So I was at the club, and the CF was doing a dance for me. I got pretty heated like 10 seconds into it because I felt like it was supper mechanical (I'm a good tipper and this girls has made a super decent amount from me over the last few months). Anyway I throw her $20 dollars on the table and I'm like "Here's your fucking pay for the dance now get the fuck off me" She looked all shocked, bUT I got up preceeded to leave, but I was still a little heated and tipsy so I thought better about driving. Went back into the club, grabbed another dancer and told her "don't bullshit my dances like she just did"
Of course the whole time I'm getting my dance the CF is pretending to not look. After my dance is over, she comes at walks past like she's not going to say anything and I'm like " if you give me a dance I can get from anybody here, I'm gonna get my dances from anybody here" Then kept walking and she started yelling "WTF did I do wrong! Why are you being like this?"
And then she ran up to me to and grab me and keep me from leaving. (Yes I caved, but the next few dances went Hella good)
Anyway, my first time having any type of drama in the club. We haven't OTC"d and I don't have this bitches number or FB account. Thought that was a little too much from a person I haven't even fucked.
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Ten seconds? Seems like you didn't give her much a chance to get warmed up.
10 seconds into it doesn't seem like a reasonable amount of time to make a fair decision about her dancing IMHO. How drunk were you?
Eh...it's been long enough for her to know you have to start with your tits in my face. And maybe it was 30 sec
Damn dude, you tough on those girls! Were you on a hair trigger for some reason? I assume if she's a CF, you've known her a while...
Lover's quarrel to you, maybe. To her, it was a salvage job on a broken ATM.
^^ya well she's a hell of a repair-woman :)
Hey – if 10 seconds is enough for Ronda Rousey to do her work; it should be enough for the SC hos :)
I do think many of these chicks do need to be put in their place every now and then – we are the ones that are paying and on top of that many (dancers) cop an attitude and want to be the ones in charge - “he who holds the gold makes the rules”
You guys get all caught up in these broads!
Come'on Shailynn ...I get caught up in getting what I want when I want. Isn't that the point.
Seems awfully harsh to me from your description. Yes, sometimes they need tough love, and yes sometimes we are too slow at doing that because the little head is in charge. Nevertheless, your approach seemed too tough and not enough love.
It's not getting caught up. It's making sure that she remembers who's in charge.
@JS69 maybe it was harsh. And we did "kiss and make up" after the fact. But damn if I'm going to a club to MAYBE get what I want. If that were the case I soley stick to dating civii chicks, it's a lot less expensive .
Besides. I had on my white three peice...who is she to try to buck The System
Sometimes your regular girls will get a little lazy, every now and then they need a good kick in the butt (figure of speech).
SJG Where are you ????
Mom probably sent him to the grocery store for more gravy mix.
Dude.
You okay?
Don't get me wrong. I've fired faves when their quality dropped. I'm also an asshole who likes to keep making sure a girl earns my business by getting dances elsewhere. Nothing gets a girl's blood pumping like cozying up with another dancer when she thinks you're "her" customer.
You go to the SC partially to avoid this shit.
That said, maybe your direct approach was better than my passive aggressive method. I don't tell girls their dances suck, I just vote with my cash. Obviously your tantrum fixed the problem, so maybe it was the right choice.
@JamesSD maybe it's the forum.
But when I know a lazy dance when I get one. I'm usually friendly but when these girls just expect me to give my time and effort (money) away to them just because, that will get me a tad bit irate. Nobody is talking about love, but a small show of appreciation (which I returned in the former of tipping ) goes a long way.
Follow up: she pissed me off again. Now we just aren't speaking. Felt a little sorry having to watch her play on her phone all night while her coworkers were getting what would have usually been her dances. But at the end of the night I'm there for "my own good time" not because I'm in love....
Gotta keep these hos in check.
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