My Stripper Friend

29 comments

• jackslash

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  9 years ago

  Welcome to the PL zone.
• jestrite50

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  9 years ago

  alabegonz You allowed her to take control of you. That's what the problem is. You need to stay in control of this situation. She has you wrapped around her finger. Yes she's gorgeous, yes she's easy, but don't let that cause you to lose control of the situation. I have 2 GFE OTC's going and at one time I had 3. But at no time did I ever let them take control of the date. They follow my lead or the date is off. She is in control now. You need to get that turned around or find another girl.
• Papi_Chulo

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  9 years ago

  The problem is in your title – if you are paying her to be w/ you she is not your friend and she does not want or care to be your friend. My 1 cent.
• shailynn

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  9 years ago

  Shit SJG is taking a break - alabegonz is picking up the slack
• Aravas

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  9 years ago

  Seems every stripper you meet is "beautiful" and you fall in love with them. Every discussion topic you make your making it a romance thing with these bitches it seems. Find yourself a woman and not these bitches cause it seems they have you by the balls.
• Aaron_hip

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  9 years ago

  how much did you spend?
• JamesSD

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  9 years ago

  Papi is right
• tumblingdice

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  9 years ago

  Alabegonz,we have been listening to your bullshit for quite a while [view link] seldom make a coherent sentence and leave readers shaking their heads. Four years ago I walked into a strip club and saw what I wanted,Veni,vidi,vici. She has what I want and I have what she wants. So get off your bus pass ass and bring something to the table.
• Bavarian

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  9 years ago

  Look on the bright side, you got laid.
• alabegonz

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  9 years ago

  "we have been listening to your bullshit" Thank you, man. Think of what I wrote a work of my imagination. It wasn't intended to entertain you, it was meant to be written so that I can bring this shit out of my mind.
• Subraman

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  9 years ago

  I'm struggling just a little to see what it is that's got you so upset. Is it this: ---> "Just like that, she disappeared into the weekend with not a text or a phone call." Essentially, you're too emotionally involved and you're hurt that she's not doing little things to show you that she really likes you and is thinking about you?
• alabegonz

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  9 years ago

  "Find yourself a woman and not these bitches cause it seems they have you by the balls." Oh man, you must be living in a different dimension. First of all, I don't look for any woman. My style is different, I just hang around the club and just watch girls dance from a distance. Somehow, they find me, then hustle me. If by chance I get a huge boner and we somehow get in the same page, we are good from then on. Again, like I said. They hustle me, we agree to fuck and have beast mode sex. And when all that is done, what? She has me by the balls--yeah dude, that is also why I'm stressed by that kind of showmanship in how she sets up the date and how she does it in bed. Kind of a mystery.
• Subraman

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  9 years ago

  BTW, I think this "she never actually wanted to go out and dine, she just wanted to cut to the chase and do it." makes this girl of yours AWESOME. She almost certainly knows how emotionally vulnerable you are, and instead of being a cunt and manipulating you for a brutal downfall, she's sending crystal-clear signals that no sane person could possibly miss, about what it is she's interested in and where her limits lie. I respect her for it -- I'm sure she could extract thousands from you, and eventually leave you shattered and crushed, if she pretended there was more to this,but instead, she's being ethical and merciful. I hope you tipped that girl.
• alabegonz

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  9 years ago

  "Essentially, you're too emotionally involved and you're hurt that she's not doing little things to show you that she really likes you and is thinking about you?" What do you think should I be feeling? Like a lion roaring like a champ in the jungle? Ok, I may be emotional on this but this journal entry is why I am dumping all that negative emotions out to garbage. Get it? It's so much much much fun I had fucking that girl. It's like a watching a good movie that stays in your for several days.
• Subraman

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  9 years ago

  "What do you think should I be feeling? Like a lion roaring like a champ in the jungle?" Honestly, yes. You had animal sex with a super hot chick. That can get me walking on air for DAYS. I might be tempted to write a "check out the awesome time I had" TR (I would definitely share it with my friends). Yes, that's how I think you should be feeling. Having negative emotions about having animal sex with a super hot stripper is a blinking red stopsign that you're doing something damaging and should stop, if you can't change course completely.
• Bavarian

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  9 years ago

  It's nice to have Papi Chulo and Subraman on this board. So much fucking wisdom. They really get how PLs think and feel. I agree with Subra, that stripper is being very clear about the nature of the transaction, P4P. She is not pretending to be your friend. It's not her fault that you see her as one.
• Papi_Chulo

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  9 years ago

  "... They really get how PLs think and feel ..." It takes one (or a reformed one) to know one - LOL
• alabegonz

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  9 years ago

  "Seems every stripper you meet is "beautiful" and you fall in love with them." Dude, have you had sex with a woman who is much more beautiful than the porn video shown below? [view link] Lemme tell ya, these kinds are hard to come by. It's so easy falling in love with these girls, just look at them and you will feel this powerful energy surround you. It's more powerful when she chases you like a prey and wants you to rape you like a choir boy. And when she overpowers you by her stunning looks, what do you do?
• alabegonz

