Which do you prefer food first or sex first?

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shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Seems like ever since the beginning of time men have taken women out on dates that usually include dinner and the hope is that you will wind up in the sack with her. Many of us who P4P include dinner in the package.

I have always had a nervous stomach when it comes to eating before sex. My mind is one what I hope is going to happen later. As a result I have a loss of appetite and barely touch my meal. As I have gotten older not only do I still have that nervous stomach but now after eating a nap sounds like a good idea too.

So now when doing OTC I prefer to have an afternoon delight followed by an early dinner, send her home and then fall asleep on the couch watching TV.

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Bigbiznezz
10 years ago
I don't think I want to be bothered with a chick after the sexual encounter. So if she is dressed nice and very flirty. Then dinner first sounds good always. Which will lead to a lot of foreplay and talking shit. Movie sounds good too. I always want to see the movie that's been out the longest so not that many people are there. If she has a skirt on. Easy access baby. I guess with me its all about making memories when it comes to getting the pussy. Lol
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tumblingdice
10 years ago
Service,sushi,cinema then sack time.
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warhawks
10 years ago

I can see your point Shadow.

Problem for me would be: If it's truly a P4P, then it had to be dinner first and then sex. I don't want the girl hanging around afterwards.

However, if it's more of a girlfriend/someone I want to see on a regular basis without money changing hands.. Then I do the sex before, dinner/movie after.

Like I'd mentioned before, one of the all time great lines I have ever heard in regards to this is: "Don't ever pay the girl to stick around... Pay the girl to leave."
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georgmicrodong
10 years ago
Why does one or the other have to be first? :)

More seriously, I don't eat heavily before the sex. A snack or a drink, yeah, but I don't want my stomach all riled up.
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JohnSmith69
10 years ago
We usually eat before sex but we keep it light. Or if we had a late lunch we might fuck first and then order a pizza. I try never to send her home because she has my favorite pillows.
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Estafador
10 years ago
A nap!? WTF, is this what old people do nowadays? I thought you fall asleep after sex? I am hungry as crap after i blow my load before I'm ready to dive back in 20 minutes later
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rockstar666
10 years ago
Food first. It's great foreplay in itself, and I hate fucking on an empty stomach.
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sharkhunter
10 years ago
If I'm starving, I'm not going to enjoy sex very much. Now I'm waiting for a hot girl who wants to argue with me.
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seaboardrr
10 years ago
For planned nightly activities I like to eat before hand but nothing real heavy. After 1-2hrs of sex I def need to eat again and recharge.
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san_jose_guy
10 years ago
The tradition for dates is food first. But when hanging out with women I have often been irritated by their seeming obsession with food. Usually when it goes that way, the sex is going to be crappy.

So I would say that if you really want results, sex first should be the way.

I think a place like that Cascadas Hotel over the Hong Kong Bar is set up to be sex first, then the sauna or food or napping, and then more sex. I think this is the best way.

I am not a fan of car key wallet dates. Only when necessary, not otherwise.

SJG
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Papi_Chulo
10 years ago
If it's P4P I don't see the point in taking her to dinner unless the PL himself wants that as part of the experience (i.e like it was a date) – if one is settting up something w/ an escort; will one be also thinking of taking her to dinner or just showing up and doing the deed.

Again – when it comes to P4P I only see anything other than the fucking as somehting the PL wants and not necesserily something that needs/should be done for the entertainer as if was a civvie date – nor do I really think the enterntainer wants or expects to be taken to dinner as perhaps a civvi would.

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Papi_Chulo
10 years ago
I think I've heard that sex after a large meal is not a good/healthy thing; similar to exercising soon after a large meal.
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mikeya02
10 years ago
Just eat a snickers before sex
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motorhead
10 years ago

When I was in NYC, I found myself walking down 5th Avenue with two buddies. The Three Musketeers decided to go separate ways in search of Mr. Goodbar -- er, I mean Miss. I had 100 Grand in my pocket and was seeking a gal in search of a big PayDay.

I stopped at the Clark Bar and had a drink. I was hoping to Skor with this really hot chick who noticed my big bulge. We ducked into the alley and started to make out. I removed her shirt revealing a pair of marvelous Mounds.

I soon inserted a Butterfinger in her Milky Way and she screamed out, Oh Henry! I felt a Bit-O-Honey. We then had a Rolo in the hay. I soon busted a ZagNut. I offered her some cash, but she said I owed her Zero.

9 months later, Baby Ruth was born.

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mikeya02
10 years ago
That's pretty NutRageous
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ATACdawg
10 years ago
Snicker, snicker!
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jester214
10 years ago
I'll work up the appetite first.
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