How should one go about in getting extras?
BigPoppa99
;)Florida-hooking up with Ms. EveHartley, since 2010!
A. Blindly get dances, in hopes she may or may not play with your stick...
B. Directly ask, and be upfront as to avoid any confusion and wasting of money? But also remember, of any possible repucussions- being labeled "that guy," by the other girls... Giving me a bad name...
= I only ask because my ATF knows the service I like, and on this particular day she was busy. Leaving the window open for me to try new talent. As awkward as I am I did. The next time she mentioned that some girls where talking about me- saying I wanted this... Giving me a title of, "that guy."
Reiterating, how do you find out, for sure, if extras are available?
Any help will be much appreciated!... Thanks!!
B. Directly ask, and be upfront as to avoid any confusion and wasting of money? But also remember, of any possible repucussions- being labeled "that guy," by the other girls... Giving me a bad name...
= I only ask because my ATF knows the service I like, and on this particular day she was busy. Leaving the window open for me to try new talent. As awkward as I am I did. The next time she mentioned that some girls where talking about me- saying I wanted this... Giving me a title of, "that guy."
Reiterating, how do you find out, for sure, if extras are available?
Any help will be much appreciated!... Thanks!!
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When she is gone, look for condoms, baby wipes, Kleenex, needles, speeding tickets, past due rent notices, tuition bill from a community college, shut off notice from gas company
When she is gone, look for condoms, baby wipes, Kleenex, needles, speeding tickets, past due rent notices, tuition bill from a community college, shut off notice from gas company"
Brilliant!
I always ask: "what kind of dances can I get for X amount of money"?
Almost every time, they reply: "what kind of dances do you like"? Or, "are you a naughty/dirty guy"?
If they reply: "I only give clean dances." I cut my lost time spent talking to them and look for someone else.
In general, however, spend some money on them first. Then they will probably be pitching some expensive vip option. I sometimes say that I'm interested but I prefer to spend that kinda money OTC where the club doesn't take a huge cut and we are not constantly be monitored by cameras and bouncers. Don't be creepy, be clear that you have some money to spend, and be clear that you're a safe respectful guy. Her reaction will either be positive, negative, or non-committal. If negative I usually move on unless my instincts are that she's just playing hard to get. For the other two reactions, just follow up and have a respectful conversation between two adults. Remember that it might take another couple visits for her to be comfortable so don't push too hard and look desperate, but don't let her string you along for multiple visits just to drain your wallet.
What do you like to do for fun?
So, have you gotten lucky yet tonight?
So, what turns you on?
I can't tell you how many times their response goes straight to the clear indication that extras are available. Then, game on. If they dance around my questions, it gets admittedly trickier -- maybe then a more direct approach will be needed -- or I move on to greener pastures. Like fishing, just accept that not every worm catches a fish.
Although I see your point, I think that tiredtraveler would have a point if he struck out the word "democratic"! I suspect plenty of successful republican pols drop trou and wait for their security details or aides to bring willing pussy! Except for those with a wide stance in the men's room, of course!
Bill Clinton was (and is) a busy man who was actually a better president than Bush or Obama by a long shot! If he wants his security detail to get him pretty girls I say brilliant for him! ;)
I don't understand the chubby intern though! I remember Jennifer Flowers in Penthouse from my high scool days, however, and she was brilliant! ;)
4Got -- Agreed. Get the Prez a quick blowjob and then back to working on the nation's business. Especially for Bill being married to THAT lesbian troll. Since President's don't do the job for the money, there should be other perks.
The customer is the one spending – too many custies give too many dancers too much control where they end up spending their money doing what the dancer wants instead of what the custy wants.
It's *business* and theres nothing wrong w/ asking for what you want; as long as one asks politely.
Not all dancers are going to do what one likes; in most clubs perhaps most won't – so one has two choices:
a) still do dances with the dancer even if she does not go as far as you'd like as long as you still enjoy the dances
b) or just hold out for the dancers that will give you what you want
So I would just ask and then consider one of the 2 options above.
In my personal experience; as long as you are spending $$$ most dancers won't avoid you – BUT – if you are a one club kinda guy then there is more of an issue if you get a reputation in the club.
IMO – I would not care what the strippers think b/c I am there to enjoy myself not to make *them* feel comfortable by spending *my* $$$ doing what *they* like/want.
What's an "Extra"?
Never gotten any in the years I've been clubbing in Detroit. lol. ;)
Use RickyBoy's The System.
What I do is search various strip club websites for information on the club, to get an idea on what is allowed at the club, and possibly some names. Then when I enter the club I look for the dancers who appeal to me who get a lot of lap dances, and ask for a dance.
I can tell typically tell within 30 seconds whether a dancer is good, and if she is then I'll start testing her limits. If she offers extras she'll start hinting at or even outright offering extras. If she doesn't by the second song then she won't.
:)
Instead of asking I tell. I tell her all the things I'd like to do with her. Sometimes she'll say sure. Sometimes she'll say she doesn't do that, then change her mind at a later time.
The difference may seem like splitting hairs, but by laying it all out to her in an assertive way, I believe it keeps the possibility open better than to keep asking her over and over again.