GFE escort without sex

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Aaron_hip
Hi, do people actually hire escorts for GFE without sex? I always thought you hire escort for sex and the GFE would cost extra. But can you do it the other way? How much would that cost without the sex? Does anyone know?

The reason for my question is because a stripper tells me this is what she did instead of working in the club last night. I want to dismiss it as BS. But I am intrigued by the pricing structure.

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twentyfive
9 years ago
pure stripper shit
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lopaw
9 years ago
When you hire an escort, she will do either GFE or PSE. Doing PSE can cost extra, but a GFE is considered standard practice and isn't an extra charge.

That stripper sounds like she's full of shit. While some will hire a hooker without wanting sex, it is rare. Sugar babies are more apt to try and go down that road, but with escorts sex is the norm.
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Aaron_hip
9 years ago
^I don't trust what the stripper says.

I just want to know why anyone would hire an escort without sex. But there is a site called rentafriend.com ....

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shailynn
9 years ago
Rare but it does happen.

Some guys are unable to have sex but still want companionship.
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londonguy
9 years ago
I can count on one hand how many escorts I have seen that tell me some guys hire girls for the company but no sex. The girl that said to you is lying.
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JohnSmith69
9 years ago
I've read about lots of sugar daddy/baby relationships where either the girl or both parties claim there is no sex and it's all about companionship. There was also a show on TV about this a while back where similar claims were made. I don't know whether this is true or not but it wouldn't surprise me that some PLs are stupid enough to think that you have to "date" a sex worker for a while before she will have sex with you.
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Clubber
9 years ago
Actually not all that uncommon. I know this woman I use to accompany me to events where "singles" are frowned upon. Sex isn't involved.
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grand1511
9 years ago
I can vouch for er. She was with me.
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IwillLapAdancer
9 years ago
My experience with GFE escorts is there is more sensual touching and kissing, DATY and of course sex. Now, some escorts advertise GFE, but actually provide the WFE experience. WFE being the wife experience, which usually means no sex and a lot of talking / arguing. Get with a review site like TER to help weed out the scam artists that try to pass themselves off as GFE escorts. You'll find that a good looking independent GFE escort will run about 300 to 400 per hour depending on girl and locale. And the super fine babes easily double that.

Then there are the "professional cuddlers", which is probably what you may be talking about. If I remember correctly, they are about half to 2/3 the price of an escort, but I only inquired at one site some years ago. This is one of the websites you will likely find on webpages like BP. http://thesnugglebuddies.com/
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georgmicrodong
9 years ago
Every escort I've ever seen who advertised "GFE" also included sex. I've seen plenty who offer sex without GFE, but so far GFE is presumed to include sex.
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Subraman
9 years ago
It is easily possible to believe there are guys out there paying for the accoutrements of GFE, but without the sex. I absolutely believe it -- not of a lot of it, but I certainly believe there's a small market for it, that is not easy for women to bust into. Whether I believe that your particular stripper has managed to score this type of gig is a completely different question :)
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Aaron_hip
9 years ago
Again, I don't believe what the stripper says.

My specific question: Can I hire an GFE escort without sex on the menu, and would this "no sex option" be cheaper?

I have no experience with escort so I would think sex is implied. That is, sex is part of the package. A customer is being stupid if he does not get the sex.

However, is it possible to go a la carte: just GFE but no sex? How would cheaper would that be?
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
I have no experience on the subject but I don't think it would necessarily be any cheaper – providers want to be paid for their time and in the minds of many (providers) they think us mere-PLs just being in their presence requires significant payment.