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  9 years ago

  "Honestly, yes. You had animal sex with a super hot chick. That can get me walking on air for DAYS. I might be tempted to write a "check out the awesome time I had" TR (I would definitely share it with my friends). Yes, that's how I think you should be feeling. Having negative emotions about having animal sex with a super hot stripper is a blinking red stopsign that you're doing something damaging and should stop, if you can't change course completely." She just sent me a text a while ago, about something that she would like to do in the near future. Anyway, I'm feeling great right now. It's just that I need to get my head straightened out and not forget where she drew the line. Man, I need to get busy today or I will keep thinking about her stunning looks all day.
• mrrock

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  9 years ago

  I don't seethe problem. She's not your GF. She's not your "friend". She's a slut who fucks you for money. As long as you have the money take it for what it is.
• Estafador

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  9 years ago

  I don't understand. Did you pay for the sex? If so, why the hell is it something to brag about?
• JohnSmith69

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  9 years ago

  Was this the first time you've had this kind of session with a hot stripper? If so then I understand cause I felt similarly after my first date with my former ATF. That's why I wrote my article about busting my OTC cherry. But if you've done this many times then it's kinda pathetic. I admit it can be hard not to become emotionally involved with the ones who are really good. I've got a date in a few hours with my biggest stripper temptation, so I can't judge you. But still you can't fall in love with them, you can't think of them like a girlfriend, and you cannot get jealous about them playing with other guys. Doing any of those things is a recipe for disaster.
• Subraman

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  9 years ago

  ---> "She's not your GF. She's not your "friend". " The fact that he uses words like "friend" and "date" show the self-destructive way he's thinking. But it works both ways -- using those words re-inforces the thought. Which is why, even if I bought into the DS concept -- which I don't -- I wouldn't use that term. Nothing in it for me to think of her as a "dream", once-in-a-lifetime kinda thing. Same goes for degrading terms ... nothing good can happen from thinking of them in those terms, so I don't use them unless I'm trying to smack some reality back into the head of someone who is saying "date" and "girlfriend" :)
• Clackport

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  9 years ago

  Good luck Alabegonz!
• Eagle1191

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  9 years ago

  ................I have heard some strange and sad things but my god you are a sad little man Alabegonz to let a dancer have so much control and be calling this a "date", it was nothing of the sort and clearly she can do things to you that are not welcome but you just take it like a bitch. These may be harsh words but you need to wake up and realize this dancer is just in it for the money, she is having sex with a client(you) for a price. I am still new at this but even I can tell you this dancer does not see you as a friend or anything else beyond a customer/client if she refuses to get a meal with you just wanting to have sex and get paid. The dancer I have gotten very friendly with will talk to me ITC, and OTC, will go get meals with me, go to different local attractions like the aquarium, see the sights in the city, and most times just hang out before getting a room for sex. I still pay some of the time but your situation is not like that which should clue you in that it is a business relationship you have nothing more.
• 72_os

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  9 years ago

  First of all, I don't look for any woman. My style is different, I just hang around the club and just watch girls dance from a distance. Somehow, they find me, then hustle me. If by chance I get a huge boner and we somehow get in the same page, we are good from then on. Again, like I said. They hustle me, we agree to fuck and have beast mode sex. And when all that is done, what? I do this in non extras clubs and it works very well
• DoctorPhil

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  9 years ago

  72_os “First of all, I don't look for any woman. My style is different, I just hang around the club and just watch girls dance from a distance. Somehow, they find me, then hustle me. If by chance I get a huge boner and we somehow get in the same page, we are good from then on. Again, like I said. They hustle me, we agree to fuck and have beast mode sex. And when all that is done, what?” that has to be the stupidest thing posted on here since jestrite50 insisted his prostitutes aren’t prostitutes and that he gives them money for them to spend just because but definitely not in exchange for giving him sex and that they fuck him because they want to and not because he gives them money. nope, no way are they prostitutes…uh what was i sayin? oh yeah, your post is fuckin’ retarded. where ever did you get such a stupid idea?
• alabegonz

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  9 years ago

  "I am still new at this but even I can tell you this dancer does not see you as a friend or anything else beyond a customer/client if she refuses to get a meal with you just wanting to have sex and get paid. The dancer I have gotten very friendly with will talk to me ITC, and OTC, will go get meals with me, go to different local attractions like the aquarium, see the sights in the city, and most times just hang out before getting a room for sex. I still pay some of the time but your situation is not like that which should clue you in that it is a business relationship you have nothing more." Like I said, I wrote this entry so I can detox my head. Clean up myself after the fact.
• alabegonz

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  9 years ago

  "that has to be the stupidest thing posted on here since jestrite50 insisted his prostitutes aren’t prostitutes and that he gives them money for them to spend just because but definitely not in exchange for giving him sex and that they fuck him because they want to and not because he gives them money. nope, no way are they prostitutes…uh what was i sayin? oh yeah, your post is fuckin’ retarded. where ever did you get such a stupid idea?" Dude, stop wasting your precious crap and shove it up there. I think I can detox myself without your shit.