My Stripper Friend
alabegonz
A backstory first, she's the second dancer I met who later went out with me for a date. Physically, I would describe her as tall sexy white girl. She is one that I would call very enchanting. In fact, the words I'm using to describe doesn't even do justice to how this girl looks. She's just that pretty looking girl.
Anyway, fast forward to the present. This week, she sent me a text saying she is going to be short because of reasons that I would call so easy to frame. I got the message right away, thinking this could be another opportunity for me to see her again. Last time we saw each other was (last month) when we went for a date, she never actually wanted to go out and dine, she just wanted to cut to the chase and do it. Now, she is pressing me to go out again and do the same thing we did last time.
I took my time and she had to wait.
She texted again and this time knowing that I don't have that much money left for fun I decided to go with her plan.
She was already standing on the sidewalk waiting for me to show up. I walked towards her, she was about to send a text to me when I greeted her. She gave me a kiss and a warm hug.
Oh my, this time, she is way too pretty. I just can't believe this girl in front of me is so fricking beautiful.
I told her how beautiful she was and why she is going with me here tonight. And here is what she said:
"You want to fuck an awesome sexy tall blond pretty girl. You don't want to fuck a fat ugly girl."
We went inside and got the room.
Man, I can't believe she was that good. The word rape would probably be too tame to use here, she was in beast mode.
She would take puffs of funny smoke and kiss me, blow it into my lungs. I cried foul on that saying I don't do that kind of thing but it was already too late. She's been saying that she's going to do it and she did do it knowing she could get away with it.
When it was over, I felt so easy. She made me a happy man.
I walked her to the car about a few blocks away, gave me a huge sucking kiss and drove away.
Just like that, she disappeared into the weekend with not a text or a phone call.
Now, I feel like "What the fuck has this girl done to me?" And I'm not really happy thinking about it.
Hence the reason why I wrote this entry anyway.
I feel like I want to shout! Tell someone about it because this shit is not cool.
Anyway, fast forward to the present. This week, she sent me a text saying she is going to be short because of reasons that I would call so easy to frame. I got the message right away, thinking this could be another opportunity for me to see her again. Last time we saw each other was (last month) when we went for a date, she never actually wanted to go out and dine, she just wanted to cut to the chase and do it. Now, she is pressing me to go out again and do the same thing we did last time.
I took my time and she had to wait.
She texted again and this time knowing that I don't have that much money left for fun I decided to go with her plan.
She was already standing on the sidewalk waiting for me to show up. I walked towards her, she was about to send a text to me when I greeted her. She gave me a kiss and a warm hug.
Oh my, this time, she is way too pretty. I just can't believe this girl in front of me is so fricking beautiful.
I told her how beautiful she was and why she is going with me here tonight. And here is what she said:
"You want to fuck an awesome sexy tall blond pretty girl. You don't want to fuck a fat ugly girl."
We went inside and got the room.
Man, I can't believe she was that good. The word rape would probably be too tame to use here, she was in beast mode.
She would take puffs of funny smoke and kiss me, blow it into my lungs. I cried foul on that saying I don't do that kind of thing but it was already too late. She's been saying that she's going to do it and she did do it knowing she could get away with it.
When it was over, I felt so easy. She made me a happy man.
I walked her to the car about a few blocks away, gave me a huge sucking kiss and drove away.
Just like that, she disappeared into the weekend with not a text or a phone call.
Now, I feel like "What the fuck has this girl done to me?" And I'm not really happy thinking about it.
Hence the reason why I wrote this entry anyway.
I feel like I want to shout! Tell someone about it because this shit is not cool.
29 comments
You allowed her to take control of you. That's what the problem is. You need to stay in control of this situation. She has you wrapped around her finger. Yes she's gorgeous, yes she's easy, but don't let that cause you to lose control of the situation. I have 2 GFE OTC's going and at one time I had 3. But at no time did I ever let them take control of the date. They follow my lead or the date is off. She is in control now. You need to get that turned around or find another girl.
My 1 cent.
Four years ago I walked into a strip club and saw what I wanted,Veni,vidi,vici.
She has what I want and I have what she wants.
So get off your bus pass ass and bring something to the table.
Thank you, man. Think of what I wrote a work of my imagination. It wasn't intended to entertain you, it was meant to be written so that I can bring this shit out of my mind.
---> "Just like that, she disappeared into the weekend with not a text or a phone call."
Essentially, you're too emotionally involved and you're hurt that she's not doing little things to show you that she really likes you and is thinking about you?
