How do you know when it's time to move on from you CF?
ButterMan
Indianapolis
I think it may be time to move on from my CF. We do OTC abt once a month. It has gotten to the point that I can't tell her she looks nice tonight or that she smells nice. She says i always say both of those things...LOL maybe i do i don't know. I can't walk around on egg shells around her and not be myself. The physical part is pretty damn good and she is a easy 9 all day. 20 y.o. blonde. But like any relationship whatever kind it is sometimes it just goes stale.
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When you find the next hot young dancer who is an incredible lay.
She gets a bitchy attitude or gets too possessive.
Her looks decline and she no longer appeals to you physically.
She starts wanting more from you, in the club or out of the club.
Her drug habit becomes too much of a problem.
All strippers have a certain level of reliable-ness. When the girls that usually shows up an hour late starts showing up 3 hours late, or the one that charges $200 all of a sudden demands $400, it may be time to go to greener pastures.
I would say only when they are no longer happy with what you give them. It all goes downhill from there. They start to resent you and everything you say annoys them.
I'm dealing with this right now. Like you said, it feels like walking on eggshells. I try to be very tactful with the CF but she still gets in a bad mood when we interact.
Getting stuck on second base is something that happens with civilian girls ... in high school. I go to strip clubs because I don't want a bunch of drama between me and the carnal activities I desire. I honestly don't understand your motives. To each their own, I guess.
In this case I would avoid a dramatic break up. Put her on ice without being obvious about it. Skip a month, see if you are in the mood for her the month after or if you're done.
+ when it starts becoming a bit of drag; e.g. if the bad-times outweigh the good-ones
+ she's mailing-it in – i.e. going thru the motions and kinda taking your ass for granted
+ when it becomes more of the same-ole same-ole (monotonous)
Bavarian is "stuck on 2nd base" while I'm walking into a club fucking a girl whose name I don't even know. I can't walk into any club and do that but I can walk into a lot of clubs and do it.
Some advice to dudes like Bavarian, you need to start reading reviews here more and go to the more liberal clubs in your area or maybe PM JS69 to give you some tips. A little bit of money and a lot of confidence will get you laid. Or is it a lot of money and a little bit of confidence? Either way....
That would seem to fit in your case too.
That may be your problem; treat her like shit instead, or at least indifferent; like most strippers' BFs do; and it'll probably workout better.
You may be seeing/treating the “relationship” as a romantic thing when she just rather it be business w/ no pretense of romance or semblance of a normal civvie relationship.