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JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
Now's your turn to tell John Smith that he's either a genius or an idiot. Or both.
This on line dating thing is fucking insane. I've flirted with a blond woman on the phone tonight. We talked for almost an hour. I was jerking off during part of the call and looking at her pictures. She texted me back and sounds like she's in love. I've messaged with a half dozen other women. Four MILFS have tagged me as favorites just this evening. 10 of them winked at me on line just today. I have over 50 incoming messages, only half of which I have responded to. I have three dates. I might be having dinner with a MILF and then meeting a stripper at a nearby hotel on the same night. I have several ongoing message exchanges with women, and a draft message that I need to finish. And I have put absolutely no effort into making these contacts other than writing a short profile and posting a few pictures.
On line they say its hard to get women to communicate with you on dating sites, but its not. You just have to be a great guy. It's like pursuing a dream stripper except you don't pay all of that cash upfront and the girl is not as young or as hot. There are dozens of women that I've seen pics of on line that I'd like to pursue but I'm too busy fending off the ones that are already wet for me. And many of these women are youngish (early 40s), and kind of hot. Not DS hot obviously, not $750 VIP hot, but very very fuckable hot. And they are moderately aggressive -- making very subtle sexual references, flirting with me, taking the initiative, posting pictures that show cleavage. I will be fucking some of these women. I really didn't anticipate anything like this level of success. It's like a flood of women.
And of course remember that on top of all of this on line stuff I've got what's really important: two dream strippers, one of whom is being a bitch tonight, a porn video to film and produce, a free fuck buddy that I haven't seen in weeks, and a gorgeous redhead who sucks like a vacuum cleaner available whenever I want her.
Honestly, do you guys think that SJG is right? Have I gone off the deep end here? Can I really manage all of these women? And if I can't, who do I give up? I want them all.
I'm running out of days to book them. I talk to one woman and get confused, thinking that I'm talking to another one. But frankly I love all of the attention that the fuckable MILFS are giving me. What should I do? I'll listen to any reasonable, respectful advice.
This on line dating thing is fucking insane. I've flirted with a blond woman on the phone tonight. We talked for almost an hour. I was jerking off during part of the call and looking at her pictures. She texted me back and sounds like she's in love. I've messaged with a half dozen other women. Four MILFS have tagged me as favorites just this evening. 10 of them winked at me on line just today. I have over 50 incoming messages, only half of which I have responded to. I have three dates. I might be having dinner with a MILF and then meeting a stripper at a nearby hotel on the same night. I have several ongoing message exchanges with women, and a draft message that I need to finish. And I have put absolutely no effort into making these contacts other than writing a short profile and posting a few pictures.
On line they say its hard to get women to communicate with you on dating sites, but its not. You just have to be a great guy. It's like pursuing a dream stripper except you don't pay all of that cash upfront and the girl is not as young or as hot. There are dozens of women that I've seen pics of on line that I'd like to pursue but I'm too busy fending off the ones that are already wet for me. And many of these women are youngish (early 40s), and kind of hot. Not DS hot obviously, not $750 VIP hot, but very very fuckable hot. And they are moderately aggressive -- making very subtle sexual references, flirting with me, taking the initiative, posting pictures that show cleavage. I will be fucking some of these women. I really didn't anticipate anything like this level of success. It's like a flood of women.
And of course remember that on top of all of this on line stuff I've got what's really important: two dream strippers, one of whom is being a bitch tonight, a porn video to film and produce, a free fuck buddy that I haven't seen in weeks, and a gorgeous redhead who sucks like a vacuum cleaner available whenever I want her.
Honestly, do you guys think that SJG is right? Have I gone off the deep end here? Can I really manage all of these women? And if I can't, who do I give up? I want them all.
I'm running out of days to book them. I talk to one woman and get confused, thinking that I'm talking to another one. But frankly I love all of the attention that the fuckable MILFS are giving me. What should I do? I'll listen to any reasonable, respectful advice.
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Which website are you on?
Eventually you'll narrow your focus. You'll also be reminded of the occasional hassles of civvys. There will be a few women who will think because they sucked your dick you're on the path to a long term commitment.
