Privacy (or lack of)

17 comments

• shadowcat

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  9 years ago

  Try to arrange for OTC.
• JohnSmith69

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  9 years ago

  Sounds like Mons Venus. Shadowcat it right, otc is the only realistic option. If you stay ITC you have to settle for a lapgasm.
• chandler

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  9 years ago

  I've gotten blow jobs and sex on floor dances in different clubs many times, and I've seen others doing it. YMMV, however, as for taking it to completion without a private room. Usually, the girl knows how to block what she's doing well enough by positioning her body and our clothing, or a table or chair. Or she may get a dancer friend to both help block the view and stand watch. On one occasion, the friend joined in for a deep throating contest. Actually, fucking is easier to disguise, especially if you're a fan of reverse cowgirl. With a blow job, her head bobbing on my lap is kind of a giveaway.
• Club_Goer_Seattle

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  9 years ago

  I had a fave for several years who had long straight hair, and she simply used it to drape around certain activities to make her dances a little less visible. But, as Chandler mentioned I don't think that could have obscured a blow job.
• fastscrs

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  9 years ago

  I have fucked a dancer at this same "no privacy" club while in the reverse cowgirl position. Yes, it is easier to get away with than a blowjob. Maybe the best approach is the OTC idea with me saying to her something like, "What I want I don't think you can give me here. We need to arrange an OTC meeting."
• mjx01

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  9 years ago

  I can think of at least one Toronto area club (review by farmerart) when anything can be had even though the activities are done in a fairly open room. So, it depends on the club. If you've been to this club enough times to be confident that it's more like Mons Venus (JS69), then OTC is the only option.
• JohnSmith69

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  9 years ago

  Even if you could do it in a subtle way and keep it hidden, quality would be poor. It would be rushed, you would both be keeping an eye on others, and you might get interrupted multiple times. Better to seek otc or a club with private rooms.
• rbn1956

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  9 years ago

  In Corpus Christi one afternoon a drunk dancer took me into a corner of the room. There was no one else in the club except the bar and wait staff. As soon as we started she put my finger in her pussy and started rubbing her clit. She said put another finger in. I did and started finger fucking her. Don't know how long it took but she came. I then said my turn. She jerked me off, caught the cum in her hand and them wipped her hands off on a table cloth. Felt sorry for who ever sat at that table later.
• Tiredtraveler

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  9 years ago

  in Bogarts in Detroit the private area was open and you better not be self conscience because the girls weren't. FS might be going on in the folding chair next to you.
• Papi_Chulo

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  9 years ago

  I primarily go to dives where dances are on the floor – not even in couches on the side – usually right at your table or barstool. But most of these dives usually have one single-person closet-sized “VIP room” – does your club not even have a closet-sized VIP room? Yeah – getting your dick sucked is just too obvious unless is something commonly done at the club and this type of club is an extreme rarity. See if there are any hourly motels nearby and see if you can arrange something post shift w/ a dancer.
• chandler

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  9 years ago

  Obviously, getting extras out on the floor is less than the ideal in many ways, but it makes up for it in sheer pulse racing immediacy. That and OTC both have their appeal for me depending on my mood, the girl and the opportunities. IMO booking a hotel room in order to get a blow job is kind of overkill. I don't think the OP should give up on trying for new types of kicks at a club he says loves for the slutty action.
• farmerart

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  9 years ago

  My beloved Toronto area pus buckets are not for the faint of heart. The old Cannonball Cabaret in Brampton was particularly scuzzy. If a PL takes a dancer to VIP in any of those joints your shyness and dignity must be left behind at the entrance. I remember one afternoon at New Locomotion my dancer led me to the VIP on the left of the main stage. Bright sunshine was streaming through the windows. 2 dancers were head bobbing and another was bouncing. It was surreal, like doing the nasty in the glare of a spotlight. Bogarts VIP before the curtains was a very public place as were the two Henrys before the modest upgrades a few years ago. I haven't been in Arnie's since the fire.......any changes to the VIP? Prior to the fire Arnie's VIP was totally public with the sole saving grace of being darker than the asshole of Hades.
• PhantomGeek

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  9 years ago

  If there's a dark corner of the parking lot, maybe she'd be up for a car date? The only problem with that would be that it could attract a more unwelcome audience.
• fastscrs

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  9 years ago

  Car date in the parking lot is a good idea. She can just say she's going on a break. Nice and simple. There are "room by the hour" motels in the area.....$25 for two hours with two porn channels on the TV. Taking her there would be for more than a blow job. Some good ideas and comments...thanks, guys.
• chandler

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  9 years ago

  Hell, if the club allows strippers to leave "on a break" and return, that's a whole new ballgame. I bet some of them are familiar faces at those hot sheet motels. At most clubs, they wouldn't be allowed to return and finish their shift, and they might have to pay a penalty.
• san_jose_guy

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  9 years ago

  I've read on Black Strip Clubs dot Net of places where there are no booths or VIP rooms, and so people just take their girl to the couches in the dark corners and proceed with FS. In swingers clubs they encourage people to do as much as possible in full view of others. It gets everyone loosened up. So why not at a strip club? When a club has some special architectural device, then that is also a toll gate. It is how the house takes a bigger cut of the money. And then besides this, doing it that way limits your ability to interact with the girl freely. When they force all action into these devices, then you are forced to take a more passive role in dealing with her, and to accept this idea of "buying dances", as opposed to just treating her like a civilian date and moving on her. The more you can do in the front room the better. The girl does not have to cut her money with the house. You can still be leading it, instead of letting her perform a service upon you. So stay into the front room until you absolutely have to seek privacy.. I can't speak to where you are. But there most certainly have been clubs where a BJ or FS in the front room is common. People on TUSCL have posted accounts of such. In some places they keep it extremely dark to facilitate this. Some day I plan to try driving a small motor home into the parking lots of some of these places. I'll have an overcoat of my own, to throw over the girl as I promenade her out the door, still in her full stripper regalia. SJG Rolling Stones [view link]
• the mighty quinn

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  9 years ago

  A couple clubs in the Seattle area added VIPs areas. This lead to much more privacy and many more dancers providing BJs and FSs. Both BJs and FS was available before these additions and dances were cheaper without the VIP area. Slower times in the club (weekdays early afternoons) were easier to get a good BJ. I think part of this was the manager on duty not caring what was going on.