Which do you prefer food first or sex first?
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Seems like ever since the beginning of time men have taken women out on dates that usually include dinner and the hope is that you will wind up in the sack with her. Many of us who P4P include dinner in the package.
I have always had a nervous stomach when it comes to eating before sex. My mind is one what I hope is going to happen later. As a result I have a loss of appetite and barely touch my meal. As I have gotten older not only do I still have that nervous stomach but now after eating a nap sounds like a good idea too.
So now when doing OTC I prefer to have an afternoon delight followed by an early dinner, send her home and then fall asleep on the couch watching TV.
I have always had a nervous stomach when it comes to eating before sex. My mind is one what I hope is going to happen later. As a result I have a loss of appetite and barely touch my meal. As I have gotten older not only do I still have that nervous stomach but now after eating a nap sounds like a good idea too.
So now when doing OTC I prefer to have an afternoon delight followed by an early dinner, send her home and then fall asleep on the couch watching TV.
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I can see your point Shadow.
Problem for me would be: If it's truly a P4P, then it had to be dinner first and then sex. I don't want the girl hanging around afterwards.
However, if it's more of a girlfriend/someone I want to see on a regular basis without money changing hands.. Then I do the sex before, dinner/movie after.
Like I'd mentioned before, one of the all time great lines I have ever heard in regards to this is: "Don't ever pay the girl to stick around... Pay the girl to leave."
More seriously, I don't eat heavily before the sex. A snack or a drink, yeah, but I don't want my stomach all riled up.
So I would say that if you really want results, sex first should be the way.
I think a place like that Cascadas Hotel over the Hong Kong Bar is set up to be sex first, then the sauna or food or napping, and then more sex. I think this is the best way.
I am not a fan of car key wallet dates. Only when necessary, not otherwise.
SJG
Again – when it comes to P4P I only see anything other than the fucking as somehting the PL wants and not necesserily something that needs/should be done for the entertainer as if was a civvie date – nor do I really think the enterntainer wants or expects to be taken to dinner as perhaps a civvi would.
When I was in NYC, I found myself walking down 5th Avenue with two buddies. The Three Musketeers decided to go separate ways in search of Mr. Goodbar -- er, I mean Miss. I had 100 Grand in my pocket and was seeking a gal in search of a big PayDay.
I stopped at the Clark Bar and had a drink. I was hoping to Skor with this really hot chick who noticed my big bulge. We ducked into the alley and started to make out. I removed her shirt revealing a pair of marvelous Mounds.
I soon inserted a Butterfinger in her Milky Way and she screamed out, Oh Henry! I felt a Bit-O-Honey. We then had a Rolo in the hay. I soon busted a ZagNut. I offered her some cash, but she said I owed her Zero.
9 months later, Baby Ruth was born.