Everyone else who's slightly confused: There are far too many around here who expect EVERYONE to enjoy SCs the way that they enjoy them. That any other way is wrong.
Usually this translates to something like, "If your end goal -- and you'd better get there damn fast -- isn't to fuck every dancer possible in the left nostril while your pet ferret crawls up her ass, well then, you're just a PL."
Enjoying seeing naked women: totally unacceptable.
Enjoying a conversation with a hot woman: totally unacceptable.
Enjoying a little grind action and stick-shifting: totally unacceptable.
Enjoying the "chase", in and of itself: totally unacceptable.
Enjoying paying ridiculous prices for drinks: totally unacceptable.
Etc, etc, etc
I've called "bullshit" on this way of "thinking" several times. To state that there's only one way to do anything of a sexual nature is stupendously idiotic. But it only recently occurred to me that it's also stupid because it's my damn money.