I would think there may be websites that cater to such and you may find the answer there (even PMing reviewers of such websites; if they exist; which I assume they may).
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Subraman
9 years ago
I have no idea, but while we wait for someone who knows what he's talking about, I'll be happy to speculate! Every decent escort except the low-end ones, as far as I can tell, basically say "the price is the price, you can avail yourself of all my services or not". Most believe (probably correctly) that allowing clients to bargain-down their price service-by-service is a huge losing strategy in the long run, and if a girl can make $400 and she's comfortable with GFE full service, why would waste a revenue-generating hour of hers to make $100 (or whatever a GFE-no-sex session would cost)? Probably better to keep that hour open for a $400 last-minute appointment, or save her energy (I'd bet even GFE-no-sex is still plenty emotionally draining for her) so she can be more awesome for her high-value $400 client who is coming later. So, my guess is, you won't find many mid-range or higher GFE escorts offering low-priced GFE-no-sex options. Instead, you'll find a small niche market of cuddlers or whatever, that offer this service specifically, at a set lower price.
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
Juice will cuddle with you for $50/hr
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Aaron_hip
9 years ago
^ That's just terrible for Juice. I think most of us makes more than that per hour in our job. And half of the time, we are just chilling in the office. :)
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san_jose_guy
9 years ago
One time an AMP girl wanted me to tip her, as we were in the room and some massage had ensued and we would do FS. But she had already evaded being kissed a couple of times.

But she kept asking for the extra money and pushing it. So finally I just said, "How much for kissing?" She again held to her position, "No kissing." And asking for the FS money. I kept to "How much for kissing?"

Realizing the ridiculous situation she has allowed to unfold, she finally said "No money for kissing, that's silly", and she started DFKing me. She was really good. So I gave her the tip money for FS, and we had a wonderful GFE. She was young, nice looking, and a real nice person.

But to reply directly to the issues raised here:

1. P4P FS is sometimes going to be GFE and sometimes not. In escort sessions and AAMPs it is usually assumed that it will be GFE. But not always.

In AMPs and with street hookers, it is usually not GFE. But then again.

My view about all of this, and especially when dealing with strippers is, if you want to kiss her, just kiss her. Don't get into a discussion about it and don't try to buy it with money. Always treat all women like civilians. Treat her like she is a girl you just met at a party. Be respectful and considerate, and just kiss her.

2. If you kiss her some and are getting on with her, she's going to want to be fucked. So usually GFE is not available for purchase, except as packaged with FS.

3. As far as sugar babies and snuggling, some people may do GFE without FS, but probably it is in a public place. I believe that most of the time the two parties are also going to be fucking, but just not at that moment.

4. Usually girls see GFE as not for sale, priceless. So if they do it is because they want to. So again, if that is what you want the best thing to do is to set up the situation and just kiss her. No reason it has to be in any booth or backroom. And if you try to get the girl to verbally agree to do it for money, often she will renege on it and change it to light kissing only. So again, the best thing to do, if you want to kiss her, is just to kiss her. Do this before talking about any FS or money, or anything else.

in AAMPs and escort sessions they've learned to do it most of the time with most people. But in other contexts, if she is kissing you, she probably has some other agenda besides money, like making your her BF, or having you visit her for home escort sessions, or just for some reason she really likes you, or what is really fun, when at an AMP you've gotten a rep for really fucking them nicely.

5. As far as PSE versus GFE, I see this just as a difference in emphasis and not being mutually exclusive. PSE usually includes BBBJ and lots of position changes, and maybe dolling up and dressing the part too. They don't charge extra for this, not when you have booked enough time. But most of the Asian girls aren't accustomed to Cum In Mouth or With Swallow.

One thing though, Anal, I've see escorts price this out separately, in their RedBook ads. Maybe it is more physically demanding, or maybe they are just going after more money. But if you have enough time set up with her, like 3 to 4 hours or more, I think that if she does anal that this will be assumed to be included.

There is only so much you can make happen by negotiating with a girl. To get it to be more intimate than that you have to keep it civilian and let her get to like you. Think of her as your mistress, instead of as your hooker.

Letting girls "sell dances" to you in a strip club is a chumps game.

Play with her in the front room, and kiss her. I always like to pick the girl myself, rather than letting her pick me. Even with the most hardened P4P providers, that still caries weight.

SJG
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JuiceBox69
9 years ago
• Juice will cuddle with you for $50/hr

Lol papi


It cost the same and yes ppl do it....$200
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jestrite50
9 years ago
Yes I would say this is SS. it would be highly unusual for this to happen. It may occasionally but would not be anything that would interest me. I don't hire escorts anymore because I have GFE'S lined up. But in any GFE your girl wants you to fuck her.
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