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10 years ago

What is the term for this relationship

I've reconnected with free girl again. Amazingly, she very badly wants to have a fuck date. I never cease to be amazed at the effects of daddy issues.

What do you call a relationship when you fuck a stripper for free? OTC to me implies the payment of money. And "fuck buddy" to me suggests a buddy that you fuck. In other words, I perceive a fuck buddy relationship as including some type of non-romantic friendship or other non-romantic relationship beyond just fucking. Free girl and I have no relationship besides occasional lap dances and sex dates.

What do you call this? Do we need a new term?

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Mate27

Slut

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shailynn

Girlfriend.

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Estafador

Friends with benefits. Come on bro, when she's giving up the kitty for free but doesn't want to be your girlfriend, her occupation status is irrelevant. She is now your friend who likes to have sex with you.

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shadowcat

grifter.

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JohnSmith69

"her occupation status is irrelevant"

I would agree except for the fact that she's a stripper, I met her in a strip club, and I sometimes pay for lap dances from her. So she doesn't really feel like a friend. It feels like an OTC date except I don't hand over money at the end.

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Subraman

Fuckbuddy or friends-with-benefits is fine. Even if she's not really your bestie :)

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Corvus

John, if by chance we knowledgeable TUSCL'rs cannot come up with a suitable answer, are you going to stop fucking her?

Probably not, so just enjoy the free trim while it is available. You lucky SOB.

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Estafador

you said free sex. When we talk about free sex, then I don't see why you still having to pay for lap dances matter. Though if you're really paranoid about that (don't see a realistic excuse why), then just say......eh still friends with benefits. You paid her excess in lap dances, and she's just happily returning the favor. Yeah, friend with benefits.

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JohnSmith69

Grifter.

No way. She could make a lot more money by making me pay for sex ITC which is what I offered to do when we met.

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TheOne&Only

Side bitch

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JohnSmith69

Fuck buddy seems closer than friends with benefits. We aren't friends except in the most incredibly superficial sense of that word.

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JohnSmith69

Side butch is good.

Corvus, I can't write about her if I don't know what to call her.

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JohnSmith69

So is side bitch.

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Estafador

fuck buddies don't pay for shit for each other. Friends with benefits sometimes pay for one another's meals and such, in your case lap dances. But I see your point so maybe fuck buddy is the best term. She's a stripper partner in the club and a fuck buddy outside of it. Best to split her into two catagories.

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mikeya02

She is your real dream stripper. Free pussy is closer to normal than spending thousands

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Call.Me.Ishmael

"What is the term for this relationship?"

Fun.

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l00ber

Codependent?

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bigman226

A trade partner. You pay for lapdances, she fucks for free.

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georgmicrodong

Booty call.

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crazyjoe

I would say fuck buddy of friends with benifits

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JamesSD

Slam piece?

Fuck buddy works. I've always thought FWB implies an actual friendship outside of fucking

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shadowcat

I repeat grifter. Ever hear of the long con?

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clubdude

She' a "side dish" Because you have a side dish now and then!.

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flagooner

I'd call the relationship perfect.

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twentyfive

^^^ I agree "perfect" sounds just right

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4got2wipe

I'm skeptical that grifter is the correct term. It seems like she could make more just taking what JohnSmith69 has offered already.

As for what I would call the relationship. I'd call it brilliant! ;)

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JohnSmith69

I'll have to think about it but I like booty call.

Scat, I think you're wrong, but if this turns out to be some kind of long con I'll be the first to admit that you warned me.

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SmithWV

Booty call or Fuck Boy (not the same as fuck buddy)

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