I'm planning my first OTC activity in a couple of weeks: dinner date followed by overnight in my hotel room with a BJ at bedtime and another in the morning. Since this will be on her birthday, I need some gift ideas. She's not demanding at all and is appreciative of whatever I give her. Depending on how this goes, I hope to keep seeing her OTC every month or so for a while.
Well, you know what we're going to say -- your first option should just be to consider giving her cash. She'll love it, and if you want to personalize it a little, a "happy birthday, I want you to have a great birthday and think of me when you spend this" might make you feel better, and she'll be super appreciative.
Alternative: find out what store she loves (Victoria Secret, Sephora, etc.) and get her a gift card from there
Lastly, if it has to be a THING, and your budget is $100, buy her something small and personal (if you know she loves coffee, get her 12 oz. of something awesome from a highly-rated craft roaster), and then give her the balance of the $100 in the gift card
Buy her a sexy dress. They're pretty cheap on line but you get what you pay for. The intent of gifts are to drive conversation and comfort level. It is almost irrelevant if she likes it or not.
It is fun buying sexy clothes for in shape, sexy young women.
I buy sexy lingerie for my OTC girls all the time, but I don't even remotely pretend it's a gift for anyone but me. I do love having her wear it for me OTC, then maybe seeing it on stage sometime after
Although it may come-off as a bit impersonal; most people; strippers or not; probably prefer cash so they can spend it as they wish/need.
I'd say give her a nice tip – either 50 or 100% of the agreed OTC – e.g. if you agreed on $200; give her the $200 and then another $100 or $200 separately (e.g. w/ a b-day card) so she'll know it's b/c of her b-day and not to expect that every-time.
In my opinion, the problem with cash is that it is boring and easily forgettable. A tangible gift, no matter how stupid, is easy to remember. The gift should not be flowers or candy. I've had dancers remind me of gifts I've given them long ago that I've forgotten about. Again, the intent of a gift should be to drive conversation and build p4p comfort, not necessarily make her happy.
Thanks for the suggestions, guys -- well, except for the Mercedes and the mandingo :)
I think I'll pursue *both* kinds of ideas: put a $50 bill in a birthday card and buy her some little item like body wash.
I'd suggest getting her a big green dildo - a really big and green one - so every time she fucks herself with it - the green color will remind her of your money! When she thinks of your money - she will get very wet - so no matter the size - it will slide right in...
If she's never spent time with you without you paying her, odds are a cash tip would be the best bet. You'll both be happier in the long run, her with the cash and you without your delusions. Besides, less than 50% chance of first OTC actually happening. If you're not giving cash, make sure you keep the receipt.
Cash or a gift card are ok ideas. But this is what I would do. Take her to dinner at or near a mall, and after dinner take her shopping at one of her fav stores. Give her a budget and buy for her whatever she wants within that budget.
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Alternative: find out what store she loves (Victoria Secret, Sephora, etc.) and get her a gift card from there
Lastly, if it has to be a THING, and your budget is $100, buy her something small and personal (if you know she loves coffee, get her 12 oz. of something awesome from a highly-rated craft roaster), and then give her the balance of the $100 in the gift card
It is fun buying sexy clothes for in shape, sexy young women.
I'd say give her a nice tip – either 50 or 100% of the agreed OTC – e.g. if you agreed on $200; give her the $200 and then another $100 or $200 separately (e.g. w/ a b-day card) so she'll know it's b/c of her b-day and not to expect that every-time.
I think I'll pursue *both* kinds of ideas: put a $50 bill in a birthday card and buy her some little item like body wash.
The Mercedes was vm, not me. I "allowed" any automobile. :)
A book? Does she read?
She is P4P, so you don't have to spend lots of money, just show that you see her as an ordinary person.
Matt, OTC= Outside The Club, usually meaning P4P sex.
SJG