Interesting situation: I need some advice.
Clackport
Washington
I've told this story before, but I went into a strip club and I saw a co worker of mine dancing. It was a little awkward in the beginning obviously. We weren't necessarily good friends, but we were friendly towards each other, we had each other's number. Anyways she looked damn good, probably a 8.5. Easily one of the best looking strippers in Portland. She is a Italian girl with a black girl booty, Chess would love her. I didn't ask her for a dance because I thought it would be too awkward. I did really want one from her.
Fast forward to today. She no longer works in the same place I do. She now works in a different location about 30 min from where I work. Anyways I was thinking of going to to her club on Friday and asking her for a dance. One reason I'm thinking about is the dancer quality in Portland is so bad right now, and to me she's in the top 5 as far as best looking Portland dancers. Another reason is I'm interested in how the mileage would be. The last reason is I just really want to get a dance from her.
Have any of you ever knew someone OTC, and then found out she was a stripper, and then got dances from her? Was the mileage good?
I kind of almost think she might refuse my lap dance request, it might be too awkward for her. If she does accept, I'm kind of thinking it will be a air dance. It's just a feeling I have.
Should I try to get dances from her?
What kind of mileage should I expect?
Thoughts?
Fast forward to today. She no longer works in the same place I do. She now works in a different location about 30 min from where I work. Anyways I was thinking of going to to her club on Friday and asking her for a dance. One reason I'm thinking about is the dancer quality in Portland is so bad right now, and to me she's in the top 5 as far as best looking Portland dancers. Another reason is I'm interested in how the mileage would be. The last reason is I just really want to get a dance from her.
Have any of you ever knew someone OTC, and then found out she was a stripper, and then got dances from her? Was the mileage good?
I kind of almost think she might refuse my lap dance request, it might be too awkward for her. If she does accept, I'm kind of thinking it will be a air dance. It's just a feeling I have.
Should I try to get dances from her?
What kind of mileage should I expect?
Thoughts?
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Most of the girls I know from the strip clubs, tend to shy away from guys they know outside of the club.
I've even had girls go hide in the dressing room and refuse to go on stage because someone they knew walked into the club.
So I'd have to say the mileage would probably not be good with this girl if you tried...
Strippers date men they meet outside the club
Ranukam you might have a chance to date her if you choose to accept this mission
Plus I have a GF right now, so I'm good on that front.
1. She says no. You haven' t lost anything.
2. She hesitates, obviously uncomfortable. You say, "Hey, I understand it may be awkward for you. If you don't want to, I understand.". Two possible outcomes here. Since you've demonstrated that you're not a creep, she may go ahead and go for it. She may gratefully acknowledge it and you won't get a dance, but again, it has cost you nothing.
3. She might say yes, and the two of you will go back. Her dance ends up being listless and unenjoyable. You stop at one and done. Cost to you: the price of a lap dance.
4. You both go back and she ends up being a freak. Not only have you lost nothing, you have scored big!
5. Maybe, just maybe, she will want to meet you OTC. Ding, ding, ding, ding, DING!
If you would have approached her and talked to her and put her mind at ease; she may have been more ok with the whole thing.
bigobitty is right
Go pimp mode and spit that long dick rap game mang
Examples
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Yo bitch yo broke ass needs my dough because I've always know you a ho
Yo bitch this pimp is spitting game so get wit da mang and never thurst for the thrust again
Yo bitch yo bitch yo bitch
We talked about it a few days later and both admitted it was a little uncomfortable. I've seen her at the club a few times but I haven't gotten anymore dances with her since that first night.
She doesn't work in your office or "area" anymore but think she could wind up there again down the road, or you getting moved to where she works?
If you want an ice-breaker you could go up to her in the club and say "I always thought you were cool, and really attractive and I always wanted a dance from you but thought it would be awkward since we work together, now that we don't I was hoping it would be okay to get a dance from you now." That's the most polite way you can do it and it puts the ball in her court. If she feel uncomfy, then she can kindly reject your offer with little embarrassment, or she may say "damn I've wanted to give you a dance for a long time."
Instead I'd just invest some text game in her and be patient.
Being friends with a hot stripper has more value than a few lap dances. You do need to mend that fence though.
When you have an opportunity to have a hot young woman's body, you should always go for it. If you don't, you will probably regret it or, at the very least, will always wonder what could have been.
Nothing to lose. Definitely go for it.
This is a excellent point James. Maybe I should just work on our friendship? I haven't talked to her since she left my company which was 2 months ago. I don't date strippers anymore, but I wouldn't be ashamed to date her. She goes to school full time, she works full time, she has a daughter. I think she just does stripping for a little extra money. I don't know though, will getting dances from her change our friendship?
Fuck I was gonna ask her for a dance, but now maybe I shouldn't. Decisions, Decisions.
Maybe I should pretend to be drunk and ask her for a dance, and then during the dance grab all over her pretending I'm drunk. LOL