Really upset right now
Friday, February 13, 2015 10:10 PM
Need to vent again ( I know this is not stripperweb. Sorry)
To me, strippers should make me feel good about myself, not like shit. How ironic that I consider a stripper my CF when I have had more bad times than good times since I met her.
I am the type of PL that picks a favorite and stays "loyal" to her until I no longer feel attraction. I visited my last favorite for about a year before I stopped getting dances from her. She used to ignore my texts when I asked about her schedule. That really screwed up my self esteem and made me feel worthless. I understand that civvies ignore men they are not interested in, but why would a stripper do that if she is going to make money?
It felt good to find a new favorite. That good feeling did not last long though. The second time I saw her, I asked for her phone number, she refused. I asked, what day she was most likely to come in, she answered Monday. I only saw her for two Mondays straight. Since then, I have not seen her for three weeks. This week, I went Monday, Tuesday and today, Friday. A dancer informed me that she saw my CF, Wednesday and Thursday. I only go to the club to spend on my CF, so it upsets me that I have gone to the club like 5 times and she's not there. My CF could save me time, and money spent on cover and drinks if she would just give me her phone number.
I have reached the point where I feel like I need closure. Next time I see her, it will be the last time I ask for her phone number. If she refuses, I am done with strip clubs for a while. This whole situation of wasting time at the club has left me in a really bad mood that's affecting my life too much.
P.S. I took a buddy to the club today so that at least I have someone to talk to if my CF is not there again. A dancer comes over to our table. My buddy takes her for a dance. After one dance, they come back and he asks the dancer for her phone number. She gives it to him with no hesitation. She's young, tall, slender and has a beautiful face. My buddy is far from having game or being a hunk. So there you go, he spends $20 and gets a phone number. I have spent $500 on my CF and all I got was frustration.
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