?
And this is a sobering thought. Are dancers just as repulsed by us being PLs as I am repulsed by the PLness of these women?
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If you just decide to pay for sex fine. That's always been my approach until lately, and I may well go back to just dating and fucking strippers soon enough. But there's nothing inherently pathetic about on line dating (at least no more pathetic than any other type of dating).
I've listened to their jabs at fat smelly customers and they're as repulsed as you'd expect. It's a funny business.
When I was still looking for a gf I used the online system for awhile because I wanted to date black women. At the time, I worked at a place where there were no black women, for awhile only one other black male (then he was let go and I was the only one) and in an area where black women were few and far between and the people I knew didn't know any eligible single black women. Plus my children were younger and my time was limited. So I used a system which helped me to find what I was looking for. I only dated one person out of it and she wasn't desperate at all. Online dating was mostly a dead end for me, but without knowing everyone's reasons for doing something such as this, we shouldn't vilify them with labels.
Yes.
Welcome to the real world.
Then again, I'm not saying these trends are something that should be followed. How many of us hasn't done something we regretted when were 18? Hell, I still do.
Back in the dark ages, when I was getting out of college and online dating was in its infancy, it seemed a bit desperate. But it is not remotely considered anything other than another tool now, not something anyone hides. I realize that people who started dating a zillion years ago might still be stuck in the "online dating is desperate" mode of thinking, but "old fashioned" is an understatement, it's like laughing along with Jackie Mason that coffee should be 25 cents and why do we need all these fancy coffees? Touches a nerve with people whose formative time was a few decades ago, but otherwise, cringeworthingly out of touch now
I thought it was about other female SC customers like myself. Hrmph.
Oh well....in answer to your question- yes. Each gender has their PLs and yes again that dancers are generally repulsed by many of their customers. As sclvr5005 so aptly noted- welcome to the real (ugly) world.
One was in college. I had an acquaintance who clearly had a crush on me, big time. We were in the same major, same dorm freshman year. She could have been a 7 if she lost 60 pounds.
She joined the same activities I did. She would bake me cookies. She wrote me a card for my birthday. Luckily she backed off when I started seeing someone much hotter than her.
Post college I had a gay friend who had a close friend who was a 5 at best. Said friend sort of tried to set us up. She kinda threw herself at me one night when we were all hanging out. Awkward, but not the end of the world
I have no doubt that strippers look at the majority of the customers; male or female, with disdain. I’m sure there are a few customers who are nice, good looking and younger that strippers find themselves attracted too so it’s easier for them to spend time with them being friendly but in the end it’s always about how much money you have and how much they can get you to part with.
As far as online dating goes; this may shock some of you, but me and mrs sea met 18 years ago…..ONLINE.