Oh man, you must be living in a different dimension.
First of all, I don't look for any woman. My style is different, I just hang around the club and just watch girls dance from a distance.
Somehow, they find me, then hustle me. If by chance I get a huge boner and we somehow get in the same page, we are good from then on.
Again, like I said. They hustle me, we agree to fuck and have beast mode sex. And when all that is done, what?
She has me by the balls--yeah dude, that is also why I'm stressed by that kind of showmanship in how she sets up the date and how she does it in bed. Kind of a mystery.
What do you think should I be feeling?
Like a lion roaring like a champ in the jungle?
Ok, I may be emotional on this but this journal entry is why I am dumping all that negative emotions out to garbage.
Get it?
It's so much much much fun I had fucking that girl. It's like a watching a good movie that stays in your for several days.
Like a lion roaring like a champ in the jungle?"
Honestly, yes. You had animal sex with a super hot chick. That can get me walking on air for DAYS. I might be tempted to write a "check out the awesome time I had" TR (I would definitely share it with my friends). Yes, that's how I think you should be feeling. Having negative emotions about having animal sex with a super hot stripper is a blinking red stopsign that you're doing something damaging and should stop, if you can't change course completely.
I agree with Subra, that stripper is being very clear about the nature of the transaction, P4P. She is not pretending to be your friend. It's not her fault that you see her as one.
It takes one (or a reformed one) to know one - LOL
Dude, have you had sex with a woman who is much more beautiful than the porn video shown below?
http://www.porntube.com/videos/stunning-…
Lemme tell ya, these kinds are hard to come by.
It's so easy falling in love with these girls, just look at them and you will feel this powerful energy surround you.
It's more powerful when she chases you like a prey and wants you to rape you like a choir boy.
And when she overpowers you by her stunning looks, what do you do?
She just sent me a text a while ago, about something that she would like to do in the near future.
Anyway, I'm feeling great right now. It's just that I need to get my head straightened out and not forget where she drew the line.
Man, I need to get busy today or I will keep thinking about her stunning looks all day.
But if you've done this many times then it's kinda pathetic. I admit it can be hard not to become emotionally involved with the ones who are really good. I've got a date in a few hours with my biggest stripper temptation, so I can't judge you. But still you can't fall in love with them, you can't think of them like a girlfriend, and you cannot get jealous about them playing with other guys. Doing any of those things is a recipe for disaster.
The fact that he uses words like "friend" and "date" show the self-destructive way he's thinking. But it works both ways -- using those words re-inforces the thought. Which is why, even if I bought into the DS concept -- which I don't -- I wouldn't use that term. Nothing in it for me to think of her as a "dream", once-in-a-lifetime kinda thing. Same goes for degrading terms ... nothing good can happen from thinking of them in those terms, so I don't use them unless I'm trying to smack some reality back into the head of someone who is saying "date" and "girlfriend" :)
These may be harsh words but you need to wake up and realize this dancer is just in it for the money, she is having sex with a client(you) for a price.
I am still new at this but even I can tell you this dancer does not see you as a friend or anything else beyond a customer/client if she refuses to get a meal with you just wanting to have sex and get paid. The dancer I have gotten very friendly with will talk to me ITC, and OTC, will go get meals with me, go to different local attractions like the aquarium, see the sights in the city, and most times just hang out before getting a room for sex. I still pay some of the time but your situation is not like that which should clue you in that it is a business relationship you have nothing more.
Somehow, they find me, then hustle me. If by chance I get a huge boner and we somehow get in the same page, we are good from then on.
Again, like I said. They hustle me, we agree to fuck and have beast mode sex. And when all that is done, what?
I do this in non extras clubs and it works very well
Somehow, they find me, then hustle me. If by chance I get a huge boner and we somehow get in the same page, we are good from then on.
Again, like I said. They hustle me, we agree to fuck and have beast mode sex. And when all that is done, what?”
that has to be the stupidest thing posted on here since jestrite50 insisted his prostitutes aren’t prostitutes and that he gives them money for them to spend just because but definitely not in exchange for giving him sex and that they fuck him because they want to and not because he gives them money. nope, no way are they prostitutes…uh what was i sayin? oh yeah, your post is fuckin’ retarded. where ever did you get such a stupid idea?
Like I said, I wrote this entry so I can detox my head. Clean up myself after the fact.
Dude, stop wasting your precious crap and shove it up there. I think I can detox myself without your shit.