What's the right answer?

"Fuck off, bitch."

Who's on first?

Shit

Neither. My answer is sorry, I'm saving the seat for somebody [hotter than you].

I agree with chandler.

I'm waiting for someone else

For her there is no right answer other than “yes” – it’s usually a waste of time trying to reason w/ them – just a no-thanks and then ignoring them if they persist is the best way to deal w/ it.

I did have a girl ask one time, in a very reasonable time, "May I ask why not?" So I told her the reasons, basically a cold approach, and not taking the time to work up to it. She said "thanks" and walked away.

A month later, I was meeting her in motel rooms, she became my first ATF.

There's a school of sales thought that involves not taking no for an answer and trying to overcome every objection. But if taken too far it means trying to sell a motorcycle to someone who wants an SUV.

dont fuk it up for someone else slowly let her down, and hopefully she finds a way to cheer up and change her approach

Dancer: would you like a lap dance?

Me: thanks but no.

Dancer: what?

Me: (thinking she just didn't hear me over the music) No thank you.

Dancer: why?

me: because... because YOU FUCKING SUCK!!! THAT'S WHY!!!!!

I always wanted to do that to some annoying fuglie or to some hot do-nothing bitch.

Truth: "Sorry, your not my type"

Dancer: "Why?" / "What's your type?"

Partial Truth: "Sorry, can't really explain it, I just know if a chick is when I see her."

I hate the "what's your type" question. I also hate it when a dancer offers to find me a girl. Just because I like blonde girl next door types and young latinas doesn't mean every pretty young thing has the right skills to empty my wallet (and certain body parts).

I will sometimes tell the MILFS/fake titted/heavily tatooed chicks I like GND types if I want them to go away. That said, the VAST majority take no for an answer. The smart ones do want to figure out if it's a soft no (I'm not buying dances now/tonight) vs. a hard no (never approach me again, thanks).

These girls aren't masters of rhetoric or have some brilliant mind that will lead you into some circular logic ... unless you sit back and let them, like many of the beta males do. At the point I say no and she starts asking questions, I turn things around and ask questions back.

Her: Why not?
Me: You're beautiful but not my type. Who do you think is?
Her: That blonde over there
Me: Why in the world do you think I like blondes?

In any case, once I've politely declined, she doesn't get to ask questions anymore -- or, she can ask, but I'm not answering any questions, I'm changing the conversation to me asking the questions. She can play along and answer them (which I don't mind, it can be fun when a girl plays along) or, 99% of the time, she frustrated that she's not leading the conversation and realizes at this point I'm wasting her time, and excuses herself.

In short: the ONLY wrong answer is ANY answer, once you've politely declined. Take control of the conversation, let her waste her time playing guessing games about who your type is, change your reply to a question and she can either stand there playing guessing games or GTFO

if you really want them to leave

Truth: "Sorry, your not my type"

Dancer: "Why?" / "What's your type?"

Truth: Girls that do Anal,

Dancer: i dont do that ...bye.

if she says yes / ok - well you got a keeper