Have fun but try to be ethical. Don't intentionally lead women on. Better to find one or two civvys who are DTF casually than deal with the drama of women who obviously want to fall in love.
I have met several women on several sites over the years, flying across the country to meet them. All but one ended after one weekend. The furthest I went was all the way out to San Francisco (and I'm an east coast guy). I actually met 4 women on Ashley Madison in it's heyday.
My best advice is be careful about women on those sites. Many of them will contact a million guys, and become addicted to communicating to the guys on those sites, without ever having real intentions of actually meeting someone. It's not too hard to find these people out. If you hit it off with someone well (online/on the phone) and then you check her profile and notice she's constantly on the site, then she's one of those "flirt" types.
Most of the women on those sites are in desperate need of attention. It doesn't take much. I can't tell you how many times I was told these women just wanted a guy who could take them out somewhere nice for dinner.
Now here's where my experience will differ from yours. I met a ton of married women on those sites that weren't supposed to be married. Of course people expect women to be married on sites like Ashley Madison, but other sites, the people are 'supposed' to be single. You could figure out these women too, because they would say "you can only call certain times of the day" or when you planned to meet, you had to plan it a month in advance. I'll never forget one woman kept calling her "ex-husband" every hour checking on her kids. She said "he usually doesn't watch the kids." Yeah bullshit, what ex-husband doesn't have some sort of custody rights where he would regularly watch the kids on the weekends? That's okay, she didn't know I was married either.
Lastly, if you're having trouble making time for all these women, why don't you set up short dates? Like a meeting at a Starbucks - tell them "you're a busy guy, but you're excited to meet them, so how about we meet over some coffee to see if we're compatible?" Of course you're going to have to find a better word than "compatible" but you can make it work.
Yep, when are motherfuckers gonna realize bitches don't want dick picks
I was blown away last night when a 23 year old took my hand and masrurbated using my digits.
Today, she said, "Can I please blow you?"
Has the North Pole shifted? Was there a major solar flare? Has Area 51 let them loose? Has Cotton Mather reconvened court?
In my 50+ years of fucking these were two new experiences for me.
So, no. You're not batshit crazy. You're reaping the bounty. Enjoy.
My understanding is most 35+ milfs don't waste time and play games around sex. If she wants the D, she wants the D.
I feel all warm inside.
But that might just be the hot tub.
Corvus, not really. Your first answer was much better than I expected or deserved.
This would not work for me. The girls have to be hot and relatively young (I prefer late 20's or early 30's), and I don't mind paying cash upfront. What I don't want to do is waste my remaining (few) years dating ordinary-looking women when I can fuck hot strippers every day.
All I can do is say "WELL DONE"
Take as many as you can while you can. Some of these MILFs are in some real dry spells (like MONTHS without sex), that is why many are so eager. You can sort of tell because initially some of the pussy is not so loose, then it loosens up by, say, date #3 or 4. That was my experience.
F2F first meetings. All the problems evaporate, as each of you can see right off if you are attracted to each other.
SJG
Did you have to pay to join match.com?
SJG
SJG, wrong again. You're batting 0 lately. In just a few days, I had set up face to face dates with two of them. Another day and I got a third, and I've about got a date with a fourth. And In don't think I've been on the site more than a week. These are all face to fucking face meetings within a matter of days.
Sorry gotta go now and smoke some more of that evil evil mary jane .......
It's making me do crazy things .... like not come to terms with the failure of my marriage . . . .
I'm a sex crazed zombie when I get high on weed.
But since the initial meeting was f2f, the stress level on both sides will be lower.
With your online women, the results of these dates might not be that good. But with ones met face to face the percentage of dates which will be just mind blowing overnighters will be near 100%.
SJG
Wrong? What do you mean? Are you being sarcastic?
Women really give it up when they can see that a guy is going for them f2f.
"gravy bowl" ?
That idea came from you or one of our other trolls.
SJG
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F2F first meetings, letting the girl see that you are attracted to her and willing to extend yourself and not afraid of rejection.
Works with civvies. Works in Strip Clubs and AMPs too.
SJG