A chill ran up my spine

At least you found out before you said the wrong thing in front of him.

“… Makes me wonder what the deal is …”

The reasons why people hook up are as varied as the individuals themselves and is not necessarily always, or maybe even often, b/c of “love”.

...and we all know some of our more perverted buddies who are into stuff like that.

my goodness... so many what ifs right?

1. maybe he's totally clueless to what she does with custies in the VIP
2. maybe he's more of a 'pimp' type figure and gets a cut of her earnings
3. just like GACA said, there's a lot of sick fucks out there that love the idea of other guys bangin' their woman
4. he just doesn't care, as in she can do what ever she needs to do to earn money

So she sat down and started talking to him with your jizz on her breath or did she at least rinse?

Seeing how we always hear about bad stripper BF's maybe he's a PL BF who depends on her earnings to support him and doesn't care what she has to do to bring him home some cash. I can hear it now, "baby, the power bill is due wednesday so you need to suck at least 3 dicks tonight"

Forget about their relationship. Just be glad you found out before you felt you could open up and tell him how good that stripper can suck a dick in case he wanted to give her a try. That could've been an awkward convo.

My ATF's BF is the cook in the place she works. She is in her early 20s and her philosophy in life is to sleep with as many people as possible - customers and/or non-customers. Since I am not very social in the club, I'm not sure whether this is common knowledge? I never asked her if her BF knows, but I would think he should have some indication working so close with her. They do not live together, but shouldn't he be suspicious when she is not available weekend evenings/night?

I was at one of my favorite clubs many years ago sitting with 2 or 3 other TUSCL buddies. So I took good ole Gwen to the couch room. Got my usual blow job and when I came out I went straight for the men's room to finish cleaning up. When I got back to the table the guys were laughing their asses off. "What's up" I ask. Apparently Gwen came out of the couch room and immediately jumped onto some guys lap and started kissing him.

We often wonder what ever happened to her. LOL.

What exactly is the problem that you see GMD? That someone trusts their SO, and has gotten past irrational jealousy and possessiveness? Would it bother you if your girlfriend paid to eat raw oysters, let alone got paid to eat them?

Did it cross your mind that "I wanna sit with my BF" is really "I want to sit with someone who doesn't bore the fuck out of me"?

The boyfriend likes an attractive warm body occasionally and the relationship started in the club. It's about the same as having a fav and sharing her with her customer base, which is what we all do.

I get the caution; you worry that he doesn't know and would get pissed if he found out. Even if that's not the most likely scenario, it's still a real possibility.

Next time you see the dancer ask her what's up. Could be open relationship, could be pimping her. You don't know.

My ATF has lived with a guy around 5 years and they don't have sex. I know this for a fact...so you never know how relationships are. In her case, she has a g/f she's (mostly) loyal to.

Could just be a very open relationship. Any idea if she was stripping before or after they got together? And now that you know who he is, any idea if you'll continue getting any dances from her when he's around?